Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. - Family (2)

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by NobleAngell(f): 10:23pm On Feb 24, 2016

So?

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tpiar: 10:27pm On Feb 24, 2016*

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tpiar: 10:27pm On Feb 24, 2016

fromnigeria:
We've seen your type fall in less than four moves.

funny

seriously?

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by vanvick247(m): 10:29pm On Feb 24, 2016

#Word# Spot on @OP

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tosyne2much(m): 10:29pm On Feb 24, 2016

Oga Tokunbo, you and women issue sha... Maaaa just dey learn from you

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Feb 24, 2016

Relationship Doc undecided

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 24, 2016

tosyne2much:
Oga Tokunbo, you and women issue sha... Maaaa just dey learn from you

see who's talking undecided

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Udochee(m): 10:35pm On Feb 24, 2016

the same way you meddle into marital affairs is the same way the couple(s) will use you as a caricature when they settle... last bullet:- just mind your business,it doesn't cost much

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by successbuchi32(m): 10:35pm On Feb 24, 2016

[quote author=Toks2008 post=43220927]No matter how aggravated you may be and no matter how sure you think you know what caused a misunderstanding between a couple,before you interfere please note that there are always 3 sides to the story.

1.Her version.
2.His version
3.The truth

Ironically there is usually something neither of the two will hardly voice out and that is always most likely the cause of the problem yet they may never voice it out.

This is why we must be extremely careful to judge or mediate in any marital or even any man and woman love affair because at the end,you will be put in the middle and your good intentions will be seen as sinister.

So when next anybody comes to you asking you to mediate in any romantic fiasco,please start your advice by saying..."IF WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS TRUE"...So that at the end you will be exulnurated.

tnx, cos am about to do same to an. Intending couple. Now ka m tinye nma m n'obo.

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by goshen26: 10:38pm On Feb 24, 2016

When the conversation goes thus;
U: Mr Chike, what is the matter?
And the man reply thus
Mr Chike: ask her

U turn to the woman

U: madam, what is the matter?
And she reply thus
Mrs Chike: bros as him

Just know that the matter is about.........so leave

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by cowgirl9090: 10:39pm On Feb 24, 2016

fireforfire:
I dnt waste my time listening to any party. i just jump into conclusion

you really made me have a good laugh cheesy

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Abukc(m): 10:52pm On Feb 24, 2016

If both couple live a way of GOD life,even when they fight it will be easy to settle

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tosyne2much(m): 10:58pm On Feb 24, 2016

HateU2:
see who's talking

I'm very serious ooooo.. Oga Tokunbo is the commissioner of kitty-cat affairs

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by joshrare(m): 10:59pm On Feb 24, 2016

I remember when my paddy was dating his wife

We came bacq around 11:45pm drunk, I was in d leaving room and they start quarrelling. I deaf my ears.

Later, abt 25mins later the lady called me to come and walk her to the nearest bus stop that she was going home. I collect the key, opened the door walked her up to the gate, I told to wait for me there that I want get the gate key.
I came back to the living room, put my sleep for gear 3.

I woke up the next morning, left the house without the both of them knowing when I left.

Don't hate me; I simply left trash for lawma

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Leyqute(m): 10:59pm On Feb 24, 2016

Toks2008:
No matter how aggravated you may be and no matter how sure you think you know what caused a misunderstanding between a couple,before you interfere please note that there are always 3 sides to the story.

1.Her version.
2.His version
3.The truth

Ironically there is usually something neither of the two will hardly voice out and that is always most likely the cause of the problem yet they may never voice it out.

This is why we must be extremely careful to judge or mediate in any marital or even any man and woman love affair because at the end,you will be put in the middle and your good intentions will be seen as sinister.

So when next anybody comes to you asking you to mediate in any romantic fiasco,please start your advice by saying..."IF WHAT YOU JUST SAID IS TRUE"...So that at the end you will be exulnurated.
Be wise.

"EXULNURATED" indeed cheesy

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by rahman3853(m): 11:19pm On Feb 24, 2016

This reminds me a dude, my wife's friend protrude to a scuffle between I and my wife, he went to the extreme I couldn't take it anymore, if not I trust my wife, I would av said ter is smthing between them. All I did was mail his superiors and have him given a Memo (warning letter) and ask him to officially apologize, wch he did. Love is very strong and u may be the enemy of both of them wen they reconcile.

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tpiar: 11:25pm On Feb 24, 2016

Leyqute:
"EXULNURATED" indeed

hope he's not saying something else.

Lord have mercy.

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by armyofone(m): 11:30pm On Feb 24, 2016

ummm, dancing Mississippi Shuffle/scuffle

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by jonaifame22(m): 12:07am On Feb 25, 2016

UnknownT:
How is your ever reliable Mouka foam?

Great! Thanks for asking.

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by 9jatatafo(m): 12:10am On Feb 25, 2016

jonaifame22:
Not even only married couples, it also applies in normal fights between every day people we interact wth, any time I see two people fight I don't interfere ever since I read in the bible this passage that says " he meddleth in a strife belonging to another,he's like one who pulleth a dog by it's ears

Like your quote. Wherein in the bible can I locate your quote?

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tpiar: 12:11am On Feb 25, 2016*

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Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by jonaifame22(m): 12:22am On Feb 25, 2016

9jatatafo:
Like your quote. Wherein in the bible can I locate your quote?

proverbs 26 vs 17

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Nobody: 12:23am On Feb 25, 2016

Truth #

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by banmee(m): 1:05am On Feb 25, 2016

Oua pipo tok sey "wen yu put head for husband an wife palava, na on top yor head dem go take setle am"

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by atoleybaba(m): 1:16am On Feb 25, 2016

jonaifame22:
proverbs 26 vs 17

in modern day English it says "Like someone grabbing hold of a dog’s earsIs the one passing by who becomes furious about a quarrel that is not his" don't see how that applies here

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by tpiar: 1:17am On Feb 25, 2016

I doubt anyone applies it anywhere, seeing how other people's business is what keeps a lot of folks rolling.

besides, the op is selective in his preaching, as I pointed out earlier.

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by 9jatatafo(m): 1:17am On Feb 25, 2016

jonaifame22:
proverbs 26 vs 17

Thanks

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Ndipe(m): 1:35am On Feb 25, 2016

https://www.nairaland.com/21126/third-party-marriage-intercede-when

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Lazarus11: 3:44am On Feb 25, 2016

pls help, how does one create topic here?

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Nobody: 4:03am On Feb 25, 2016

tosyne2much:
I'm very serious ooooo.. Oga Tokunbo is the commissioner of kitty-cat affairs

You nko

minister abi huh

Re: Before you Interfere In Any Marital Scuffle. by Funjosh(m): 4:30am On Feb 25, 2016

Their is this tenant of my mum both the husband and wife do fight to the extent of using knife to threaten each other. they do have serious fight like five to six times every year, we stop interfering between both when the woman never stop given birth to the man.

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