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Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

amokeme:
some will never learn! You are seeing the signs clearly and you are still confused about what mbok?
You will get married to him with all these signs, and when he starts beating you in his house, you will open your mouth too to insult Nigerian men. Your female children seeing what their dad is doing to you too will have the idea that Nigerian men are bad. And your male kids will see the way you nag to your husband( without knowing the frustration he is putting you through) and think all Nigerian women are nags... and that's how it all begins... and they will all go into the society creating threads on how Nigerian men are useless or how Nigerian women are useless... and start the #teamforeignguys and #teamforeigngirls

Please henergygirl don't marry him before you bring another generation of hateful kids into this alrdy hateful world,
The ones on NL are enough

Raymondenyi:
you really need help, if you lack in English language, you should seek help..... This isn't a classroom and I'll not waste my time on a kid that knows nothing putting you through written English.....

mineANDurs:
See question! . I wonder when my fellow womenfolk will learn. Oya go and marry a Ticking Time Bomb and come back later to complain when it Explodes. Mtcheew!

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

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Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....




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Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so ill as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage , which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time, as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....




* modified*
Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so ill as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage , which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time, as i will not reciprocate the privilege*

akanbiaa:
I dislike these set of people on social media the "your english is not good enough" for the following reason
1. They never offer specific corrections
2. They fail to understand that inteligence is not by English
3. They love to show themselves yet they cannot get English Teacher job in any average private school because they fail both in the aptitude test and interview woefully. Traditional language ti take over if you want to show you English expertise sambissa is not far the people there need you more.

Instead of blaming people trying to correct/educate the poster, advice the poster to get good books like 'First Aid in English', 'Lexis and Structure', e.t.c..... books that can improve your spoken and written English.

netizenbuzz:
There is nothing wrong in expecting someone who claims to love you to step up when you are down. Y'all are talking this financial independence thing too far. There's love in sharing and it goes both ways. Stop decieving yourselves. Personally I would still expect you to offer and then I can politely decline. Not because I am a woman and you are a man but because I would do the same for you if you were in that situation. She's not immature to be expectant please, she's only being human. How can you claim you love someone and you are not ready to give your all to the person? That is what I call immaturity because you obviously don't know what love is.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....





Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....


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jeff1607:
Ok ma'am but would you decide to stay wit such person especially if i is his first time hitting you? or would you just leave?

mimzy:
Hmmmm. Be wise my dear. Don't blindly dig ur own grave. I won't mince words as it seems u rly need someone to jolt you out of ur reverie with the bitter truth. I have been in ur shoes before, I stayed hoping things would get better, it wasn't until I was battered once more that I came to my senses that a man ain't rly worth dying for. He even stated it already that he WL give u double d previous slap, what other clarification do u want darling?

The handwriting is clearly written on the wall...leave him before your story becomes that of the Ibadan lady that murdered her husband owing to accumulated hurts.

Abo oro lan so fun omoluabi... Toba denue a di odindin..

SimonN:
.. English prof

mimzy:
Olodo rabata. Oju eja lomo je. Oni je paper. Silati loma lo. Aji yan wo. Eba tutu lomoje . shiki shiki. Shiorrrrr . Oro dun , ofe ke. Wole Soyinka. Mschewww. Did I even mention u in d first place. Notice me oshi

She highlighted all ur blunders. Its a shame cos u were tryna put someone else down when u ain't perfect. Stop tryna blow grammar biko. If u can't construct , keep it simple and real.
P.S I won't reply u again. UV been noticed

Souljeezy:
I SELL COMMON SENSE ..2 FOR #5


OH OH..DOLLAR RISED
ITS NOW 2 FOR #100

glimpse33:
The Fact That He Onced Raised His Stinky Hand To Slap You Is Enough Reason To Arrest Him.
Do Not Marry Him Please, Else He I'd Turn You Into A Punching Bag

Suigeneris93:
Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

ODI kwa egwu.


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Back to the topic; Madam do not marry him, not because he is not suitable for you, but rather you are not psychologically mature for marriage. A lady with the mentality of "if you don't pay my bills or spoil me with gifts, then you not the one" is definitely not psychologically ripe for marriage ...... also the hypothetical anecdote you tried using on him further reaffirms my stance on your immaturity........ so i'll as a matter of urgency admonish you take out time, forget marriage for now, and do some growing up before you venture into that esteemed institution called marriage which is often trivialise by kids of today.....



*for those quoting me on inanities, you are only wasting your time as i will not reciprocate the privilege*