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Should I Go Ahead ? by gennypearl(f): 6:12am On Feb 17, 2016
I am a lady in a serious relationship, last year October I found out that my fiancé got a lady pregnant after all said and the lady got rid of the pregnancy. Fast forward this month of February when I visited my fiancé,on a particular morning I went to the market to buy what i will cook, that morning on getting home I saw a lady dashing out of the house through the back door.

I confronted my fiancé but he denied which is really hurting me because I saw the lady with my eyes running out of the flat.The problem now is my introduction is this February ending and I am totally confused if I should continue or not as I cannot stand a cheating man.

God knows, I would av wanted to prove everyone that said I won't get married to this man wrong, they said I can't get married to him cus to them they said I am more exposed than him but with all these I am seeing my heart  deviating.

The question now is should I go ahead with the introduction so as to prove those that says I can't get married to him wrong or I should put a stop to everything cos of his infidelity...I need your matured and genuine advice please I am in a very tight corner. Thanks


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Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by Nobody: 6:35am On Feb 17, 2016
You can clearly see the handwriting on the wall....save yourself uneccessary heartbreak and disappointment.. smiley
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by saintkash(m): 7:00am On Feb 17, 2016
my dear go ahead with ur introduction. ..... hardly will u find a man that doesn't have flings with other babes before marriage. ... he may change totally from that lifestyle after marriage but for now u have to be wise cos u ll be at d receiving end...
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by Oche211(m): 7:08am On Feb 17, 2016
U ve nothing to prove to anyone. It's ur life nd nt theirs. If u prove this one to them nw, wht are u going to prove again next time.
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by Melahou(m): 7:41am On Feb 17, 2016
you don't need to prove anything to anybody
the only thing you need is to be happy and make the right decision.

if you can live with his cheating attitude then go ahead but don't think he`ll change
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by pretydiva(f): 8:10am On Feb 17, 2016
saintkash:
my dear go ahead with ur introduction. ..... hardly will u find a man that doesn't have flings with other babes before marriage. ... he may change totally from that lifestyle after marriage but for now u have to be wise cos u ll be at d receiving end...
so if she was ur sister,u will give her dis ur advice..smh
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by saintkash(m): 8:42am On Feb 17, 2016
pretydiva:
so if she was ur sister,u will give her dis ur advice..smh

yes. ..it's a good advice. .. moreover if ur bf tells u he is 100% faithful tell him I said he is only faithful cos u r yet to catch him.
Re: Should I Go Ahead ? by CheedyJ(m): 9:16am On Feb 17, 2016
Madam wey dey very 'exposed',if cheating is d only flaw ur guy has den go ahead and marry him oooo, because most men are cheats,I am not in anyway justifying it as a good thing but its a fact..atleast a cheat is beta Dan a wife beater....besides no one has it all

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