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Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Feb 28, 2016
Well this is my first time of creating a thread here I am more into politics and culture, the things of the heart is not really my calling but i need urgent, honest and sincere answers on this issue.
Recently I ran into a girl I was asking out back then in the university,so we exchanged contacts and recently we ve been talking on phone...the thing is that back then the girl didnt give me any face as a matter of fact she cursed the living daylight out of me while I was wooing her, she embarrassed me so much that my friends were making jest of me because of her so I had to back out to the extent that I don't even bother to say hi whenever I saw her, now that we started talking after graduation I now asked her why she refused my advances back then, she told me she was only playing hard to get. in the name of the prophets, ladies how exactly are we guys supposed to know when a lady is playing hard to get. so insults and embarrassments are part of the hard to get game. I dont just get it.
Pls ladies educate me on this..how do I know that a girl is playing hard to get? does hard to get mean I should have swallowed all those insults and continued chasing her? its quite baffling please I need honest answers.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Feb 28, 2016
angry
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:41pm On Feb 28, 2016
Story,.... I sure say you Don hold small change, and you're doing well na hin make her dey talk that one...
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by naijaboiy: 1:42pm On Feb 28, 2016
[color=#1980BC]Don't believe that lying bìtch. undecided

Playing hard to get doesn't involve humiliation,degradation and insults from a girl.

She simply wasn't into you then. Probably you have made some money now and she's trying to get with you by using that lie.

Be wise bro.[/color]
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by SolexxBarry(m): 1:42pm On Feb 28, 2016
Ok,I'm here to learn too
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by biz2get(m): 1:44pm On Feb 28, 2016
Yuu never see anything...


Some girls will sound so raw with the insults...

You might just think you are being foolish but that babe knows wetin she dey do...

Fact is.. she doesn't want to look cheap to you!!!
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by MARINS(f): 1:45pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Don't believe that lying bìtch. undecided

Playing hard to get doesn't involve humiliation,degradation and insults from a girl.

She simply wasn't into you then. Probably you have made some money now and she's trying to get with you by using that lie.

Be wise bro.[/color]
YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER OP
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by naijaboiy: 1:48pm On Feb 28, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Story,.... I sure say you Don hold small change, and you're doing well na hin make her dey talk that one...
[color=#1980BC]You just reason the thing wey dey my mind.[/color]
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:51pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]You just reason the thing wey dey my mind.[/color]
Na their way na... awon smellos.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Don't believe that lying bìtch. undecided

Playing hard to get doesn't involve humiliation,degradation and insults from a girl.

She simply wasn't into you then. Probably you have made some money now and she's trying to get with you by using that lie.

Be wise bro.[/color]
bro, I don't even have much now, though the prospects are good, the future is bright.
thanks jare
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:53pm On Feb 28, 2016
biz2get:
Yuu never see anything...


Some girls will sound so raw with the insults...

You might just think you are being foolish but that babe knows wetin she dey do...

Fact is.. she doesn't want to look cheap to you!!!
Bullshit!!!...... guy wey go Bleep any babe up go Bleep am up big time!.....cheap or no cheap!!.. if a babe has nothing to offer, she will still be dumped like the piece of shiit that she is!
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Zendinho(m): 1:54pm On Feb 28, 2016
Hard to get ma foot....
Its unfortunate dat u r blindfolded wt such flimsy, unsubstantiated, erroneous, insignificant, uncivilised, weak n uncircumcised lies...
In Iyanya's voice..."ekaette de cum 4 d money...she cum for d money o...money o money....."
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by biz2get(m): 1:56pm On Feb 28, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
Bullshit!!!...... guy wey go Bleep any babe up go Bleep am up big time!.....cheap or no cheap!!.. if a babe has nothing to offer, she will still be dumped like the piece of shiit that she is!
Enh... Na So

Buh Niqqa The OP is talking about relationship with her and you dey reason bleeppin...

You dey another world man, orless the op never talk eim mind finish ni
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by JeffreyJamez(m): 1:58pm On Feb 28, 2016
biz2get:
Enh... Na So

Buh Niqqa The OP is talking about relationship with her and you dey reason bleeppin...

You dey another world man, orless the op never talk eim mind finish ni
It's obvious she's dumb na, very obvious.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by biz2get(m): 2:02pm On Feb 28, 2016
JeffreyJamez:
It's obvious she's dumb na, very obvious.
Well I agree with, but some girls are just Angry Birds grin grin cheesy
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:03pm On Feb 28, 2016
biz2get:
Well I agree with, but some girls are just Angry Birds grin grin cheesy
I no blame them na......na some guys wey just no wan gree get sense I go blame.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by naijaboiy: 2:04pm On Feb 28, 2016
MARINS:
YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER OP
[color=#1980BC]That's it mahn!

These bitchés be lying just to get something from hustling niggas. undecided[/color]
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by naijaboiy: 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2016
ovadozes:
bro, I don't even have much now, though the prospects are good, the future is bright.
thanks jare
[color=#1980BC]These girls can smell a guy with prospects from far away and they will do anything to at least book a space so when the time comes they'll enter.

Or maybe she just started digging you for no reason or her eyes are now clear.

Who knows? lipsrsealed[/color]
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by halfricanadian(f): 2:09pm On Feb 28, 2016
As a lady when i insult a guy I'M NOT PLAYING HARD TO GET I REALLY HATE SUCH DUDES

So op thats not playing hard to get she really hate you as they av said i guess its the money u av made now or d way u look now thats why she changed her mind

But before she no like ur existence ok??
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Feb 28, 2016
I don't know about cursing, that's bullsh!t nah. Plus not this era will a girl be playing hard to get. Believe me. If u like a guy, u can play hard to get by giving him 'busy stuff' whenever he asks u out on a date but not all the time.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Cutehector(m): 2:20pm On Feb 28, 2016
Op give me her number.. such girls need to be banged seriously.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Feb 28, 2016
Cutehector:
Op give me her number.. such girls need to be banged seriously.
Hehehehehehehe
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Jadekitana(f): 2:38pm On Feb 28, 2016
If I seriously don't like you, and you keep disturbing me, and i'v tried all means to put u off yet you wouldn't stop disturbing me then I have every right to insult and humiliate you since you'v decided not to respect yourself to avoid more drama! Hopefully that should put you off proper. She didn't like you at all and she still doesn't like you now, she's gonna use your head so don't bother a second time. Thank me later!
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by KingRex1(m): 2:40pm On Feb 28, 2016
You prolly did somthin very wrong to her then or its what naijaboiy said. Jst bone her nd go ur way this time.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by biz2get(m): 2:49pm On Feb 28, 2016
Bro, Be Wise...

Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by NarnieSnyper(m): 2:50pm On Feb 28, 2016
Op, what Naijaboiy said couldnt be more true.

Pretend like u still into her(i pray u are not) then u beat and tear that Kitty kat to smitherens, then tell her u JT is also hard to get#Just kidding oo#

but seriously, chop that kitty sha
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by prettysassygirl(f): 2:55pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]That's it mahn!

These bitchés be lying just to get something from hustling niggas. undecided[/color]
its a pity this boy doesnt have regard for women folk,always referring to them as bitches,have mercy Lord,he doesn't know what he is doing.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 28, 2016
aww this brotherly love smiley......stop callin' chicks b's angry

Op that chick wasn't playin' hard ta get....she just didn't like you.
The dude with bule words said it all.
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by naijaboiy: 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2016
prettysassygirl:
its a pity this boy doesnt have regard for women folk,always referring to them as bitches,have mercy Lord,he doesn't know what he is doing.
[color=#1980BC]Sorry,who are you? undecided[/color]
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by prettysassygirl(f): 3:06pm On Feb 28, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Sorry,who are you? undecided[/color]
Question for the gods,amadioha,oya come o
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Feb 28, 2016
prettysassygirl:
its a pity this boy doesnt have regard for women folk,always referring to them as bitches,have mercy Lord,he doesn't know what he is doing.
No I'm pretty sure he does an all the others do too.
I don't care for it ether.
But it will be. undecided
Re: Ladies Please How Was I Supposed To Know She Was Playing Hard To Get?? by asalimpo(m): 3:09pm On Feb 28, 2016
A girl playing hard to get, will continue taking the attention but not the attention-giver,to boost their esteem system.
A girl washing you down publicly,
is full of contempt for you.

The rule of the game is to move on and away from any babe that insults you,cuz if she sees you take it , she'll do it again. You shouldnt have kept pestering her . Or was she the only girl on campus?
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