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Single ladies who build a shell around themselves for a long time may make men see them as a no-go area. This is because it does not take men a long time to back out of a relationship which is time wasting.

things single ladies say

The end result of any faithful relationship should be conjugal bliss. It is not too good if a relationship starts on a promising note, but later hits the rock. Although, both parties could be at fault, but the men these days are fuming that some single ladies do not have any attribute of being a wife.

Some of the reasons below are some of the things men discuss among themselves.


1. I’m in a relationship

It is rather funny to hear more than 70% of Nigerian single ladies say they are in a relationship when a man meets them for the first time. If a man meets a woman through the different social media chatting rooms or online dating sites, she could indicate there that she is single. However, the story changes when a man asks her to further confirm her relationship status. The next she says is that she has a man in her life. This is rather absurd! The question men who are searching for wife do ask is, where are the single ladies who are looking for husbands?

A true life situation is the story of a man who showed so much interest in a woman about three years. The woman rebuffed him initially, but later gave out her phone number. When the man asked her out, she willingly agreed. The relationship continued in this way for six months. Both man and woman exchanged chats, calls and gifts. However, when the man asked if she was ready for marriage after the seventh month of them being together, she said she was in a relationship.

The man later asked her severally if she was sure she was indeed in a relationship. She reiterated her initial statement that she was in a relationship. The man told her he had no choice than to leave her. After a few months of leaving the lady, the man met another lady who was ready for marriage. Both the man and the new lady got married in little or no time of knowing each other.



The man after his second wedding anniversary was surprised to see a strange text message from a female folk, stating if they could re-new their relationship. The man called the number as he had deleted the former lady’s number when they parted ways. She was overtly surprised that it was the same lady who said she was in a relationship when he met her three years ago. The man had to tell her he was two years old in his marriage. He told the lady to look elsewhere. He reminded her of all that transpired between both of them when they were in their pseudo-relationship.

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its not everybody that's destined to marry

Some ladies r destined to remain single for life


Example Linda, jenny...

I no call person name ooo...

donbenedict:
Some ladies r destined to remain single for life


Example Linda, jenny...

I no call person name ooo...

Lolz bad guy

but you listed one reason and not 5, awaiting the other 4

...coming back

ladies....hmmm
Indeed They are their real problem.
Every single ladie recive sense dis very momment
Oya come and sow seeds

every day marry marry marry

how much moni has been deposited into d acct of those who are married?

attainable99:
but you listed one reason and not 5, awaiting the other 4

2. I’m not yet ready for marital challenges

Even, a single lady who graduated from the universities or polytechnics close to 30 years old, still believes she has to join the Nigerian labour market first. She believes the most important thing to her is to not to use her critical thinking and intuition to remove herself from singlehood. She thinks it is employment or nothing else.

Men are tired of all these. When these single ladies are fortunate to get the job they want, they are entangled in the job as men see them as old cargoes even if they have all the money in the world. Men will not want to marry them anymore.

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