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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Christoskurion: 9:55pm On Mar 02, 2016
Just surrender your life to the Lord Jesus Christ and share the goodnews in a mature and godly way with her before the wedding day. Life with an eternal value is worth than any earthly possession or pleasure.
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Magician1503(m): 9:55pm On Mar 02, 2016
Best gift for any ex wether on her wedding day o, birthday o, naming ceremony or her burial is a BETTER YOU. Finish angry

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by greatiyk4u(m): 9:55pm On Mar 02, 2016
Send her cash in her account b4 the day and den show up late at the reception 2 avoid story that touch
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 02, 2016
Enangson:
Please i need mature advice on the best gift i should get for my EX on her wedding few weeks from now. I really feel like surprising her with a gift since we both ended the relationship on good terms.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by bigerboy200: 10:00pm On Mar 02, 2016
Gebbson007:

exactly u Dnt wanca bring back old Shii
Then stay in ur house oh...a text wishing her a happy married life would do..
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by nonsoyoungprof: 10:01pm On Mar 02, 2016
just look at some silly commets pple re making, so bcs they dated .they should now become enemies, abeg make i ask ..must every relationship leads to marriage,..my dear show up nothing goona happen,
.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by linearity: 10:03pm On Mar 02, 2016
Enangson:
Please i need mature advice on the best gift i should get for my EX on her wedding few weeks from now. I really feel like surprising her with a gift since we both ended the relationship on good terms.

Some people eh? Dem go ask immature question like this, come bold dey talk say, dem need mature advice or response.

Na as bird fly dem dey take shot am oh.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by halfricanadian(f): 10:09pm On Mar 02, 2016
Magician1503:
Best gift for any ex wether on her wedding day o, birthday o, naming ceremony or her burial is a BETTER YOU. Finish angry

Really true nice one wink

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by halfricanadian(f): 10:10pm On Mar 02, 2016
Magician1503:
Best gift for any ex wether on her wedding day o, birthday o, naming ceremony or her burial is a BETTER YOU. Finish angry

Really true nice one wink a better you dating a better person
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by olusd(m): 10:10pm On Mar 02, 2016
What kind of people do we even have in this country? Must u comment if u have no good advice for d dude?
Give advice and not juggle ur hand by typing abuses on him.
Give her whatever comes from ur mind. But u can always get her a book on successful relationship. Bless u.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Godiskind: 10:19pm On Mar 02, 2016
I can't say it better
HungerBAD:
Best gift is not SHOW UP at her wedding.
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by montezz(f): 10:20pm On Mar 02, 2016
Enangson:
thanks for the advice so far. I have moved on with my life long ago, no regret whatsoever up till date. Just that when she invited me she pleaded that i should try and come if i really wish her well and have noting against her. So i was thinking of what to get for her if i make up my mind to go.

But i think i will stay back from the wedding as some of you have advised.
Don't mind them o. Went with my cousin to his ex's wedding last year but he didnt stay long. He just presented the gift and had a little chit chat with the babe and that was it. He has a fiancee and they r walking down the aisle soon. Just package something nice for her...could be a nice painting and present to her.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by demarc001: 10:20pm On Mar 02, 2016
may01:
I'm glad you ended your relationship on good terms, lots of people don't have the decency to do that... You could get a typical Nigerian wedding present so you don't raise her husband's suspicion
Nice, I see some people with good sense of reasoning still exist here.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by osifred(m): 10:22pm On Mar 02, 2016
That a relationship didn't work doesn't mean either of you were bad. It means you guys weren't destined to be together. Moreso, that you guys ended in a good note means you should go. She is your friend. Do for her what friends do for each other. Friends make each other happy.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by carterkelly1(m): 10:26pm On Mar 02, 2016
buy her an umbrella or rain coat,she will need it you know...rainy season is just around the corner!!

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by delishpot: 10:30pm On Mar 02, 2016
Enangson:
Please i need mature advice on the best gift i should get for my EX on her wedding few weeks from now. I really feel like surprising her with a gift since we both ended the relationship on good terms.

I am sure she would not be needing your gift. Why not let her enjoy her marriage na? Children of these days hold nothing sacred anymore sha. A man will swallow extra heart and go to the wedding of a woman he was intimate with and even shake the HUSBAND'S hands. Women sef no get shame. Inviting an ex to their wedding.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Roseey0(f): 10:31pm On Mar 02, 2016
Envelop some cAsh
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by purplelips(f): 10:37pm On Mar 02, 2016
some people just like looking for trouble undecided
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Krismart(m): 10:40pm On Mar 02, 2016
I don't even need d presence of any of my exs on my wedding day. Jst pray for me anywhere u are,am OK with that
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by halfricanadian(f): 10:41pm On Mar 02, 2016
Krismart:
I don't even need d presence of any of my exs on my wedding day. Jst pray for me anywhere u are,am OK with that

100% seconded

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by ChiefSweetus: 10:42pm On Mar 02, 2016
delishpot:


I am sure she would not be needing your gift. Why not let her enjoy her marriage na? Children of these days hold nothing sacred anymore sha. A man will swallow extra heart and go to the wedding of a woman he was intimate with and even shake the HUSBAND'S hands. Women sef no get shame. Inviting an ex to their wedding.
kiss

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by ominiriches2016(m): 10:47pm On Mar 02, 2016
Common sense is not common at all. The young man in question is civilised and he want to do something like a responsible man who love an ex. It is not necessary that you must marry your ex or even your present gf or bf. This called for maturity. It is very obvious that in our country (Nigeria), emotions and ego has envelope our sense of reasoning and maturity. I think the young man intentions is too far to what we buttressed. We can all show to love to one another not minding whether ex or present. I meant no insult, just in case.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Maxi112: 10:48pm On Mar 02, 2016
buy her a micro wave machine
she will be very glad
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by makizee(m): 10:49pm On Mar 02, 2016
You already said she said you should show up at the wedding if you have nothing against her, why then don't you just do as she asked...show up, make sure she sees you, wish her and her hubby well, have a nice time, eat jollof, drink red wine and go home...it is not a must you must give her a gift that may be misunderstood.



NB :But really, is it that some of us cannot think and have to come to nairaland for advice, i do not think i'll ever come here to see advice on anything whatsoever...when friends and families never finish.

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Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by airex(m): 10:51pm On Mar 02, 2016
Enangson:
Please i need mature advice on the best gift i should get for my EX on her wedding few weeks from now. I really feel like surprising her with a gift since we both ended the relationship on good terms.
The best gift you can give to her is ur wedding card.
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by waltrico: 10:52pm On Mar 02, 2016
My man look for the exact type of pant she used to wear b4 u do. Buy am wrap am for inside cooler she wll appreciate it. Enugo'?
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Maxi112: 10:52pm On Mar 02, 2016
halfricanadian:


100% seconded
u are not serious for not wanting any of exs to grace ur weeding for u,

for carying out loud.. what is wrong there? except u have done all the things am thinking of right now... while in relationship with all of them... yea!
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Richy4(m): 10:56pm On Mar 02, 2016
You omitted what your budget was....... how much do you want to spend? Just say your budget, then we will know what to get...

I was mad with one of my friend once, unfortunately for him, that was a month to his wedding, so I bought a flower vase for him... no flower... I just wrap it nicely and gave him....

When we reconciled our differences, he told me infront of our friends that I was wicked.... how can I buy something like that... he doesn't even know what to do with the gift.....everyone was just laughing. Only that you guys were in good terms, I would have suggested you buy a dictionary and wrap it nicely.....
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by halfricanadian(f): 10:58pm On Mar 02, 2016
Maxi112:
u are not serious for not wanting any of exs to grace ur weeding for u,

for carying out loud.. what is wrong there? except u have done all the things am thinking of right now... while in relationship with all of them... yea!

See most of my exes betrayed me as frnds so wats d point

If dey never betrayed me im more dan ready to have dem around bt for wat dey av done no way

grin there are exes i can even give 10 invitation cards too there are some that i just dont want to see their shadows!
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by chigoizie7(m): 11:01pm On Mar 02, 2016
Why do we all have to be enemies?

That we stopped being lovers doesn't mean we are enemies.

I mean, we meet various people in life for some reasons, either as a blessing or to teach us some lessons.

As long as u made me happy @ some point in my life, I owe u alot.

The least I can do is to be your enemy.

So, just get her a kinda gift she is meant to forget easily.


I am happy u broke up on a good note bro. This life is too small for grudges.
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by Maxi112: 11:04pm On Mar 02, 2016
halfricanadian:


See most of my exes betrayed me as frnds so wats d point

If dey never betrayed me im more dan ready to have dem around bt for wat dey av done no way

grin there are exes i can even give 10 invitation cards too there are some that i just dont want to see their shadows!
awww! I understand
sori for been rude on u...

next time u want to date, plz take time to study d person so dey don't betray u
Re: ADVICE On The Best Gift To Give An EX On Her Wedding. by halfricanadian(f): 11:05pm On Mar 02, 2016
Maxi112:
awww! I understand
sori for been rude on u...

next time u want to date, plz take time to study d person so dey don't betray u

Its ok cheesy


Tank u grin

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