Working in a one-man business can be such a nasty experience.

Buhari sef

Have you slept with two girls in an 3some before? Try it and your dullness will vanish away.

READING TRU UR STORY..D PART DAT GOT ME IS U SAID U WANNA START..PLS IF U HAVE D RESOURCES TO START URS PLS DO..#BOL

Its a pity where some of us find ourselves.....
Honestly .. Just try to blend in

So sorry for you ordeal.

But OP, you contributed to the factor that let to your job termination for the frank reason that you knew too well that in any work environment that has to do with people from diverse background, you were suppose to study everyone's character and act accordingly in order to have a cordial relationship.

I believe you must learnt your lessons and develop on your interpersonal skills in your next experience.

Wish you all the best

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menix:
The truth is that ur introverted personality makes u look like doondi in a fast pace work place..

Secondly, ur mistakes sends the signal that u re dull which u Might not be.

Thirdly, working in an environment where inter-personal skill is required won't be ideal for your personality.

I once had a colleague like you, his dondiness made me like him cous I controlled him nd could use him to commit.
The management managed him cous they believed him coming from Badagry to apapa everyday made him dull until he got transferred to another branch were he started his 1st day with query.

Being an introvert and being a dondi are too different things. Just because he chooses not to involve himself in chit chats with his colleagues doesn't make him a dondi. So far he is efficient in his work. So stop comparing him to ur so called ex-dondi colleague.

Dnt mind ur boss and these guys spewing trash here, ur not a Dundee, weren't u doing ur job?, am sure u were, u r not dere to open teeth with nybody, am sure u wud get another job were u wud be appreciated...... Wah u av to do is whereever u working, since ur not the so likeable type, u just have to work extra hard to be seen as an asset.

Sorry about that OP.

Beats being laid for idle comments made on nairaland in my own case. But am in a much better place glory to God!

I applaud your shifting base to start up buisnesses... Perhaps we can rub mind

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If you really want to survive out there, you have to change. The funniest things is about being an extrovert/non-introvert is that talking/gisting comes naturally but for an introvert, if he must talk especially to strangers, he has to force it.

I am also an introvert. I always work with bosses dat will go extra_mile just to keep me

Everyone needs a clown to catch some kicks with...that is why I choose to run my business. your manager is an idiot if the only reason she dislikes you its cos you are quiet.

Most employees are suckers anyway.

FuckYou:
Its a pity where some of us find ourselves.....
Honestly .. Just try to blend in

Bros I feel your pain

That awkward moment when the only thing you wanna do is keep quiet.

I am an introvert, so I can relate with your experience .

Most bosses don't tolerate introverts, just smile at intervals to their Jokes (even if it is boring) .

I recently did my internment, I just had a mild relationship with all.

No complain.

Entrepreneurship rocks.

Seems you are dull really. You should have adjusted when she made the first comment. It happens anyway. Learn from it. Working with a dull person is stressful.

YOU are the best
dont let anyone run you down because of your personality,introverts are the best thinkers
you will surely get a job that fit you.

nobody was born a professional ,all of us were born armature...she ought to have giving you enough time to learn on the job

cheers.

yours sincerely, INTROVERT

Interesting.

Things are happening.

pretydiva:
Dis is wat introvert like us suffer from. Na by force to talk/join in a conversation ni

I wonder.

fairheven:
YOU are the best
dont let anyone run you down because of your personality,introverts are the best thinkers
you will surely get a job that fit you.

nobody was born a professional ,all of us were born armature...she ought to have giving you enough time to learn on the job

cheers.

yours sincerely, INTROVERT

She will soon regret missing you.

menix:
The truth is that ur introverted personality makes u look like doondi in a fast pace work place..

Secondly, ur mistakes sends the signal that u re dull which u Might not be.

Thirdly, working in an environment where inter-personal skill is required won't be ideal for your personality.

I once had a colleague like you, his dondiness made me like him cous I controlled him nd could use him to commit.
The management managed him cous they believed him coming from Badagry to apapa everyday made him dull until he got transferred to another branch were he started his 1st day with query.

Badadry to Apapa everyday would reduce your life span...The traffic on that route is directly orchestrated by the devil himself..God forbid!!!

@OP

Many a time, most people do mix up gutlessness and laziness for introversion. Excuse me, from what you stated above, you come across like a gutless and lazy person and your introvert nature compounded it.

Confident and hyperactive introverts never have issues at their work places or with people in general. I am a confident, maverick and hyperactive introvert and I command admiration, trust and respect of people wherever I find myself.

maybè your boss dosnt just like an introvert. That's y she said you leave,but you should take it as a challenge,....I am an introvert but I work as a customer care agent today and make much noise I never bargained for in my life.
But its improved me and my confidence esp in meeting people and standing for my rights.




After each days work I sit at the back of the staff bus quiet,pple complain about that ..I tell them after all that noise at the call center u ain't hearing my voice again,.....they laugh me off.

I was once in your shoe.this my boss will even go to the extent of telling me he doubt how am so intelligent and coping with studies because...he couldn't dere my spoken english when ever am attending to a customer or on phone call.i quit his job one day when he task me to handle jobs made for 4workers...I was like how much is he paying me for the insult and harsh words.the day I disappointed him was the day he soppose to make nothing less than 40k that day because I knew the job on table.he call and beg for me to return but I til him I love playing my games in my room and really happy than getting paid for 20k and insult.it takes him 1month for replacement.lol

KingAfo:
PRIDE IS BETTER THAN TIMIDITY

Wat of PRIDEGOES BEFORE FALL?

Op, sorry o...Well in d place I work,we have an office assistant who always keeps 2 himself much of d time...I dint like it myself anyway maybe itss b'cos he felt he could not contribute 2 Disacussions..Anyway I just advised him as well as Oda Meaning friends 2 at least find Smtin meaning 2 Contribute cos At all at all na Him bad pass Plus one more tin D Office can be an extremly boring pls, esp. If u work in fast pace firm. And d truth of d whole matter is dat it a VICIOUS Circle dat revolves Someone will always take d fall...-My Advice 4 U Sir is dat most times try not 2get caught up in d Circle always pass it on 2 d Next. Mumu...coz like it or not MUMU by defination is THE LEAST SHARPEST PERSON IN A CLIQUE and not a factor of Ur Intelligence..

Naturallyme:
Seems you are dull really. You should have adjusted when she made the first comment. It happens anyway. Learn from it. Working with a dull person is stressful.

You obviously don't know what it means to be an introvert... you have no idea

marshborn:


Being an introvert and being a dondi are too different things. Just because he chooses not to involve himself in chit chats with his colleagues doesn't make him a dondi. So far he is efficient in his work. So stop comparing him to ur so called ex-dondi colleague.

How long ve u left home

How can u go to mgt meetings nd form deaf nd dumb or is it bcous he used chat being a small firm.

We ve some extreme introverted personalities that everything about them annoys.

edygistvilla:
I recently took on a job, about few days ago (less than two weeks), as a office assistant/ Computer operator at an office located at Ojudu Berger. This is partly because I had just finished the just concluded Jamb utme examination and I was less-busy at home and I needed to develop work ethics and gain professional experiences that would be vital in future. There are TONs of stuff you have to learn while being in this position & I was doing great making photocopies, taking passports, and even helping out in typying. When we are less busy, My boss comes for a chat with my co-workers﹑ which they eagerly and actively participate but I don't. Not because I do not like my Boss or I'm avoidant, but I prefer being at peace with my thought and value my personal space. Then I noticed after few days, Her behaviour and mood towards me changed for the worse as she shouts at me and insults me if i make mistakes, Ofcourse, That's not a problem, but the hurtful part is she hurls insult on my personality. She says to me "You stand there like mumu'', 'Dondie'', 'Lookie lookie like deaf and dumb' e.t.c .
But today at work, I made a mistake with taking a passport photograph due to the fact that the pressure was much coupled with the over-crowded enivironment.She instantly got annoyed and said she can't tolerate a dull and mumu person and that I'm too dull. She said I should leave.

I was pissed because I had not been given a chance to learn everything needed to know Yet. I think this was really unfair since I was not even given a chance to improve. She said blame me for being an "observer", but she had to let me go.

I'm not sad this happen but this had triggered my incentiveness and challenged me the more. I'm even courting an idea of developing a start-up.

My friend

I hate to say this, but you brought this upon yourself. why didn't you stop her the very first day she insult you, and even threaten to report her to any labor agencies that will care to listen to your story.? Doing that alone will instill fear in her, because as an educated person, you should use the little you know to protect yourself always. but this days some Nigerians will even entertain slaps from their employers in exchange for peanuts.

My advice to Nigerians out there is to Know the laws at all time. because that is your only weapon against any abusive employer. they hate people that knows the law

Thanks

where i worked, even though i stutter. i was participating in every discussion.. joking, throwing jabs here and there, and looking for trouble too.. i'm shy, quiet and introverted.. but it didn't stop me... they all liked me.

baby124:
In a serious work environment, being an introvert shouldn't matter. It is your productivity that should matter. If everyone is busy gisting, how does any serious work get done? She is an unserious lady and her business will soon run down.

An introvert is actually a deep thinker, and quite intelligent and creative. Your type is an asset to any organization if your talents are Channeled properly. Please look for a serious company to work for. Don't feel bad. You just worked with a shallow and dull set of people.

But he was making blunders. He would have been more respected if his work was flawless