but the couple looks okay na,abi what's the girl's father excuse ??

Eyop:


don't mind them like if they can also allow that if it happens to their own daughter. The parents of the girl must have their reasons for rejecting that guy from the onset.

Is it the parents of the girl that will live in the marriage forever??

masterblogger:
It's morally and religiously wrong for a woman to marry without the parents consent.

But legally?

Police are meant to enforce the law, not religion or morals.
Before a girl who trained in medicine could marry without parents' consent, she would have tried everything to persuade her parents.

It seems her parents were against the guy from the get go. Maybe over social class or something.

Toeyoursea:
Shout out to all the fools that opened this thread with the intention of seeing a story of an Hausa/Muslim whose wife is hidden in the Emirs palace.

Awon Oloriburuk# tribalist oshi

Chai, see frustration..

yomip3t:


Where have you read that it's a good thing to Marry without your parent saying a YES to it?

Whether it's a good thing or not is as a result of moral values and not in any way related to law. She made herself cheap by marrying a man that has not paid her bride price, yes, we know, but that's none of your business because the person in question is not a 14-year old girl but a matured adult.

b0rn2fuck:
Na Wao! If na yoruba ,dem no go bother, you commot burden for the parents head at 28, if na my people. Chai, this guy don't steal their source of wealth and he must pay for it by all means.

I knew that lady in med school, her parents are super-rich, so money ain't the problem here.

Probably the guy just didn't find favour in their eyes.

DrObum:

See your ignorance!

We're talking of 2 adults here and not a kidnapped child!
She hasn't agreed that the marriage is against her will!

Northern hypocrite!

Do you know the meaning of Abduction at all? Coz you are spitting what you don't know all because of free data.

biggz82:
Shuu, dem b adults na

Over to the wailers, is this another Yinusa case

Eyop:


don't mind them like if they can also allow that if it happens to their own daughter. The parents of the girl must have their reasons for rejecting that guy from the onset.

Even if they have their reasons and intimated the girl about it but insisted it must be the guy, the proper thing to do is leave them alone. It's about their happiness as a couple and not her parent's.

lezz:
If the girl is an adult and he marries her statutorily, they don't need parental approval. That's what the law says.

Sadly the NPF is a raving fan of corruption. They cannot discern right from wrong anymore..

I don't see where d man erred which is why I'd like if he can take this matter to court.

peacengine:


My thoughts exactly, we are not hearing the whole story

Except there's no valid reason for rejecting the guy but even with that,i do not support any marital rites without parents approval. The guy might be flexing muscle at the early stage claiming that he has succeeded in marrying their daughter and it ends there but if by chance something happens to their daughter(DEATH) in future, that's when he'll know that khaki no be leather mostly if the girl comes from a strong traditional root.

No be Falz marry so

Sanchez01:

Whether it's a good thing or not is as a result of moral values and not in any way related to law. She made herself cheap by marrying a man that has not paid her bride price, yes, we know, but that's none of your business because the person in question is not a 14-year old girl but a matured adult.

Mature adult doesn't work with taking a child away from his / her parent okay.

It's called Abduction!!!!

yomip3t:


Where have you read that it's a good thing to Marry without your parent saying a YES to it?

Nobody says it is a good thing. But it is not a legal requirement nor must you get parental consent if you are of age. If you have objections, you are encouraged to let the priest in charge know before the wedding. In the case of the registry it published for a period of time after which the intending couple is licensed to marry.

Ihebu4chelsea:
lol can be sucks.... you too much joor

These are the ones complaining of mass failure in Jamb few weeks ago.Asap "can be sucks" . Lol

kITATITA:


And 28 year old woman (medical professional) doesn't require parental consent for marriage or any decision for that matter.

28 ke? Once you are 18, you don't need consent from anyone.

Sanchez01:

Even if they have their reasons and intimated the girl about it but insisted it must be the guy, the proper thing to do is leave them alone. It's about their happiness as a couple and not her parent's.

We still do not know their reasons for rejecting the guy because the story is incomplete. But like i said, i do not support any marriage that parents are against to avoid future problems. Agreed they are Adults but marriage is a life time thing.

Eyop:


Except there's no valid reason for rejecting the guy but even with that,i do not support any marital rites without parents approval. The guy might be flexing muscle at the early stage claiming that he has succeeded in marrying their daughter and it ends there but if by chance something happens to their daughter(DEATH) in future, that's when he'll know that khaki no be leather mostly if the girl comes from a strong traditional root.

Very true

Cutehector:
Why r Nigerian parents so self centred like this? They always want to choose for their children in all things and that is so not right.


Let me see any of my parents tryn to influence my marriage, I will tell dem who is d man.. mchew.

guy park well jare, u r jst blabbing bull.shiite, don't worry, wen u become a father u will understand the pain of " after sacrificing a lot to train up ur children, u see them go to waste in the name of whatever" u tink it's funny training ur daughter very well n she ends up wasted with a fuckkkin dude?

bughead:
lol I wonder ohh.

woman of 20 something years comot for house willingly say that man na her husband and the MUMU police dey ARREST the man for sealing oh no be even kidnapped.

you see Nigeria!

Blame the change system. Very soon Police will start arresting people for fvcking their wives twice daily.

peacengine:


Very true

Yes because he's not recognized by the family as the husband.

kITATITA:


Nobody says it is a good thing. But it is not a legal requirement nor must you get parental consent if you are of age. If you have objections, you are encouraged to let the priest in charge know before the wedding. In the case of the registry it published for a period of time after which the intending couple is licensed to marry.

Try it and come back to tell us you story here on Nairaland.... Na the guy go know what's up now.

luthorcorp:
but the couple looks okay na,abi what's the girl's father excuse ??

You dont know police and their stupidity..

NPF is made up of clowns.

By the time CP handles the matter, he will tell her parents, " Stop wasting police time "..

Angelberry:
In most churches without parental consent they won't join the couples.

sit down there ....drop some serious money and all the church pastors go line up to officiate the wedding

hmmmmmm I can see some yeye guys here saying its wrong for the parent to arrest him.how is it wrong shey na him take care of her till where she dey now,her parent must have hand in anything she do before she marry. so for that guy they must punish him and I don't blame some yeye guys here. cuz they are lazy they want to reap in where they did not sow they just want to have wife as if they are buying poly bag.

sweetboiy:
"A stitch in time saves nine" can be classify under what kind of essay? I'm a bit confuse guys!

Tailoring essay.

Eyop:


We still do not know their reasons for rejecting the guy because the story is incomplete. But like i said, i do not support any marriage that parents are against to avoid future problems. Agreed they are Adults but marriage is a life time thing.

They're already married. I have a doctor friend who knows her. I placed a call through to him now and he said they're married already. I learnt she is the first born of her parents and she is not the confrontational type. My friend claims their friends who were present at their wedding have been arrested by the girl's parents. It seems her family is influential. The law has joined them already and it late for the parents.

She's not a child na

yomip3t:


Try it and come back to tell us you story here on Nairaland.... Na the guy go know what's up now.

I don't have to tell you personal details on Nairaland. It's my marriage and I didn't need any family when I married.

yomip3t:

Mature adult doesn't work with taking a child away from his / her parent okay.
It's called Abduction!!!!

What was your comment again when the Yunusa Saga was hot

bigiyaro:
guy park well jare, u r jst blabbing bull.shiite, don't worry, wen u become a father u will understand the pain of " after sacrificing a lot to train up ur children, u see them go to waste in the name of whatever" u tink it's funny training ur daughter very well n she ends up wasted with a fuckkkin dude?

a fvckin dude? Does dat guy in d pic look poor to u? Get the fvck out of my sight.. goat.