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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Eluwilussit(m): 1:04pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Blanc8: Yes o! Nothing dey happen. On a serious note, fights in marriages are overrated. Humans fight. Some times, it is inevitable but most times it is avoidable. It is never advisable to hit anyone. Especially a woman. I feel for the guy. His wife will never truly forgive him. Women seldom forgive such things, not to talk of forgetting. He will have to live and deal with it. I hope he has learned his lessons. Emmmm, while we are at it, dude can ask his wife to tear him a hot one too. 1 Like |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by imoni1010: 1:05pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Just be calm |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by adesbreath: 1:08pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
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Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by onatisi(m): 1:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
myfantasies:u maybe right |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by poik(m): 1:10pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
insycarc:Suddenly the man alone is the villain. The woman suddenly is the Hail Mary. Our world....Even so, Lord Jesus, come quickly.... |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ladyF(f): 1:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
All these woman beater. God please save us from them o, may they never cross my path IJN 2 Likes |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by favourlove1: 1:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
CertifiedFreak:pls, let me ask...are u high? 3 Likes |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Ninilowo(m): 1:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Sorry dear. Everything thing is gonna be alright. It's a matter of time. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Menzy86(m): 1:31pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Call her, give yourself two hot slaps b4 her, tell her u r sorry and love her more than anything then ask to kiss her a little there and then. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by oyiboafrica(m): 1:38pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
OP,it has also happened to me once but you know that we all are unique because my wife understand me so well that for me to slap her,that she really hurt me below the belt.To cut the long story short,we gave each other some time and space,talked about it and it never happened again since then and we love and respects each other better now. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Dom2020: 1:38pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Bros just be patient with her, if she truly care about u as her husband she' ll come around. but pls don't ever raise ur hands on ur wife again. I have learned to walk away when ever the's a heated argument in my home, stay out for an hour or two an when am back i'll go straight to my room. that way I avoid those shouting match. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by talk2bity: 1:40pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
please don't u ever do that again. buy her some gifts,cook for her,spend more time wit her.tanx me later |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Ori12: 1:53pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
let ur pastor intervene,ur wife will forgive u totally unless she is not a true christian |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Okies27(m): 2:04pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
draftmaster:. If your wife is reading this, then it will be very very good. I am not married though but I know perfectly how it feels when a man hits his wife. NLs don't ask me how I know. I know both of you already talked about it but the space she said she wants if where I don't like cos some negativity might set into the space. She will play the scenario all over again in that space and before she knows it she's let something worse set in. She better use that space to tell you what you did was wrong n reassure you of her love to you. She should tell you not to do it again and if possible say things that will really make you melt inside. If it was me, sex will be great this moment. And as for you, the idiot(don't ask me why I'm calling you that and please forgive me for using it), make your head dey your neck. You don't wanna see what kids go through as a result of dad beating on mum. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ImpactWorld(m): 2:08pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Give her a handwritten letter of apology. Write it like a poem and show her how much you love her in the same piece. So, its both an apology and a love letter! Good luck 1 Like |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ganwill(m): 2:13pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Take her out on a romantic date... Buy her flowers and write her sweet love messages.... Make her feel like the happiest woman on earth... Then apologize to her again... And keep ur word never to hit her again. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by CertifiedFreak(m): 2:23pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
favourlove1:How would the extent of my lucidity aid you? |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by rastamouse: 2:25pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
You have to buy her a car. I also made a horrible mistake by cheating on my wife. She forgave me but I only felt comfortable after buying her a corolla |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by SHAIBULIAR: 2:28pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
could you pls help with your wife's phone number,i need to have one on one counsel with her while i will advice you to meet your pastor for counselling |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by SHAIBULIAR: 2:30pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
ladyF:i doesnt beat womens,will you marry me pls? |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by ladyF(f): 2:33pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
SHAIBULIAR:lol I does beat men very well Sir, you would not want to marrying me. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by fireforfire: 2:43pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
CertifiedFreak:English tisha u think.evryone is a wife beater like u?? Ur on.ur own 2 Likes |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Bros |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by laprince(m): 2:48pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
midehi2: I think he has a strong point. you're in love now, because, of the interest you see in the person. Chikena!!! |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by CertifiedFreak(m): 2:50pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
fireforfire:It takes a wife beater to know another. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by Henovy: 2:57pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
cruzita:Una just dey yarn like say the guy na money tree. How are you sure she does not have a car or/and iphone 6 already. Love is not about money. Op, what did she mean by break? Does she want to go to her parents home temporarily? or just stay away in another room? or no more in talking terms? I swear, that is no more marriage. Having apologized, if she cannot forgive you then I have no more advise for you. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by eodavids(m): 3:27pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Man let me give you the SOLUTION: Tomorrow mornings give her a surprising body language by waking up earlier than usual and washing her personal effects including undies where available. By the time she wakes up you should be in the kitchen making her favourite meal. What I just told you is equivalent to you kneeling in remorse and more benefitial to her than actual kneelinng down b/4 her. If it does not put smile on her face then the issue between you two is more that what you told us. Good luck! |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by patkoton(f): 3:28pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Be patient with her. She's still upset due to that slap. It is now you have to express more love and care to her. Don't worry, she'll get over it. |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by harveyspec: 3:48pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
praxisnetworks: I kinda of understand you, I'm not an advocate for violence but certain occasions, hiting someone will be justified. There is a way you flog a child it shows love/correction & in another way it will become child abuse. You don't flog to inflict injuries or cause bodily harm so also you are not to beat up a woman as though you are dealing with another man, neither are you to hit with your might!!! At the end of the day, it comes down to adopt the model that best rocks your boat. A lady that tells you she NEVER SAW HER DAD HIT THE MUM, will equally tell you when probed further that, SHE NEVER SAW HER MUM EMASCULATE/INSULT/CONDESCEND HER DAD. for such a lady, she won't condone violence & will rarely do things that will call for a slap excerpt she ends up with a naturally occurring abusive man. I still stand by this:IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE SLAPPED, DON'T EMASCULATE/INSULT/CONDESCEND |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by fabulous01(m): 3:50pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Ask God to forgive you first, if God does her heart will open up to u again. After dat, take her our for dinners, lunch or a special occasions. Make her happy and smile always. Ask her frequent question....baby wht do u want to eat, Drink..... Just start pampering her..... She wii love u again Who that find good wife........ |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by eodavids(m): 4:21pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
patkoton:[color=#006600][/color] You are matured and unbiased in your comment. Good lady you are. Keep it up! |
Re: I Made A Horrible Mistake With My Lovely Wife by leslip: 4:45pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
I WISH MY HUSBAND WILL OFFEND ME AND FEEL THIS SORRY AND MAKE AMENDS, YOUR WIFE IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE YOU. |
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