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Creamish:
Ul end up marrying a man... datz no woman there..

MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

My dear, as a woman you must submit to your husband, in all things. I tell you from experience. You see even if you had a twin brother, by virtue of him being male, he will grow to be more sensible than you are. It does not matter whether he has made grievous mistakes in the past or he has indulged in rash decisions. once he gets married and he assumes that title "Head of the House" or "Husband", he automatically gets magically imbued common sense.
Now you must understand that your husband is the God you see, throw away all talk of partnership, is there any partnership between God and Man. NO!! God is forever above man, as your husband is forever above you. You must grovel at his feet, contort yourself to the point of elasticity and numb your emotions, because the only feelings that should be your primary concern in that union should be his. You must do everything for him short of worshipping him. You are lucky to be married. Some women are still single and anytime they pass a bustop or junction, people spit at them and throw rotten tomatoes at them. Do you want to be one of those bitter single women?

Listen, any thing that is wrong with any relationship is the woman's fault. She needs to check herself to make sure she does not lose him like a toy to some other woman. Is he cheating on you? Then you must either be dressing like an old woman or not giving him enough blowjobb. Is he beating you? Then you must either be a nag or a stupid housewife who brings no monetary value to the union except maybe do all the housework and take care of both your children. Check yourself. Men are too rational unlike emotional and confused women. Check yourself Nigerian Woman.

Finally. concerning this topic, here are some definitions of what submissive means.

adjective
-Being subjected to an action without producing a reaction.Taking no action.
He remained passive during the protest.(grammar)
-Being in the passive voice.(psychology) -Being inactive andsubmissive in a relationship, especially in a sexual one.
(finance) Not participating in management.
(aviation) Without motive power.

Here is another definition--
Submissive

One who gives over their rights, their desires, and
themselves to another. As a gift.
Of the two, Jane was the most submissive.
by. Anonymous November 02, 2003

submission /səbˈmɪʃ(ə)n/
noun
1. the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force
or to the will or authority of another person.

Some men here will want to wrongly deceive you that there is power in submission. That is a bloody lie. There is no requirement for how he is to reciprocate. Even if the Bible tells you that Husbands should love wives as themselves, you know some women, they will try to take advantage of such love. Don't let her cross boundaries. Plus we as women, what do we even need the power for sef?
We are helpers. If He need sex we give it. Why do we need to stay on top? What else. We start asking our husbands to give us mouth job, cunninlingus? Start demanding that we also have orgasms? That is un-african. There is no power in being submissive. You are a woman. You do not need to have any. Thank God you have a man.

So this is not a case of him getting your opinion, he doesn't bloody need your input. Did David need his previous wife opinion before marrying a new wife? NO! If he wants to bring in the whole village into his house, then he bloody well can. He is the head of the family. Its his house, he paid a lot of money on you, you're his property. You will host his guest, cook and clean after them. If you cannot do that, then he gets another girl to do it simple. /

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amokeme:
wow! Wow! Wow! you got to be kidding me! what did I just read?? Oh my goodness, ma( that is if you are a woman which I strongly doubt), you must have been through alot . May God liberate you in Jesus name!
Things are happening g in this life...

@ Kondomatic I think this is your kind of woman.

igivefuck4free:
And if she refused?

Creamish:
A man is behind that handle. It's waayyy too obvious. Either that or she has been irredeemably brainwashed.

Creamish:
A man is behind that handle. It's waayyy too obvious. Either that or she has been irredeemably brainwashed.

mamawin:
don't be deceived, d wives called d shots nowadays, they jointly build d house, buy d cars, pay sch fees, etc. so which one is ' his house'? although Im of d opinion that wives shud submit, it even makes it easy for her wishes to be done without d husb knowing.

Kondomatic:
Goan sleep

Creamish:
Goan unban yasef!

Kondomatic:
Most guys build house before marrying a wife so I don't know the house you're talking about

mamawin:
most guys? I don't believe that. nowadays, couples join hands tgther to do most things. that's all I know

MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

My dear, as a woman you must submit to your husband, in all things. I tell you from experience. You see even if you had a twin brother, by virtue of him being male, he will grow to be more sensible than you are. It does not matter whether he has made grievous mistakes in the past or he has indulged in rash decisions. once he gets married and he assumes that title "Head of the House" or "Husband", he automatically gets magically imbued common sense.
Now you must understand that your husband is the God you see, throw away all talk of partnership, is there any partnership between God and Man. NO!! God is forever above man, as your husband is forever above you. You must grovel at his feet, contort yourself to the point of elasticity and numb your emotions, because the only feelings that should be your primary concern in that union should be his. You must do everything for him short of worshipping him. You are lucky to be married. Some women are still single and anytime they pass a bustop or junction, people spit at them and throw rotten tomatoes at them. Do you want to be one of those bitter single women?

Listen, any thing that is wrong with any relationship is the woman's fault. She needs to check herself to make sure she does not lose him like a toy to some other woman. Is he cheating on you? Then you must either be dressing like an old woman or not giving him enough blowjobb. Is he beating you? Then you must either be a nag or a stupid housewife who brings no monetary value to the union except maybe do all the housework and take care of both your children. Check yourself. Men are too rational unlike emotional and confused women. Check yourself Nigerian Woman.

Finally. concerning this topic, here are some definitions of what submissive means.

adjective
-Being subjected to an action without producing a reaction.Taking no action.
He remained passive during the protest.(grammar)
-Being in the passive voice.(psychology) -Being inactive andsubmissive in a relationship, especially in a sexual one.
(finance) Not participating in management.
(aviation) Without motive power.

Here is another definition--
Submissive

One who gives over their rights, their desires, and
themselves to another. As a gift.
Of the two, Jane was the most submissive.
by. Anonymous November 02, 2003

submission /səbˈmɪʃ(ə)n/
noun
1. the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force
or to the will or authority of another person.

Some men here will want to wrongly deceive you that there is power in submission. That is a bloody lie. There is no requirement for how he is to reciprocate. Even if the Bible tells you that Husbands should love wives as themselves, you know some women, they will try to take advantage of such love. Don't let her cross boundaries. Plus we as women, what do we even need the power for sef?
We are helpers. If He need sex we give it. Why do we need to stay on top? What else. We start asking our husbands to give us mouth job, cunninlingus? Start demanding that we also have orgasms? That is un-african. There is no power in being submissive. You are a woman. You do not need to have any. Thank God you have a man.

So this is not a case of him getting your opinion, he doesn't bloody need your input. Did David need his previous wife opinion before marrying a new wife? NO! If he wants to bring in the whole village into his house, then he bloody well can. He is the head of the family. Its his house, he paid a lot of money on you, you're his property. You will host his guest, cook and clean after them. If you cannot do that, then he gets another girl to do it simple. /

SirJeffry Estharfabian misreal Strahovski1 kilokeys viktor01
efficiencie Kazrem Irore mamaafrik tietie85 ghostwritter
linusbnn tonero4urch HIGHESTPOPORI AfroKnight Achilles2 engrshakespeare NemzySeries saxomo6 paschu
pbs4real osenidvdg pinkpebbles Sixix bukatyne EgunMogaji EgunMogaji aumeehn ghostwritter

Kondomatic:
Most guys build house before marrying a wife so I don't know the house you're talking about

vague:
So why are 99.2% of most newly weds renting other people's houses in 2016?

Kondomatic:
I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

Adaeze003:
Actually one sensible mention from a guy/man, no insulting word or comment... me likey.

Actually, marriage is a union. I mean, even the whites, as rational as they are know this, why do you think every asset is split down the middle in divorce?

Now, you must understand that no one is sharing "head of house" with man. Also, I don't subscribe to african type marriages where I'll live my whole life stroking a man's ego. Well if you subscribe to it then ignore the rest of the post. But if you're talking Christian type marriage go on...

Now, on the submission issue, you have to agree that men are also to love their wives like their own body/self? And even unto dying for her Do you think it's that feeling of the heart pumping faster when you see her? Do you really think women have the hardest part? Love is synonymous to selflessness and putting her/her needs/wants before yours , overlooking her flaws(even if one of those flaws is not being submissive ), I can go on but I think you get the picture after all bible says "like Christ himself loves the world"!


But hey! What the average Nigerian man wants is slavery, the right to never be questioned by their wives even when they poke other holes, ultimately, they want to be gods of their wives. It might work, but only for sometime even for the insecure women then, there's friction(fact!).

This is the reason marriages are in trouble, men have decided to not see their own part and they hold on to the submission part and carry it on their heads like agege bread.

Complete the equation or let it go completely, if you want submission, love like you're supposed to. That's it! If not, you're in for a whirlwind of a marriage.

Oya where are all them mentioners, read and digest...
Cc EgunMogaji ghostwritter gumeehn linusbnn agu87 SirJeffry engrshakespeare krismart mamaafrik kondomatic...

urchbarbie:
what r u saying Mr Have u not seen women wth houses and re willing to 'help' the man pay her dowry The thing with some men is that they av taken this head of the house thing to far and it clouds their thinking. a marriage is a union of 2 individuals, yes, one is D husband(head) while d oda is d subordinate. The issue is, can one work without the other? not at all. This is a union where one person checks the excesses of the oda and vice versa. there cant be success whr one party exerts his authority at all times. Learn to see women/wives as ur partner in biz and not the office assistant.

ashjay001:
I don't believe what u said can work in this age n time. Ladies have earning power and can actually call men's bluff. And, really, a lot of men don't deserve anything submissive.

Adaeze003:
Actually one sensible mention from a guy/man, no insulting word or comment... me likey.

Actually, marriage is a union. I mean, even the whites, as rational as they are know this, why do you think every asset is split down the middle in divorce?

Now, you must understand that no one is sharing "head of house" with man. Also, I don't subscribe to african type marriages where I'll live my whole life stroking a man's ego. Well if you subscribe to it then ignore the rest of the post. But if you're talking Christian type marriage go on...

Now, on the submission issue, you have to agree that men are also to love their wives like their own body/self? And even unto dying for her Do you think it's that feeling of the heart pumping faster when you see her? Do you really think women have the hardest part? Love is synonymous to selflessness and putting her/her needs/wants before yours , overlooking her flaws(even if one of those flaws is not being submissive ), I can go on but I think you get the picture after all bible says "like Christ himself loves the world"!


But hey! What the average Nigerian man wants is slavery, the right to never be questioned by their wives even when they poke other holes, ultimately, they want to be gods of their wives. It might work, but only for sometime even for the insecure women then, there's friction(fact!).

This is the reason marriages are in trouble, men have decided to not see their own part and they hold on to the submission part and carry it on their heads like agege bread.

Complete the equation or let it go completely, if you want submission, love like you're supposed to. That's it! If not, you're in for a whirlwind of a marriage.

Oya where are all them mentioners, read and digest...
Cc EgunMogaji ghostwritter gumeehn linusbnn agu87 SirJeffry engrshakespeare krismart mamaafrik kondomatic...

linusbnn:
Woman who is well to do without a husband is an unfulfilled woman. My wife can only give me reasons not to do what I intend doing,but if I chose otherwise,she has no say.

CNN80:
[/color][color=#000000]Men, your sarcasm is great. I almost believed you were serious


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MarieSucre:
misreal silverr Adaeze003 HaneefahRN EgunMogaji Sixix paschu amokeme

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

MarieSucre:
misreal silverr Adaeze003 HaneefahRN EgunMogaji Sixix paschu amokeme

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

MarieSucre:
misreal silverr Adaeze003 HaneefahRN EgunMogaji Sixix paschu amokeme

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

MarieSucre:
misreal silverr Adaeze003 HaneefahRN EgunMogaji Sixix paschu amokeme

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.

linusbnn:
A woman can only bluff a gold digger man or the lazy type. A man who knws how to hustle hard will never tolerate a dominance woman

silverr:
My bad.
I thought so too but you kinda defended that post despite the lashing.

Oya sorry. Hope I'm forgiven

MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

MarieSucre:
Creamish
Sixix

I am sorry both. I apologize for the deception. If you had only gone through my post history you would have immediately known that I am not only female but also speak out for women. I was trolling with heavy layers of sarcasm.

Ndo, ejo, I am sorry. Hope it has started raining in your side o. This heat no be here.

linusbnn:
Woman who is well to do without a husband is an unfulfilled woman. My wife can only give me reasons not to do what I intend doing,but if I chose otherwise,she has no say.

MarieSucre:
Adaeze003

This is first guy to realise my post is trolling of the highest order. For the women insulting. My post is a prime example of SARCASM.