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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by tripplephi: 7:56pm On Feb 25, 2016

nicolosam:
Why have u taken this issue personal? Is going to church a must? What is ur definition of a church? U can on any confusing issues of ur life right there in ur room! Brother, no need to curse ur fellow man by saying God will fight him. Too harsh of you. However, the young lady knows what she want and should take a decision and bears the aftermath of her decision

Bros going to church is a must o. Heb 10:24-25. No be me talk am

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(op): 8:04pm On Feb 25, 2016

rheether:
If you love him why not say yes to him? Abi you have a boyfriend in school who isn't even sure he will be graduating with his set?

lolz...bebe, no be so oo

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Justicealh3(m): 8:08pm On Feb 25, 2016

Funkychic:
Nah nah, bro

Hmmmm, ok.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Lero15(m): 9:15pm On Feb 25, 2016

ednut1:
baba those office babes need to repent . na dem dey cause oga eyes to chook na

Lol. True sha.
Office babes this days... embarassed

Na God dey Sha help we guys.
Temptation everywhere sad

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by andyanders: 9:23pm On Feb 25, 2016*

Op, two things herein.He wants to date you and wouldn't wanna take a No for an answer.

One; he will use and dump you along as after seeing your unclothedness, he might wanna do away with you and look for another lady for the job.
Two; if you cave in to his demand, after getting down on you, you have lost his respect and both of you can NEVER be the same again.

He is a very weak person and since he cannot control his lust, he will likely run down his company in the future cus if you are bad, you can take his money and go away and nothing he can do about it.This action might drive him to either plan to kill you or you plan to kill him in order to get even.

If he is already married,and both of you decides to date, it is very dangerous for both of you and that shows how irresponsible both of you are.

Since it is a Finance company, I suggest you quit the job as it will not favor you as it will surely mess you up when he gets down on you.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by ifeomaekol(f): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2016

Aviero:
Okay. I've heard you. So, will you take her place? Ayam single and ready to mingle.

What's your number?

iffa hear

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 25, 2016

Funkychic:
Gerrarahere mehn!

olosho,have u fu....ck that ur boss,if i were to be ur boss i go see shege for office,na every day fu...ck till finish ur whatever...

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 25, 2016

Funkychic:
Gerrarahere mehn!

olosho,have u fu....ck that ur boss,if i were to be ur boss i go see shege for office,na every day fu...ck till u finish ur whatever...

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 25, 2016

Funkychic:
Gerrarahere mehn!

obo.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Cavenchy(m): 11:20pm On Feb 25, 2016*

I dont know if what I'm about to post here would make much difference but I hope you get to read this. So here goes...

1. You have just been there a month and he is already making several advances, his intention is less likely to be a good one nor one that lasts.
2. Do you know how many other IT placement girls he's probably approached in all his years there? What if he has an STD.
3. He is probably married, and if he is, remember this: Do to others as you wish to be done unto you.
4. His wife or partner may find out and disfigure you if not kill you. You are only there for IT.
5. He might still not recommend you for a job in the future if that's what you are thinking, cos he would have nothing to benefit if he gets all he wants now.

Now to my recommendation
1. Dress more decently to work if you aren't already doing so. if you are, double the decency. (I know some pretty girls back in my youth service days that tied hijab-looking attires to their workplace (and these were Christian girls) cos they heard the boss was a grossly obsessed randy savage).
2. Avoid staying in the same immediate environment for longer than feasible, limit it as much as you can.
3. Keep it official and do not give opportunity for dates or 'I'm your boss, let me take my employee out' kinda thing.
4. If he offers to drop you off, try to always get another IT student to tag along with you so its awkward for him to bring up any weird convo.
5. If he offers you something nice, tell him your mum taught you to only accept things you have worked for. If he laughs at you(and he probably will, if he is a bad guy), say yes you are proud of it, if he insists, politely decline until he proves you have earned what he is giving.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Dereformer(m): 8:47am On Feb 26, 2016

jabojafa:
op are u ready for marriage? If yes then wen next he disturbs you, tell him that u are ready to get married and he shd come meet ur parents and pastor. That way yu can go into courtshp if he isnt after sex and he is equally serious. If nt then that shd tell me dt u aint going to go to bed with him. And u are more dan good enuf to be hiw wife anf nt his mistress. You hv to stand ur ground even in d face of him sacking you. You will hv more dignity if u cn hold ur ground n dnt mess up wit him. Finally u hv to pray to God. Remember wenevr der is a man to pray, der is always a God to answer.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Jtmanager(m): 9:49am On Feb 26, 2016

airex:
Learn how to comprehend properly. Matter fact I didn't talk, so how will I keep quiet when I haven't talked?

Silly son keep quiet

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(op): 10:26am On Feb 26, 2016

barbychick2012:
Single or married?

Single

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(op): 10:27am On Feb 26, 2016

Luckygurl:
In a matter of months, you'd be out of the bank.
If you say yes to him, what's the gurantee you two will still be together after your SIWES programme.

Left for me, everything is happening too fast to be real.
Take your time so you won't end up heartbroken at the end of it al

Alright dear....thanks

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(op): 10:35am On Feb 26, 2016

olokpa11:
YOU ARE DOING YOUR IT!!!!! Not an employee for christ SAKES. Problem with ur IT students is how u dress to the office. Majority of them in my company here is lagos are been used and discarded like tissue papers. I work in an O&G company, trust me u won't even want to see what I see daily. The op is already into the guy, so I won't waste my breath on her at all. Cos am 100% sure u are dating someone. And I believe ur so called cute and handsome boss is married. Seriously NIGERIAN women these days DISGUSTS ME

Someone's just lamenting here....i see

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by olokpa11(m): 12:19pm On Feb 26, 2016

Funkychic:
Someone's just lamenting here....i see

do I look like am lamenting ma? I just hate how young ladies create bad reputations for those coming behind them, as at last year,we don't take IT students because of things like this, focus on ur Job,ur so called boss CANNOT SACK YOU, because TECHNICALLY YOU ARE NOT A STAFF undecided

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(op): 2:19pm On Feb 26, 2016

olokpa11:
do I look like am lamenting ma? I just hate how young ladies create bad reputations for those coming behind them, as at last year,we don't take IT students because of things like this, focus on ur Job,ur so called boss CANNOT SACK YOU, because TECHNICALLY YOU ARE NOT A STAFF

Ok....noted.

Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Luckygurl(f): 6:53pm On Feb 26, 2016

olokpa11:
do I look like am lamenting ma? I just hate how young ladies create bad reputations for those coming behind them, as at last year,we don't take IT students because of things like this, focus on ur Job,ur so called boss CANNOT SACK YOU, because TECHNICALLY YOU ARE NOT A STAFF

Funny but true

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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by WebSurfer(m): 3:36am On Feb 27, 2016

Funkychic:
Hello!....was i ur ex gf dat jilted u recently??

another disappointment. sorry

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