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STFUareyouGod:
Na so we see am ooo

Is it the man with small m!nd?

Na him oo, and that m!nd no small at all! The wey that broda dey tackle me, na make I dey follow Nairaland jeje oo..

MarieSucre:
Which one is real NO again? Its only children who need to be told NO in a firm voice and as many times to comprehend it. Are you saying that these men who do such are children?
If you want to take a spoonful of my food and I say no, do I need to slap you repeatedly for you to understand that I don't want to share my food with you. You make it sound like these men who do such don't agency. They are just robots on a string, retard.s who can't do anything but chase skirt. I don't know where you were raised buy I believe these men are sentient adults and are not the little children you're trying to paint them to be.

That is where you get it wrong.

Don't even insult children because Men who chase Married women are Dogs and think with their D**ck. So don't be nice by treating them as adult.

Unless your "NO" is firm to the extent that you even allow your hubby pick your call when the guy calls you, the guy will still think that you are hiding something because you might still be interested.

amtaken:
Told you it is not personal.
When I was growing up, I knew many men who swore they would never have anything with any married woman but now I have noticed that many boys/men of nowadays don't fear God. Some of them even come online to narrate their escapades and some people cheer them.

People should shun evil.

You said married women are the cause, well the ones I have seen, the ones I am talking about, they are not the cause.

I know of a lady here who has children's boutique. One spoilt brat of a man has vowed that he must befriend her. He spends a lot of money regularly shopping from her shop even though the wife and kids live abroad. He tries everything to impress her and sends flowers and notes to her daily. The lady told him to stop wasting his time that she's a covenant child yet he is adamant.

We told her to ban him from her shop. Now he sends money regularly to her account because he once paid her by wiring money into her account.

You see that kind of temptation?

Men of this generation need to fear God.

op, d woman shud inform her husband nd he should take it up with him, before he set her up. some men are so devilish

ChappyChase:
Na him oo, and that m!nd no small at all!
The wey that broda dey tackle me, na make I dey follow Nairaland jeje oo..

hehehehe. You don steal person wife

Abeg ah no dey oooooo
Make I for no nack myself ban again

STFUareyouGod:
long one

sorry

STFUareyouGod:
hehehehe. You don steal person wife
Abeg ah no dey oooooo Make I for no nack myself ban again

For derailing

ajealadick:
Let's say the ones who confided in you did not get the price to make them succumb. Every woman has a price, what is the price is what the toaster ought to know before he sets out.

are u kidding?a price?dat is very unfortunate. dat means Ur conscience can also b bought. I am happily married and it was not for money but d personality of my hubby.and I believed in him and I know it wud continue to b beta for us.and we wud definitely get dere. I av Neva compromised my dignity for any amount of money as a married woman because no amount given to me dat wud not be spent finished. and above all I fear d Almighty God who sees wat Eva we do. pls,change Ur orientation and hop for d best.

MarieSucre:
Does she need to tell her husband first before the man backs off? Is her NO not enough.

Its natural in the Nigerian culture for a lady to say No at first. Your No is not enough when you dont take needful steps. Your No means yes when a man showers you with gifts and you keep it from your husband. It shows you are keeping the man around just in case. The man also knows this thats why he's still around. Im interested in knowing how happy the husband will be when he eventually knows that another man has been showering his wife with gifts.
If she hasnt told her husband, shes definately enjoying it.

OP, you too make sense sef...Why u fine like that?

MarieSucre:
I write as if I am tired of some men treating themselves like children.

-"Nooo she did not tell me No well"

"She should have slapped me and pushed me while saying NO so that I know that she means it"

"she should have rented big billboard inscribed with a big NO and stationed it at Oshodi bustop"

"She should have started dressing like Mary Amaka, wearing all those skinny jeans and make up must definitely be for me not for herself hence she is still not telling me NO"

"She should have use car and jam me when she sees me in the road, this one that she is driving slowly by me, she even greeted me politely, heeeeen the babe is still the nigga"

"As far as she has not used Knife to threaten me to leave her alone then I must intensify my efforts".

"She has not told her husband yet, only if her husband comes on the street and we fight serious fight. then the whole street start calling a troublesome woman because 2 men fought over her in public before I will really believe her NO"

My dear it is exhausting.

Then how do you explain women who have confessed that their initial "No" meant "Yes" and that they wanted the man to try harder.

How do you explain a lady who says she will say "No" till the point of sex even when she wants it badly.

How do you explain a lady who is adjusting her pants for a man and still saying No.

Face it. The lady is married, and two have become one. She does not keep situations such as this from her husband. Its enough to cause a disagreement in the family.

Gifts, notes, cash, c'mon. Whats she doing? and For how long?

The husband cant be pleased.

That's what we told her but she's afraid that her hubby might stop her from going to the store if she starts telling him about her male admirers.

mamawin:
op, d woman shud inform her husband nd he should take it up with him, before he set her up. some men are so devilish

if you ask me,na who i go ask?

Am happy that someone understands my post. I believe some of the men are satanic agents.

ifeyomade14:
dear sister,I got Ur drift,d single women on dis forum won't understand, I used to tink after getting married, I would b free from all these leeches of married men.but alas,I am dead wrong. even with me carrying my baby around,dey still disturb d hell out of me. mind u I use my hijab to d office and every where. sometimes, I can't help asking dis foolish men how dey wud feel like,if it were deir housewife fooling around. dey do give excuses dat a married woman can not get pregnant for dem and are more matured Dan d young girls who love to demand endlessly from dem. all in all,y shud a married man and woman engage in adultery?it is very bad and sinful.

sorepco:
Did u not c where she said she is married?i guess u r the type that goes to church to to church to toast babes....fear God mr man

And you my friend seem to be the type that sees things from the surface, just like most people here, knock yourself out bro...

Nigerians always quick to blame women. I told you I wasn't referring to lose women but decent ones and NO they did not comport themselves in bad ways.

andyanders:
Too bad. Op I know that you have been tempted by someone, but when/why were you tempted and who was the guy and further, why were you been tempted as a married woman?


I think that most women who get tempted by some guys seems to be as a result of how those kind of women comport themselves outside.

There are still some men who are selfish who rather see nothing bad in toasting married or pregnant women, but I see that as sickness as the person needs help as a result of lust in him.

she should discuss this with her husband asap; not after something sinister might have happened cos men like that often go violent.

amtaken:
Told you it is not personal.
When I was growing up, I knew many men who swore they would never have anything with any married woman but now I have noticed that many boys/men of nowadays don't fear God. Some of them even come online to narrate their escapades and some people cheer them.

People should shun evil.

You said married women are the cause, well the ones I have seen, the ones I am talking about, they are not the cause.

I know of a lady here who has children's boutique. One spoilt brat of a man has vowed that he must befriend her. He spends a lot of money regularly shopping from her shop even though the wife and kids live abroad. He tries everything to impress her and sends flowers and notes to her daily. The lady told him to stop wasting his time that she's a covenant child yet he is adamant.

We told her to ban him from her shop. Now he sends money regularly to her account because he once paid her by wiring money into her account.

You see that kind of temptation?

Men of this generation need to fear God.

domopps:
Dear it's on the increase cos we have some dellutional married women that encourages the act......

Even some of them would make the move first .........


That's why I stopped visiting some families till 2mao or how do I tell my fwend that his wife is making moves at me......




Cheeeeeers

You can't spell delusional nigguh? & you're happy? Jesus the SOB!

a stitch in time saves nine, they say. any husband who allows his wife to own a shop is already aware that she will have male attention. how she deals with it is what matters. this very case is extreme so the wife is duty-bound to tell the husband. after all they are supposed to be one (1+1=1).

amtaken:
That's what we told her but she's afraid that her hubby might stop her from going to the store if she starts telling him about her male admirers.

amtaken:
That's what we told her but she's afraid that her hubby might stop her from going to the store if she starts telling him about her male admirers.

she should tell him and stop assuming. if this matter cast, na your friend go lose. e be like say your friend dey enjoy the matter.

when he said "price", he doesn't mean money alone. good manners, carriage, dress sense, speech are all prices.
some women are even attracted to men with a certain body odour! what we all need, both men and women, to overcome some amorous temptation is prayers and that inner sense of what is good and bad.

ifeyomade14:
are u kidding?a price?dat is very unfortunate. dat means Ur conscience can also b bought. I am happily married and it was not for money but d personality of my hubby.and I believed in him and I know it wud continue to b beta for us.and we wud definitely get dere. I av Neva compromised my dignity for any amount of money as a married woman because no amount given to me dat wud not be spent finished. and above all I fear d Almighty God who sees wat Eva we do. pls,change Ur orientation and hop for d best.

Poster, am sorry but with the way you look...you are not going to pass me by...

Kazna69:
You can't spell delusional nigguh? & you're happy? Jesus the SOB!

And you can! Hope u are happy now?



Cheeeeeeers

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

Don't you know that anything out of bounds is always sweeter? I don't do such though.... the sweeter the deadlier but it doesn't change the fact that forbidden fruits re always sweetest...

amtaken:
What is wrong in being awake anytime of the day? Don't change the topic ok.

Attention seeker. What happened to reporting to your husband, or you are keeping your options opened?
Getting rid of a stubborn guy is not rocket science. Covenant wives my foot. Yet she's collecting his money and keeping it from her husband.

MarieSucre:
It is true there are more single girls going after married guys but does that mean that she should not write about her own experience. I don't understand your line of thinking. e.g Statistically there are more northern men marrying child brides hence if an Igbo man married a child bride it is selfish to talk about it. That line of thinking is absolutely ridiculous.

Its SOME men right? Why does she have to make it sound like all men and also as if its the most weird of all she's seen or heard?
Anyway, my line of thinking is ridiculous and now I understand why there's a comedy show in urs.

amtaken:
There are some guys who know that you are a legally married wife and still disturb your life. Some of them even try to entice you with big contracts. The worst part is when your ex begins to call your line every day, sending you whatsapp messages claiming that he can't forget you.

Why don't some men have fear of God? Why too much pressures on married women when there are many single girls out there? Some of them even go as far as hitting on a pregnant woman.

This is a very bad behaviour and must be discouraged.

Goodnight brothers and sisters.


NB: This is not personal.

Are you sure you are OK or are you silly?

How can you even look like that and have exes?
What were they thinking?

Tell the truth ,your first relationship led to marriage!!!

You can't look that way and claim you had exes.

No guy would leave someone that looks that way,even if you say you are leaving

So just STFU and always quote where you got your stories from to avoid being charged for plagiarism!!!

MarieSucre:
It is true there are more single girls going after married guys but does that mean that she should not write about her own experience. I don't understand your line of thinking. e.g Statistically there are more northern men marrying child brides hence if an Igbo man married a child bride it is selfish to talk about it. That line of thinking is absolutely ridiculous.

I like your signature btw, 'jin kunyan mara kunya asara ne'. Cool

I simply ignore them or shut them up... Or politely announce that I am happily married *depends on my mood. 'Coming around ' could be following me around ... It's an unfortunate truth. Any more questions? 'Sensible ones this time around.* I wont entertain silly questions again. Merci beaucoup.

joseph1832:
And what did you say to them? And what do you mean by 'coming around?' Don't tell me they came to your house?

justi4jesu:
Examples of wrong signals?

Revealing cleavages

Resting her head on your shoulder

3rdlegxxx:
I'm sorry I don't understand the term 'loose married woman' there is more to a relationship or marriage than all that, marriage is a title, made up of males and females and in terms of homosexuals, males and males or females and females, point is they are people with feelings, wants, needs, urges, fantasies and more, if a lady isn't satisfied, happy or getting the desired attention or understanding she use to get b4 venturing into marriage and she meets a guy who makes her happy, compliments her and fills in the roles her man is suppose to fill, her mind would begin a moral battle of conflict of interest and needs' she might end up doing the inevitable just to quench the urge or thirst, it coukd be from her ex or a guy who just happens to fill those voids, I'm not condoning it I am just thinking outside the box, there is more to it that using the marriage to cover it up, the parties involved still needs to make each other happy, stay fit, care, satisfy one another, just saying you are married doesn't automatically mean you are happy just like marrying a virgin doesn't guaranty or equate to a happy married life.

I get and understand your drift but then there are some guys out there who do it to add feathers to there caps. It's plain foolish and crass, no matter how lonely, bored or bitter a Married woman is with her husband like dis Op opined a guy who loves and fears God has no business comforting her intimately.C'mon guys how would you feel if it's ur wife?

DaGeneral:
I get and understand your drift but then there are some guys out there who do it to add feathers to there caps. It's plain foolish and crass, no matter how lonely, bored or bitter a Married woman is with her husband like dis Op opined a guy who loves and fears God has no business comforting her intimately. C'mon guys how would you feel if it's ur wife?

Nice points made, i see your points too, some guys need to grow up, some of us who know these secrets of easily getting our ways by using these mind games have had to stop it as over time it just stop being mature, mature is me giving guys and ladies advice and reasons why these things happen, some would read and walk away knowing it's the truth, others would disagree, anyways bro we are on the same page on this.

Help!Help!!help!!! one married lady in my neighbourhood often flips her wrapper open and close before me each time she see me coming she will flip the wrapper waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! open then waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa close.she does it with eye gaze on me.If I look the other way she wont greet me again for that day.what is wrong with women?