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Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Nobody: 11:29am On Feb 28, 2016
I am always amazed by the rampancy of marriage failures this days.

Anyway my own personal reasons to this major panacea in our world today is "TELEMUNDO"

Yes i said it.
Too much of the western culture been imbibed into our own culture today is the causative agent of Break ups.

Only in this soap operas will you see a man who is married eyeing another young lady all in the name that he isnt in love with the former.
Only this can boost the morale of a man to cheat, thereby taking infatuation to love.


Its is a problem this days that a young lady expects all the house chores done by the man

I once dated a lady who told me i must accepts some things before she can marry me. She said i must make sure i m ready to cook mostly because she lose appetites whenever she cooks the food.
To cap it all, she said we must have a male house maid who would help with the house chores.
I began to imagine what she would be doing if i accept all this terms undecided

Ladies nowdays believe what they watch in those soap operas.
When the man do it all and the woman just sit there to .....
Forgetting the fact that our culture differs. In India even Women pays grooms price, while ours is the man paying brideprice.

I know you are already thinking to bash me, but remember to put your own reason after bashing me.

Original writer: Drabeey
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by midehi2(f): 11:38am On Feb 28, 2016
cheating everywhere
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by madridguy(m): 11:45am On Feb 28, 2016
Many factors.
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by delishpot: 12:01pm On Feb 28, 2016
Not too far from the ussual......... BLAME THE WOMEN. Men have clean hands in marriage failure the women are always to blame.
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Nobody: 12:02pm On Feb 28, 2016
delishpot:
Not too far from the ussual......... BLAME THE WOMEN. Men have clean hands in marriage failure the women are always to blame.
No one is balming the women, we are tackling the major reason
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by delishpot: 12:05pm On Feb 28, 2016
Drabeey:
No one is balming the women, we are tackling the major reason
So what makes the men break their marriages? Abi is it only the womans part you find important to tackle?
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by ednut1(m): 12:11pm On Feb 28, 2016
western civilisation , woman empowerment and gender equality. women have dumped submission hehehe.
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by biz2get(m): 12:15pm On Feb 28, 2016
I Agree 100%... The So Called Operas Have brain washed many Females in this contry!!

Most of them now act like they are in a movie, forgetting the fact that this is reality.. nonsense angry
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by talktonase(m): 12:25pm On Feb 28, 2016
ednut1:
western civilisation , woman empowerment and gender equality. women have dumped submission hehehe.
kai u don talkam pinish
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Ahmed0336(m): 12:27pm On Feb 28, 2016
When my madam wan begin watch telemondu abi na wetin b d name self i go just jejely go touch our meter if she begin think of fueling generator i go find excuse wey go make her no fuel am. Infact how person wan take remove dat telemondu channel self? angry
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Tinalex(f): 12:31pm On Feb 28, 2016
From my own point of view...i believe it is LACK OF COMPROMISE. We are now in a world where "if you c'nt accept me as i am,then you can go". When both sexes in the relationship did nt think of the spouse or partner before acting but selfishly do anything,anywhere and anytime,why won't relationships and marriages crash? To be honest...if you truly love your spouse as thy self and not take him/her with laxity trust me you will hv a beautiful relationship. Well personally 've made up my mind that to solve any heartache esp cheating in either marriage/relationship "I MUST SQUARE"!!! happy sunday y'all
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Nobody: 12:47pm On Feb 28, 2016
delishpot:
So what makes the men break their marriages? Abi is it only the womans part you find important to tackle?
And u can see tge first gender i tackled is the male
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by naijaboiy: 1:27pm On Feb 28, 2016
Tinalex:
From my own point of view...i believe it is LACK OF COMPROMISE. We are now in a world where "if you c'nt accept me as i am,then you can go". When both sexes in the relationship did nt think of the spouse or partner before acting but selfishly do anything,anywhere and anytime,why won't relationships and marriages crash? To be honest...if you truly love your spouse as thy self and not take him/her with laxity trust me you will hv a beautiful relationship. Well personally 've made up my mind that to solve any heartache esp cheating in either marriage/relationship "I MUST SQUARE"!!! happy sunday y'all
[color=#1980BC]By "SQUARE" you mean? huh[/color]
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by tommychow(m): 1:41pm On Feb 28, 2016
And do you no what is crazy interesting about failed marriages? You would think, it's all starts with a man cheating...NAH!!! I most cases, the process begins with the wife expressing disappointment in the marriage she had TELEMUNDO or fairytale expectations for. Research has proved it not me, even female authors like Michelle Langley have come out completely unbiased to criticize women. So, this is the process:

- Women have unrealistic and overhyped expectations of marriage
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Tinalex(f): 2:16pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]By "SQUARE" you mean? huh[/color]
My dear it means "HE CHEATS I CHEAT" .
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by JustHere2Observ(f): 2:18pm On Feb 28, 2016
Blaming your failed relationship on telemundo is not fair.
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by naijaboiy: 2:28pm On Feb 28, 2016
Tinalex:
My dear it means "HE CHEATS I CHEAT" .
[color=#1980BC]Do you still call that a relationship? grin[/color]
Re: Why Most Marriages are Failing In The 21st Century by Nobody: 3:18pm On Feb 28, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
Blaming your failed relationship on telemundo is not fair.
It is the genesis
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