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Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Vince77(m): 10:11pm On Feb 23, 2016

robosky02:
by the way over protective parents end up spoiling the kids

cos the slightest opurtunity abi freedom you wouldnt know the kids again

check out those that just enter year one...

the best way is to advise your kids and ALWAYS guide them so they will be free to tell you every thing

One of the best comment on nairaland today.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Damfostopper(m): 10:14pm On Feb 23, 2016

We all know that.... Naija parents b like "to their daughter " ..... At age 15.....dont listen to guys.... They r all lies..... Age 17..... Have warned u from that boy.... I don't want to c him again.... Age 27....my dear daughter, don't b harsh on guys.., make friends with dem... Age 35...pure water sold here..... Age 39...pls bring any man... Man na man.... I wan get grandchild.... Nanxix4

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Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Fourwinds: 10:25pm On Feb 23, 2016

Leriebloom:
Lol, i can imagine, it runs in their blood. Even while i was growing up i dare not open my lips to say i have male friends because the look on her face is enough to make you cut ties with them. Even until now, she has met only two of my male friends and i could i tell she was trying to hold it in.

hmmmmm..... and u expect her to trust u with dose male abi. huh

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Fourwinds: 10:29pm On Feb 23, 2016

refiner:
get wat!....gerrarahie joor!
it seems you've fogotten dat am a virgin!

virgin ko

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by iykedare(m): 10:33pm On Feb 23, 2016

Girls need close marking from their parents. They easily go astray.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Leriebloom(f): 10:38pm On Feb 23, 2016

Fourwinds:
hmmmmm..... and u expect her to trust u with dose male abi.

Why not, they are my besties not lovers.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by repogirl(f): 10:42pm On Feb 23, 2016

My dad believed in letting us be free while my mom believed we had enough sense to make the right decisions. They never held me back at anytime from doing whatever harebrained thing I decided, so I learnt from my own foolishness, lol.

I had male friends all over the place and my parents didn't care if I hung around them. If they saw me talking to a guy, they would just move along as if nothing was happening. Although if I was hanging around too much to a particular guy, my father would begin asking me questions... Who is he? What does he do? And when I told him, that was all, he wouldn't bother me anymore, besides I hung around cool guys, not lowlifes and losers.

I had really free parents. They had their issues but they were really free.

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Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Fourwinds: 10:42pm On Feb 23, 2016

Leriebloom:
Why not, they are my besties not lovers.

hmmmmmmm

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by kenny15: 11:01pm On Feb 23, 2016

refiner:
most of dem don't believe in dat ish!

that's really true.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by kenny15: 11:02pm On Feb 23, 2016

refiner:
most of dem don't believe in dat ish!

that's true.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Nobody: 11:23pm On Feb 23, 2016

robosky02:
complete it

02

cos water no get enemy

and when you look at the still water you'll see a shadow...

and what did you see....prettythicksme aka ukwu lol

. bros na H2O b water O2 na oxygen..... just sayin... no offence

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by akike: 11:25pm On Feb 23, 2016

refiner:
oh!...fank God I wasn't!

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by spafu(m): 11:29pm On Feb 23, 2016

refiner:
...go joor!...I don't av a clue of wat u are talking abt!

Now I am doubting you. Ok whisper into my ears, did he or didn't he phhewwe, pheweee.?

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by activelyA(f): 11:52pm On Feb 23, 2016

sinaj:
They shouldn't get worried of the male folks, they shud get worried of the female as well.

Coz lezbian is on the rise!

I tell u my sister, no one seems to be seeing or noticing this also. It has slowly crept in and everyone is turning a blind eye.
A girl has got to be extremely careful now a days shocked

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Misterdhee1(m): 11:55pm On Feb 23, 2016

They tend to always protect females from being preyed by hungry men out there.. Mums are the best tho

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by andyanders: 12:00am On Feb 24, 2016

refiner:
yesterday after school I was going to see a friend dat will help install an application for me...*adobe reader*....

immediately I came back she asked me if SHE has installed it for me!...I smiled mischievously and wondered why she thought it was a girl!.....

I replied yes SHE has installed it for me...and she said "dats so nice of HER"...

I don't know why mothers are like this,they don't want u to keep male folks and when u talk about a friend,they will want to believe that its a female!.......Nigerian women particularly!

so I know your mom is nt an exception!
share your experience!

How can a woman that got a beautiful daughter like you that won't be protective op? You are too pretty to let go hence your mummy's attitude. When unwanted pregnancy comes now, the blame would end up on her desk as a bad mother who never brought up her daughter well. For now, hang in with her advise cus she has seen it all. Many guys are too deceitful these days unlike their own time.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by tosyne2much(m): 12:08am On Feb 24, 2016

Refiner, is this the way you want to pay back my love?

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by toprealman: 12:34am On Feb 24, 2016

[quote author=Jblaiseboy post=43187154]So did the guy install it ? Insert it he did.
lol

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Nobody: 12:50am On Feb 24, 2016

AdeniyiA:
Some parents just have to die before some youths would dicover their destinies.
Or how would describe a parent who dictates nd chooses next line of action for his/her children ...
Many parents do not want their Children to take RISK

Best Comment So Far #Fact, That's why some Ladies find it difficult in getting into relationships

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Lasveg(m): 12:59am On Feb 24, 2016

So op how many times did he install

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Nobody: 3:54am On Feb 24, 2016

My mum isn't the overprotective type lol but my pops makes up for that in spades

I doubt my mum would say anything if she saw me sitting on a guys lap. I'd tell her he's a friend and she'd be like "ah OK" grin

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Jonwesley(m): 3:57am On Feb 24, 2016

I have some questions for the OP. Was it really the download that took U there? Because girls of your age seek legitimacy for an outing that appear deceitful and only a careful parent may consider or take notice.

And are U the one on DP? And you don't know how to download Adobe except U meet a guy? That's doubtful at that age.

Again ur comments of mums being overprotective is because of what your type are doing as the earliest taste of sex make some go wild and would trick a parent to sneak and have it at a risk of unwanted pregnancy. Save us parents please the headache and embarrassments of all that. Which mother will be told by a girl child she's going to be deflowered and the mother wld allow that, it's always a hidden affairs until bubble burst. You will be shocked to hear that ur girl claiming to be on JAMB lessons is on a guy or the teacher's bed, or the girl U sent on an errand to the market or somewhere has decided to add her own plans to go Bleep or have a quickie before returning home.

It's possible too that your mother was sneaky in her teenage years and with benefits of hindsight is now being careful not to allow U fumble over what she did or handled well and perhaps also failed and learned lessons the hard way.

You can cry a river and shade mothers but note that you will be a mother too in life. Hope this jabs and shades U are making now will not come hunting U. Just allow parents and be appreciative of their fears for U.

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Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by sinaj(f): 5:42am On Feb 24, 2016

Doubleagent008:
sure "-ism" should be somewhere between coz and is. got ur point though. #peace

gotcha

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by sinaj(f): 5:46am On Feb 24, 2016

refiner:
most of dem don't believe in dat ish!

de better be.

Serzly lesbianism is gaining more hands in our society nd mothers shud be wary of d frnds their children keep

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by vivaciousvivi(f): 5:51am On Feb 24, 2016

prettythicksme:
My mom is not like dat!!she knws i dont keep female friends,i just hate it!I dont knw y i dislike having female friends tho #team male friends only!

#TeamMaleFriendsOnly jare! Women get whahala. Gisting with guys comes so natural to me. Plus I used to be a tomboy when I was much younger.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by doskie(m): 6:25am On Feb 24, 2016

misspicy:
same thing I was trying to explain to a colleague today,Most Nigerians still think only male and female sexual contacts exists,they are yet to grasp the reality that most young adults are easily enticed by this same sex attraction,which to me is more dangerous than the normal male and female relationship.

most? naah nah nah nah nigga listen up! I cant think straight when I see a curvy chic. I speak for most men.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by muchyblink(m): 6:28am On Feb 24, 2016

Unlike Ghana.....there's a life in Kumasi, if you have no boy friend at 15, 16, 17 years old they will say you're cursed

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by doskie(m): 6:28am On Feb 24, 2016

refiner:
lol!....me too!....I prefer keeping male friends to females!....I don't realy know why tho!

lets be friends from now in 52e0446d. catch you.

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by olakan22: 6:28am On Feb 24, 2016

refiner:
get wat!....gerrarahie joor!

it seems you've fogotten dat am a virgin!

OOOOOPPPPPP! cheesy

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Smellingmouth: 6:29am On Feb 24, 2016

prettythicksme:
My mom is not like dat!!she knws i dont keep female friends,i just hate it!I dont knw y i dislike having female friends tho #team male friends only!

where hath thou bin? huh

Re: Nigerian Mothers....Always Over Protective! by Rhemmymatician(m): 6:31am On Feb 24, 2016

cruzita:
I still get suspicions oooo

Like I have about you

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