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| Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cherryf(op): 11:32am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Many ppl thinks is not important since dey ar goin to marry dr partner afteral...after marriage dey can talk about it.... To me its totaly wrong hw can u marry sm1 u dnt knw abt his or her sex life....d problm is dt we pretend a lot at d end we start blaming ourselvs..... Sit dwn wit ur spouse engage in urslvs in romantic talk its nt a must u wil slp wit sm1 to knw hw gud d psn is bf marriage...dr ar questions u wil ask dt wil giv u want u r lookn for...dnt let d discusion b like an interview...its an indoor romantic stuff... Questions like; baby wat do enjoy most in lovemaking swthrt wat ar d tins dt turns u on wts ur sensitve areas baby wat sex positions do u lik best how long can u romance how long can u kiss how long do u think u can last on bed wat part of my body do u like to see often do u do oral do u like blowjobs....etc ask questions base on ur interest n try to find out his or her own interest setle issues first...bf goin to d alter cus sm at d end dey wil find out dey ar of two different worlds...pls lets save our marriages |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by vicstar(m): 11:39am On Mar 21, 2016 |
op do you like BJ?? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by sinaj(f): 11:46am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Hehehe ![]() Lemme call him right away nd ask him if he wud wan BJ for dinner ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by tosyne2much(m): 12:03pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
I'm coming back.. Lemme quickly have this discussion with my gf |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Abbeyunique2(m): 12:13pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
spot on OP. dunno why people are too shy to talk about sex |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cutehector(m): 12:20pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
![]() I like it when ladies think like this. ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Seriously, op you are right. Let me call her right away ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Abbeyunique2:Cos they may think you are damn after it(sex) alone |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Walexsammy(m): 12:39pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
nice one....buh society's norms and religion won't let most pple discuss this, which I count as one of the important things in marriage Cherryf: |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by demzylahot(m): 1:00pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
it will be difficult to get answers to these questions in Nigeria |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by NET1(m): 1:01pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
you are so right on this. I've got a friend who's having problems in his marriage because of sexual incompatibility. According to him, the wife does not give head, and this guy is a sucker for head. He claims to have told the wife several times, but the babe no gree. In one of our conversations, he threatened to find head somewhere. I don advise am tire - make him no destroy him marriage. This problem could have identified earlier during dating period by asking some of those questions you listed up there. |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cherryf(op): 1:06pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
vicstar:tel me who hates it? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cherryf(op): 1:13pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
demzylahot:should we den kp quiet n watch our marriages clash |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cherryf(op): 1:15pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Abbeyunique2:but dey arent shy to engage in it |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Abbeyunique2(m): 1:17pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
adepeter26:marriage is not all abt sex but sex in marriage is like O in LOL. as for me i can't marry someone who thinks sex is only missionary, who cant give good oral or who thinks Mouth Gig is a sin. nah laye kojoor |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Abbeyunique2(m): 1:20pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Cherryf:Hypocrisy of the highest order. that's why i like real babe who aren't afraid to say their mind. To buy condom for some peeps gan nah wahala. |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by jmoore(m): 1:32pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Cherryf:If the man is a virgin, how is he gonna answer? ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by timidapsin(m): 2:01pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Myfantasies You see the reason why we need to discuss this asap? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by demzylahot(m): 2:04pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Cherryf:No......but Nigerians are reticent when it comes to sex |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Cherryf(op): 2:08pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
jmoore:atleast he is a human... He must hv smtn dt turns him on let he tel himself d truth....abi he neva rise bf? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by myfantasies(f): 2:43pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
timidapsin:See me see trouble ooo Wetin concern agbero with overload ![]() Wetin concern me concern dis topic ![]() Or is dere something u r not telling me ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by vicstar(m): 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Cherryf:no wonder |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Moz22: 7:33pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
sinaj:what bj? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Cherryf:Spot on! I'm wondering how they can be having sex and still not discuss it? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by timidapsin(m): 10:26pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
myfantasies: What time do you goto bed? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by myfantasies(f): 11:23pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
timidapsin:Just waking up, really had a stressful day, i slept off while browsing I don't really have a particular time of going to bed How was your day |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by timidapsin(m): 11:31pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
myfantasies:Mine was Kinda.. stressful, you just waking up? sorry bout the stress you went through .. Meaning you will be going to bed very late tonight? ![]() |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by myfantasies(f): 2:19am On Mar 22, 2016 |
timidapsin:I slept off almost immediately after waking up |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by timidapsin(m): 7:39am On Mar 22, 2016 |
myfantasies:morning! |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by myfantasies(f): 7:50am On Mar 22, 2016 |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by timidapsin(m): 7:52am On Mar 22, 2016 |
myfantasies:I didnt sleep. Yours? |
| Re: Talking About "SEXUALITY" Before Marriage by fzybah(m): 7:58am On Mar 22, 2016 |
Daz true ... My new gf doesn't like sex before I met her but within a month , omo she don be expert, in fact I no go ask her to give me head before she does.... Sometimes, we can really tune our partners to what we desire abt sex.... |
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.. Meaning you will be going to bed very late tonight? 