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Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by iwakacome: 10:16am On Mar 01, 2016 |
please NLers I was arguing with some friends about whether asking your partner for money or help is ok. Most of the girls believed that the guys should give without asking but how would someone give without knowing if you have any need? by the way he also has his? Abeg ladies and gentlemen of Nairaland make una help me judge oh |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by Cutehector(m): 10:20am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Look, i"m not against a boyfriend supporting his girlfrnd in financial issues in a relationship, but where I won't support is where the babe begins to take advantage of his generosity by offloading all her financial burdens on him as if it's her right.. if she wants money, she should work for it. Simple 1 Like |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 10:20am On Mar 01, 2016 |
I really dont need a man to take care of me Unless i borrow the money and you refuse me to pay back and e no dey pass 3k |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by Elzends(m): 10:24am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Modify the topic |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by iwakacome: 10:26am On Mar 01, 2016 |
to ? help am Elzends: |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by Nobody: 10:31am On Mar 01, 2016 |
Its not bad... But most ladies now thinks it's their BF responsibility |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by Elzends(m): 10:32am On Mar 01, 2016 |
iwakacome:Is asking ur partner in a relationship right or wrong Tot it should be "is asking ur partner for money in a relationship................ |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:18pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Hi dear, we can chat here or via mail........ |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:19pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: No both ways |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: u are stubborn |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by cruzita(f): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
I hate asking for help .I'm not comfortable with it |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: Sturborn for d right reasons If u check reasons im sturborn nd d situation at hand U will kno its a form of protection |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: not arguing with u on that, u have ur reasons and it's alrite, whats wrong ur mail, go use it |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:23pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: *magically* i cant access it |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:26pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: lol, more like intentionally, open a new one jare and link it to nl... should take u more than a few minutes |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:29pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: No need |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:29pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: stubborn ass |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:33pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: s o i guess ur gf is also on nairaland right? and u say she is painting u as the bad one right..... |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:36pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: No she aint on nl she aint my gf no more Cos if ur bestfrnd will b loyal to a stranger dan u dat av known her for years? den wats definition of bestfrnd? no body can force trash on me she lied it will take me time to process it cos i trusted her so mch took her like a sister nt even a frnd Its too mch to process she can b loyal for money Nd cos im nobody she cant b loyal i need a loyal frnd. |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:38pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: lol so you really think it was all down to money, ur besty fell for money, well it's been said to have a strong pulling power, anyways i'm sure u still have sure friends, types u can spill ur heart out to and won't look at u wif no judgmental look or look down on u but understand u, we all need one of those... |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:42pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: I just need frnds to just share moments I really dont kno d importance of frnds Wen i said money i had to look for wats closer to d situation nd d fact d guy place her feelings above mine always is sickening Wo i av been kept in an uncomfortable situation enof Wateva happened btw dem deir headache Im finding my life again after school atleast i wont see her face again unless her see her face on celeb section nl I really wish her well above dis she can b loyal to who she wants to b with |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 3:51pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: i have a feeling there is more to this story than u are telling, ur guy can't be putting ur besties feeling before urs, something must have gone wrong along the line, it's either u did something wrong along the line and ended up pushing him away and u didn't know or they grew to like like each other, could be ur fault or theirs... |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 3:54pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: I only asked if dey were chatting Dey both descended on me One time d girl said i shd warn my bf See if dey like each oda Wat can i do? wen i talk about her he shows me he cares bou her deeply nd me i shd go nd die Well im happy for dem if dey make something beautiful Wats wrong in dem sayin yes we chatting Bf had interior motives from d start den If he loves her i will gladly attend d wedding even if it was to b me it will giv me d chance to find love too |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 4:04pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
He made me feel little of mysef I tot a bf was to stand for his girl in d presence of her frnds Not bring her down He brought me down to a little level in her presences Which means he cared bou her from d start she has all d comfort den me is being put tru alot of hardship she has people all arond her he took people away from me he makes my heart bleed Well im happy for dem dats all i can say My mind as made up itsef to accept dey lile each oda So i will walk away so dey can build it sronger If he loves her am happy for her Now dey av gone far nd me coming in i will b d fool He has created a deadline for me nd him He has treated me like trash enof I set him free his new girl new wife everytin i wish him well im nt lookin back made up Mind Cant wait to see ex bestfrnd face on nl celeb section i will b proud she was once a frnd |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by baranzy(m): 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
Theres notin bad in asking ur partner for money..but it shud come wt a very solid reason for something important in ur life or career and also for something profitable...its shudnt be for ur normal daily needs and social upgrading just to feel among wt ur peers....not like the girl am recently seeing asking me for 52k just to buy a weavon.....thats absolute madness for this kind hard times... 1 Like |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:44pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: hmm u sound bitter and hurt, well from i am standing i really don't know the full story so really say much but be strong, am not cool wif us havn all d convo here, der shud be a way we can actually talk off here tho..... stay strong dear |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 4:47pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: Yes deeply hurt each time i try to forgive dey do it all over again i av felt for dem Cant make two people make me little no no Cos i told one i love u as a bf and d oda i love u as a best frnd i cant ways i will never treat dem dey did to me Im fine cant access my mail He knows he doesnt love me yet block my chances of finding love wen me im happy for him dats wats paining me i shd b free to find my love |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by halfricanadian(f): 4:48pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
3rdlegxxx: Yes deeply hurt each time i try to forgive dey do it all over again i av felt for dem Cant make two people make me little no no Cos i told one i love u as a bf and d oda i love u as a best frnd i cant ways i will never treat dem dey did to me Im fine cant access my mail He knows he doesnt love me yet block my chances of finding love wen me im happy for him dats wats paining me i shd b free to find my love. |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by sexymoma(f): 4:48pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
shebi una dey ask me i don't even know how to ask a guy for money how i wan take talk am sef... i need money or i need your help to me.. it downgrading kind off..walai 1 Like |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by firstking01(m): 5:03pm On Mar 23, 2016 |
The nigga above me called hector just nailed it |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 5:55am On Mar 24, 2016 |
halfricanadian:good am dear, open up a new mail 2day lets talk better, hope ur good tho, busy n surround ur thoughts wif things dat interests you, fings dat makes u happy, could be movies, music, games, reading books or novels dat u know u enjoy, just stop d regret and blame game n enjoy urself for me |
Re: Is Asking Your Partner for money wrong or right? by oyephunmzee1(f): 6:24am On Mar 24, 2016 |
baranzy:Positive |
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