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PasD:
I never really had a relationship. all I did (those days) was take advantage of them and walk.

PasD:
Chai but its not funny ooo. but u making fun outta it

PasD:
I never really had a relationship. all I did (those days) was take advantage of them and walk.

sinequanon:
This your story is not making sense.

First of all, why would a man who "takes advantage of women and then walks" have to explain that he is not gay?

Secondly, you have now said "those days". So what are you doing nowadays?

firstking01:
you see??...now, this is karma sorting for you, maybe one of those girls you took advantaged of placed a curse or something on you...you gotta live with it or God intervens....Goodluck.

PasD:
funny lol. its not karma joor

PasD:
its ladyF again!
lol

pls all I want is to just fall in love. I don't even have standards. I'm just a normal guy that wants to fall into a normal love.

PasD:
I have never fallen in love before and I am 30yrs this year! its beginning to worry me seriously. I seem not to trust a woman enough to love her. my part has crossed with many Parts: the beautiful, ugly, short, tall, small, slim etc yet no one seemed to take my heart why?? am worried seriously now. the highest I can do is to have 'sterrings' only for it to die off totally in weeks. I'm am totally not gay, I don't have any spiritual bae anywhere......is there ever anyone who can answer me cos me is very worried.


mature minds only pls

PasD:
my story is clear enough bro

PasD:
I never really had a relationship. all I did (those days) was take advantage of them and walk.

HateU2:
U are not alone in this. Experiences sometimes is the cause of it

nanalady:
lol@normal love.......love is not normal

CivilzedTyger:
You want to fall in love like telemumdo abi smh. If I talk now dey will say I'm wicked

prettysassygirl:
come to mama baby,u would fall head over heels in love with me ,and that your running sickness would be healed,I promise

PasD:
can we begin already?

Richy4:
You can't just say that you cannot fall in love..... Maybe you are guarding your heart too much that you cannot allow love to pass through
Maybe you are scared of heart break, Rumours of people that their hearts has been broken and you do not want that etc....But before we speak about falling in love, Let us hear your list... what characters and qualities you wanted from a woman

Just bring out your list, state them here, so that we can help narrow the realistic ones and the "no go area" ones..

Example She must be tall, she must have green eyes, she must have K leg, she must catwalk,.......

Oya start

PasD:
Chai I love this! just like you are in my heart. Owk let me begin by saying thank you for commenting cos it seems as though you can help me with rural answers. first of all I find it hard to let out my heart cos of fear of heartbreak and gyals toying with me. do u know that those days I was a badt guy I use to have affairs with my buddys' girls! they will come right on my arms and the next they pretend nothing happened. they did it well! and my friend is so in love with this girl and she is so inlovre with him and he will never have any idea that I have done many things to the iddiot. so when I saw all these I closed up. bitchescant be trusted I keep telling me self. can they be trusted? I don't even trust myself how can I trust another?

Richy4:
I totally understand your fears.. but you cannot go on like that.... You have to let your heart go.... You have made mistakes from the past.. but past should remain past... You have to start thinking about the present and the future... Every one has done something they are not so proud of in the past, but the ability to let that thing go is what is gonna define how you will enjoy the future....

As for now, you cannot enjoy the future because you do not want to let go of your past.....

Remember chronic womanizers would never let their younger sisters date anyone.....sometimes you will find them embarrassing the guy or the younger sister in the name of being protective........ even if the guy in question was a virgin, they will never agree.. They do that without knowing it because of the kind of live they were living and they thought every man dating their sister must always act like them...

The fact that you have met some girls in the past that were into double dealings does not mean all the girls does that....Do not paint all the girls with the same brush...Just let your heart go, give a little bit of trust and see how it goes

samted:
broda...u aff hart of stone and metah. goan melt ur hart first. then try again