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amokeme:
and this came from a supposed grown up
May God give all mothers grace...

Niyinficient:
Dat other men cheat, doesn't mean a lady should cheat on a loving and faithful partner!

Kudos to dat dude for d note. Wud av done d same.

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance club and pls pray harder k?

fellis:
Why can't the other man mind his business? He doesn't know what is going on in the couple's life, he doesn't know if the man is cheating on the woman so he should back off.
What if the man is always beating the woman? What if he is not loving and romantic? What if he doesn't appreciate her and doesn't provide for her? Aproko man poking nose in what doesn't concern him.

And yes, I wrote the above to justify the woman's bad behaviour cos that's what Nairaland men would have done if the tables were turned.

fellis:
This is the type of rotten mentality many men have.
Nothing to be surprised about there. Thats how one of them was saying men pay dowry and paid for wedding ceremony so they are no longer bound to their marital vows regarding faithfulness.

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance club and pls pray harder k?

amokeme:
I bet if this was the other way round, the guy will be praised and called a "sharp guy" hypocrites everywhere!
If he was related to you, a friend or someone you know, ill understand. But this is just plain silly and shows he was actually checking the girl out too. Cause I don't understand why he didn't concentrate on the game he went there to see.
What makes him think the bf is a saint?? They might both be playing themselves for all we care.
Mehn loneliness is bad, who gets tipsy in a life game? This guy is the definition of loneliness!
Guess if he had a date to the game, or any other friend at that (be it male or female), he won't be poke nosing. Get yourself a girl and stay out of people's business!





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I missed the part where he said she was pregnant. Who cheats with a pregnancy?? I don't want to believe they are dating.he could be her brother/cousin or friend. Cause the whole thing doesn't make sense. People should mind there business still

iamrealdeji:
why are you so annoyed with the guy for doing the right thing? I know your type. What if the guy cheats? Do you have to compare yourself with guys? Or are you the one that takes care of your guy's needs? Nothing goes for nothing. Guys have the right to cheat because we take care of you,but you have no right to cheat except if you're the one that spends in the relationship.

Krismart:
If ur husband is not caring, loving and romantic enough then why not leave him, go back to ur father's house and wait 4 more romantic guys

amokeme:
yeah I missed that part. Doesn't change the fact that he should have minded his business. And who cheats with a pregnancy anyways? I don't want to believe they are dating

aforti:
What he did was noble, but the question is would he have done same if he saw the man texting another lady? Would he have seen him as a fake person?. The truth is no person runs away from wia they are being pampered. If the man was attending to his wife well. Giving her enough attention she won't have that vacuum to be filed by another man. Men learn please when your woman cheats it's not like when men cheat just for fun. Women cheat mostly cos they feel a certain level of emptiness, which they most have told you in bone way or the other but you never take it seriously, you either see it as nagging, women don't just cheat.

Doubleagent008:
Job 2: 10a says it all

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance club and pls pray harder k?

TheGoodJoe:


Cheating is wrong. Whether done by a man or woman. If a man wants another woman, he should end the relationship and stop wasting the woman's time or breaking her heart each time he cheats. End it once and for all.

If a woman feels another man is better, do the same thing. I am tired of the relationship. Let the man go and chase a woman who appreciates him.

As for this cheating woman in the article, she should go to Jason and end her relationship with this man.

It is fake. That is what the man who wrote the note is saying.

If Jason is so wonderful, what is so doing with the man boring herself. Break up and go to Jason. Unfortunately, the man made it easy for her man.

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance club and pls pray harder k?

Ultimatesammie:
Its funny how some guys here are saying he did d right thing nd how they wud do the same wen a similar thread/cases but in this case it was a woman trying to let a lady in a relationship know that her man is cheating on her nd they all said why cant the woman mind her business.
Some Men wud never cease to amaze u.

fellis:
This is very true.
The man is the reason why she is cheating.
It's his fault.

SUPOL:
People don't mind their business dese days y?

fellis:
Why can't cheating men also postpone marriage until they are sure they can control their urges and avoid adultery?

Krismart:
When u were dating him u didn't knw he wasnt romantic and loving.

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance club and pls pray harder k?

mineANDurs:
I laugh in swahili
When we were faithful, guys were cheating on us Left, Right & Center and we were told to endure it. Now that we decided to play a "little bit" of "their" game, they become pissed.
See wat we r enduring on daily basis?
U r welcomed to d endurance [/b]club and pls pray harder k?