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Am in a higher institution and I don't have a girlfriend
and is not that am not trying to get one it just that I end up getting rejected its either the girl is in a relationship or she refuses ...am getting frustrated becos everyone just assumes I have a girlfriend becos am tall black n handsome so am told even the girls just assume I have one imaginary girlfriend somewhere but am single n lonely even my male friends are beginning to make fun of me
And me am beginning to be very angry with myself becos thinking am a loser or something I just want to know if there are guys like me out there how do u cope with the singleness n loneliness ...even at night

.Listen up ur papa/mama nor send u go sch to luk for Girlfriend.Let ur books be ur partner for now. Girls boku for outside. 5 minute enjoyment can ruin ur destiny if care is not takin.Girl can wait for now and trust me,u won't the one to do the run.Wish u well

girls shouldn't be your priority in college now bro. hell if the girls come, you should turn them down.

Lol you probably give out a thirsty vibe and it chases babes away. I understand how being lonely is, just face your books and stop trying to hard. It comes when we are not searching.

it can be any if the ffg reasons
1. maybe u re not persistent enough 2. ur style is boring and not good enough 3. e get spiritual backup

zinachidi:
girls shouldn't be your priority in college now bro. hell if the girls come, you should turn them down.

turn then down?

adeseun22:
turn then down?

yap , seriously though.

bulldogpuppy:
Am in a higher institution and I don't have a girlfriend
and is not that am not trying to get one it just that I end up getting rejected its either the girl is in a relationship or she refuses ...am getting frustrated becos everyone just assumes I have a girlfriend becos am tall black n handsome so am told even the girls just assume I have one imaginary girlfriend somewhere but am single n lonely even my male friends are beginning to make fun of me
And me am beginning to be very angry with myself becos thinking am a loser or something I just want to know if there are guys like me out there how do u cope with the singleness n loneliness ...even at night

So, your reasons for wanting to have a girl friend is because...




You think you are handsome and by so, you deserve a girlfriend abi??




And because your friends are making mockery of your girlfriendless status shey?



Hmmm, your priorities and criterias are already misplaced...so, my brother, change this your mindset and face your studies and continue to be who you are, with time your lines will fall on pleasant places for you, stop forcing it, it doesn't work by force.