If ur wife cheated on U and confesses to U and ask for 4giveness and u forgave her. 3 yrs down the line. She committed the same act with her lecturer in her school cos she wanted to pass. Her mind started troubling her and she confesses to u with tears. That d lecture have slept with her up to 5 times. She is from Calabar and i'm Abia State. What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flog her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

Cheating is wrong in every sense, it destroys homes, relationships and even lives... But then again if we choose to leave when we are cheated upon, how sure are we that the next person we meet wouldn't be worse than the one we left...
I have seen alot of people meet worse women when they leave a cheating woman... But this is not am excuse to cheat, for whatever reason people give for cheating, it still doesn't justify their actions

Xo my dear OP for the sake of your children and your union, give her a third chance and show her love like never before and pray she changes to a better person... Notwithstanding u should still let her know how her actions are hurting you

Forgive her sir. If the tables were turned, she would forgive u too.

Wow! this one is strong

Cheating in a relationship is very bad but let me ask you some few questions.

Are you showing her much affection? why I ask this question is cos your wife kept cheating on you, no woman in her right senses will cheat on her man. Women always want to feel loved and if that is not coming from you the husband she may fall cheaply to whoever gives her that affection.

How is your marriage, are you the onion type of husband? Sorry about this question but are you the type that can't stop hurting your woman, if you are one then she'll keep cheating on you. Men should learn to pet their wives( you can crucify me if u wanna ). Most women go through hell from their husbands and they just want to be loved by someone and ended up cheating on their husbands

I pray God should see you through this hard times, it won't be easy on you but you'll surely overcome.

To other husbands, learn to make your woman happy

Throw her out. Should have done that the first time

I am sure she has forgiven you too severally?

Ehn you too forgive na
In this part of the world, the make folks think they can do and always get away with things
SOME women are tougher

Is he sure the children are his? go do a DNA test

ladyF:
Forgive her sir. If the tables were turned, she would forgive u too.

Listen to yourself madam ladyF, the man is in pains and all you can do is type that rubbish to get likes? Why confess and ask for forgiveness when she don't want to quit?

There's no rule that says you must love your wife,let her remain with you as mother of your children,provide for them but detach every emotional attachment with her,barring sex.

doingood:
What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flog her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

I know you are waiting to hear ''Divorce Her'' but it won't come from me...
What she did was wrong and painful though, I imploy you to Forgive her, even Seven Hundred and Seven Times... And both of you should make effort and make your marriage work out.
#Love is free, it's the maintenance that is expensive!!!

please go run a test on those children to ascertain if they are really yours.

Her parents flogged her? How old is she?

Forgive her.
If u search or conscience, u will know that you should forgive her.
God punish that lecturer

I'm watching this thread!
Most ladies will say.......forgive her.
Most men will say...........send her away.




If it's the other way round.......

Most ladies will say..........divorce him, he's an unrepentant cheat!
Most men will say.........it's men's world, men are polygamous in nature, its not easy to stick with one woman for the rest of ones life.......bla bla bla.......


@op. you don't need justification of your action from anybody. Do what it's in your mind.

doingood:
If ur wife cheated on U and confesses to U and ask for 4giveness and u forgave her. 3 yrs down the line. She committed the same act with her lecturer in her school cos she wanted to pass. Her mind started troubling her and she confesses to u with tears. That d lecture have slept with her up to 5 times. She is from Calabar and i'm Abia State. What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flogged her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

How old is she again? nd wt ao many kids ?

Calabar girls... SMH

Take your wife for counselling.Do it in church and also get the elders among your people talk to her.
She needs to go through a period of rehabilitation.I'll say you help her change and forgive her.

slap1:
Calabar girls... SMH

May it fall off! your head I mean

Angelberry:

May it fall off! your head I mean

We are not fighting na

slap1:

We are not fighting na

why bring in her tribe?

Angelberry:
Wow! this one is strong

Cheating in a relationship is very bad but let me ask you some few questions.

Are you showing her much affection? why I ask this question is cos your wife kept cheating on you, [size=26pt]no woman in her right senses will cheat on her man. Women always want to feel loved and if that is not coming from you the husband she may fall cheaply to whoever gives her that affection.[/size]

How is your marriage, are you the onion type of husband? Sorry about this question but are you the type that can't stop hurting your woman, if you are one then she'll keep cheating on you. Men should learn to pet their wives( you can crucify me if u wanna ). Most women go through hell from their husbands and they just want to be loved by someone and ended up cheating on their husbands

I pray God should see you through this hard times, it won't be easy on you but you'll surely overcome.

To other husbands, learn to make your woman happy

That bit isn't necessarily true.

Attention or no attention from her husband, some women these days are just an easy lay.

nedu2000:
There's no rule that says you must love your wife,let her remain with you as mother of your children,provide for them but detach every emotional attachment with her, barring sex.

This is exactly what I'd do when faced with a cheating partner, divorce will be too easy for her and too hard on the kids.

Remain together but remove all emotions from that relationship...if she's a smart woman, she'll figure it out and want to leave on her own when she can't stand the ambivalent attitude anymore.

crackhaus:

That bit isn't necessarily true.

Attention or no attention from her husband, some women these days are just an easy lay.

I am speaking as a lady and how some of us feel. You may be right though

Angelberry:

I am speaking as a lady and how some of us feel. You may be right though

I am speaking as a gentleman who's had some funny experiences with two or three so-called married women. You may also be right though.

crackhaus:

I am speaking as a gentleman who's had some funny experiences with so-called married women. You may also be right though.

That's not cool, what were u doing with a married woman? let's assume u were giving her counsel about her marital issues. She sees you as a friend and someone to confide in anytime issue comes up, the husband is unknowingly pushing his wife into the arm of another man. She may have some feelings about you(the said guy) and the moment you make any move she can't resist cos she feels safe with you( the said guy).

Angelberry:

That's not cool, what were u doing with a married woman? let's assume u were giving her counsel about her marital issues. She sees you as a friend and someone to confide in anytime issue comes up, the husband is unknowingly pushing his wife into the arm of another man. She may have some feelings about you(the said guy) and the moment you make any move she can't resist cos she feels safe with you( the said guy).

Like I said before...attention or no attention from a woman's husband, some women are just an easy lay. Let's leave it at that.

doingood:
If ur wife cheated on U and confesses to U and ask for 4giveness and u forgave her. 3 yrs down the line. She committed the same act with her lecturer in her school cos she wanted to pass. Her mind started troubling her and she confesses to u with tears. That d lecture have slept with her up to 5 times. She is from Calabar and i'm Abia State. What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flog her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

Once might have been a mistake but twice and more times aint no mistake bro.Divorce her quick and keep your kids.All the best.

crackhaus:

Like I said before...attention or no attention from a woman's husband, some women are just an easy lay. Let's leave it at that.

Crackhaus....OK o

she slept with her lecturer for grades? a married woman?
she's a slut.

doingood:
If ur wife cheated on U and confesses to U and ask for 4giveness and u forgave her. 3 yrs down the line. She committed the same act with her lecturer in her school cos she wanted to pass. Her mind started troubling her and she confesses to u with tears. That d lecture have slept with her up to 5 times. She is from Calabar and i'm Abia State. What should I do. This time i've reported the case to d parent and the parent even flog her and treating to disown her. What should I do as she had 2 kids for me. My daughter is 7 and the boy is 1yr.

oya FORGIVENESS CREW over to you.

Your wife is sick, do with her whatever you wish.

Well I'd be surprised if someone wasn't cheating, its typical these days

Sincerely I will b hurt to my marrow but wen u love someone deeply I tell u no sins u can't forgive her cuz d luv overshadow anything.
D woman I luv with all my life was disvirgin by her EX and she knelt and told .Do u know I forgave her and do u know y?It's cuz I luv u deeply n sincerely .


Am not defending her but saying that as d head more jobs still needs to b done by u and remember true love overcomes all.No matter wat.