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I married my husband 4 year ago, a year after our wedding we had beautiful baby, after some months he suggested he was going abroad for a greener pastures‎ for his family. Immediately he left, he change seriously, he promised to be coming home every 3 month, but it's going to 3 years now, I have not seen him, no support financially, spiritually, physically and emotionally for I and our baby.

Some month after his traveling, I found out from his document at home, that a woman invited him abroad, that was why he has never ask us to come over to visit him. He has promised to come home more than 6 times now, but gives different excuses for not coming. I was retrenched from my job last year, up till now my husband as not ask me how I am feeding or coping as there is no more communication between us again.  I will be approaching my late thirty soon and I still want to have more babies.
Should I wait for him or walk away?
I need a polite and sincere response.
The End.

Source:
http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/i-have-not-seen-my-husband-in-3-years.html?m=1

Hmmm

See am here

Nicca tryna secure papers .. Or you think its easy
Abeg relax u still go wait 2 more years before he will send for u .. U stress him out he send for someone else u berra chills

Also just pray his not in any serious trouble might b in jail etc not wishing bad but anything can be going on ..

Since there is no communication,i will advice you to walk away

vizkiz:
give him more time, he is hustling for a green card

Bros green card no mean make he no communicate with him wife n pikin. Even in d olden days they write letters and make phone calls 1ce in a long while

Op u didn't mention anything about his family. U were married for God's sake not impregnated. Have u approached them, what did they say? I'm sure they communicate with him. Perhaps u shd wait a little more then go to ur church elders let them think of dissolving the marriage in God's name, and in their presence as witnesses, file a divorce in d registry. U can still bear children as far as u have means to cater for them. Its re-marriage that's not guaranteed except as 2nd/3rd wife. BTW how have you been coping? Who have been sponsoring u financially? Well for now I think getting help like starting up a supermart to help survive with ur child is more important 1st b4 looking for a man except money don sure for u sha oh

Hmmmm

long distance relationship ,see the disadvantage

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Your husband is not coming anytime soo,3 times a year?
he must first have his papers then a very good job.

BumBae:
Nicca tryna secure papers .. Or you think its easy
Abeg relax u still go wait 2 more years before he will send for u .. U stress him out he send for someone else u berra chills

Also just pray his not in any serious trouble might b in jail etc not wishing bad but anything can be going on ..

It's 3years now though no effective communication
And she mentioned she saw some kinda documents pertaining meeting a lady abroad or so.
If he's in a bad state I believe he would have informed her knowing fully well she'll be worried.

Op try reaching out to him again if no good response walk away and continue your life.

nasha1:
Your husband is not coming anytime soo,3 times a year?
he must first have his papers then a very good job.

You're bad

Ewuro4:
You're bad

Imagine!she can send mail online but she cannot conduct some research online 2 know what's up.
Abi she no dey hear gist for her place?