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I am tired of my relationship because I have this girlfriend that really has a sharp mouth, she is always quick to throw insults at me in an argument and hide under her being a woman so she is allowed to run her mouth. Once we have any disagreement, she just begins to rain abuses on me and if I do so much as make any response to her, she believes that I am a weak man.

Now I believe we live in the 21st century and women don’t live under the rocks of “I am a woman,” any more. Am I really a weak man for standing up to her or what do you think I should do? I once told her that all genders are equal and if she thinks she can get away with always running her mouth, she won’t with me. Her insults are quite demoralizing and not good for my state of mind but when we are not at loggerheads, she always seem to be the perfect woman.

How does one deal with an abusive woman?

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U reset her brain with a thunderous slap.. dats it

I'm inviting you to my church 'RUN FOR YOUR LIFE CHRISTIAN MINISTRY'

U should try giving her a crazy kiss

I was once in situation like yours. The bitter truth is that, it will only get worse. Eventually it will lead to physical assaults and destruction of properties. Just QUIT the relationship now that you are whole and sane. Wishing you the very best with each passing day.

You have two options. 1 is to find out what is really her problem, there is likely to be something that is disturbing her within. Find it and fix and then enroll for a "stop pissing her of management class".

2. Is to treat her like she doesn't exist when she's running her mouth. You can do that by gaming with your phone, preferably football and celebrate the goals as if you are in the stadium with them.

When her lips get tired and her blood calms, tell her that you cannot continue with the relationship because you have had enough of her rants.

Pay Your Tithe Later.

donbenedict:
U reset her brain with a thunderous slap.. dats it

i love dis advice, it's just dat its not a gud 1. From me, jus end d shit, OP, end it.

Brymo:
i love dis advice, it's just dat its not a gud 1. From me, jus end d shit, OP, end it.

I think he shuld gv her the back hand whozzing and end it.

Double combo... she will begin to respect him

divinehand2003:
I was once in situation like yours. The bitter truth is that, it will only get worse. Eventually it will lead to physical assaults and destruction of properties. Just QUIT the relationship now that you are whole and sane. Wishing you the very best with each passing day.

You've said it all

"...weep not for path left alone cos beyond every bend is a long blinding end Its the worst kind of pain I've known"

DUDE



GIVE HER DOUBLE SLAP FOR HER FOREHEAD....

TO RE-SET HER MEMORY

give her space stop choking her up with love she doesn't need it,your self esteem is obviously gone. Be on your own for a while and let her be. You know that saying "you don't know What you have till you lose it" let her lose you as in stop being too frequent in her life.






Just leave her Abeg Biko!

donbenedict:
I think he shuld gv her the back hand whozzing and end it.

Double combo... she will begin to respect him

hehe, u sounded lk a misogynist n guys lk u wud treat a woman well.