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I'll try and make this as brief as possible. Have been dating this guy for almost a year now. Things were going smoothly till he travelled(outside the country)early this year, I got to find out he is married but the wife stays outside and he has relocated to go be with her. After he left, his best friend started calling me often, sending me messages, tryna check on me and all that. I didn't really take it serious till few days ago, he called me and was like since we both didn't av a date for val, let him take me out. I obliged. He took me to a fancy restaurant and was telling me how much he has always loved me and had wanted to tell me about his friend but didn't wanna betray him. I was shocked outta ma senses when he brought out a ring and proposed in front of everyone. Now my question is, can u marry ur ex's best friend, can I really trust this guy, isn't he like his friend. He's a nice guy really but I dnt know if i can marry him. Your advice'll really be appreciated.

I don't even know what to say...ur bf is married and he is not.anyways u have to be very careful in this kind of matter

Run and get that ring befor u forget u ganna be thirty tomorrow

Think about it....

[color=#FF0000]Is he financially stable [/color]

Propose just like that? I pity you. All your front teeth go soon comot with terrible blows from him then u would wish u knew him better.

fuckgratulations

Are you related to Gollum Smeagol?

mhenn....



Eleyi gidi gan ooo





Just be careful OP



Marriage isn't something to be rushed into



#Adonis3HasSopken

Was it a no-sex relationship u had with d run-away-lover? Else d guy just wanna chop him part Are u sure he's not gonna use u for rituals?

Hmmmm If u post that ring on Olx how much will u tag?

RoyalBlak007:
[color=#FF0000]Is he financially stable [/color]

mumu question from mumuni

better dont reply my mention

My dear. Thread carefully. Proposing at that early stage is somehow fishy. Tell him you need time to know each other more, watch him carefully. It's better you remain single for few more months than to walk into a "for-better-for-worse wife-battery marriage. Cheers

so what did you do when he brought out the ring

jamex93:
mumu question from mumuni

better dont reply my mention

D.R.A.M.A thats what you are..
[color=#FF0000] D=dumb[/color]
[color=#FF0000]R=retaard [/color]
[color=#FF0000]A=asking for [/color]
[color=#FF0000]M=more [/color]
[color=#FF0000]A=attention [/color]

Elosky20:
fuckgratulations

Perfect Compliment.

Your Ass has been pummeled for a whole year.
That was Infantry.

Now, another Invader is at the gate.
This time, Its heavy artillery.

Double fuckgratulations.

missingrib:
I don't even know what to say...ur bf is married and he is not.anyways u have to be very careful in this kind of matter

My ex is married, but never told me abt it. Now his best friend proposed

Obinovictor:
My dear. Thread carefully. Proposing at that early stage is somehow fishy. Tell him you need time to know each other more, watch him carefully. It's better you remain single for few more months than to walk into a "for-better-for-worse wife-battery marriage. Cheers

Thanks for the advice. I appreciate

TheAziz:
so what did you do when he brought out the ring

Had to hug him to save him the embarrassment but I didn't take the ring.told him I needed time

handsomeclouds:
Was it a no-sex relationship u had with d run-away-lover?
Else d guy just wanna chop him part
Are u sure he's not gonna use u for rituals?

Av known him for as long as i've known my ex, Although not personally. D ritual part is out of it

He proposed too early
Don't take it serious..

RoyalBlak007:
[color=#FF0000]Is he financially stable [/color]

Am I going to marry his financial status

mizzkweenbee:
Am I going to marry his financial status

[color=#FF0000]Tell truth...would you even consider dating him if he were broke? am ready for lies though...can yu marry a poor man [/color]

I can never date my friend's ex no matter how beautiful she is. This guy had to date his friend's ex. Who does that? It is sad that you even agreed to date him. Instead of you to run far from such guys.

Well, maybe you don't value loyalty. A man that cannot let his friend's ex be is a man without loyalties.

mizzkweenbee:
Am I going to marry his financial status

u are my kind of woman, not all this girls looking for dangota son

Get to know him better......if you rush into marriage you will rush out of it..........who knows, he may not also have genuine intentions like his friend....after all, they say birds of a feather....................

RoyalBlak007:
D.R.A.M.A thats what you are..
[color=#FF0000] D=dumb[/color]
[color=#FF0000]R=retaard [/color]
[color=#FF0000]A=asking for [/color]
[color=#FF0000]M=more [/color]
[color=#FF0000]A=attention [/color]

i wont insult u for replying my mention

i have already passed my message

AfroKnight:
I can never date my friend's ex no matter how beautiful she is. This guy had to date his friend's ex. Who does that? It is sad that you even agreed to date him. Instead of you to run far from such guys.

Well, maybe you don't value loyalty. A man that cannot let his friend's ex be is a man without loyalties.

kindly hashtag ur opinion though

RoyalBlak007:
[color=#FF0000]Tell truth...would you even consider dating him if he were broke? am ready for lies though...can yu marry a poor man [/color]

Can't marry a poor man but equally cannot marry a guy cos of his money

mizzkweenbee:
Am I going to marry his financial status

forget about d cow n tink of ur life jor

AfroKnight:
I can never date my friend's ex no matter how beautiful she is. This guy had to date his friend's ex. Who does that? It is sad that you even agreed to date him. Instead of you to run far from such guys.

Well, maybe you don't value loyalty. A man that cannot let his friend's ex be is a man without loyalties.

Who said am dating him, kindly read d story before commenting