Abeg is this supposed to be a testimony? Mstchewww. This is what they call WASTED YEARS. What does she have to show for it? A spent, probably broke old man, STDS, and two illegitimate children. What was the gain in the marriage. Women it's time to sit up and stop doing mumu love o. Life is too short to be unhappy and spend your hey days praying and fasting for a useless man. Get out and live your life. You didn't come into this world as a MRS o. I don talk my own

dear lord, please I still dont know what I will do with a cheating husband despite thinking about it. I could pray to you but let my prayers not be for an unrepentant man. please dont give me one! I don't think I will be able to pray and at the same time keep calm.

I cannot honor a man who cannot honor our matrimonial bed, our vow and my body.
he might just wake up and next thing he's dead.

Sometimes, when I see how how men cheat, I do fear getting married. God please give me a faithful man because I will also be faithful to him and him alone

Testimony indeed, a worthless fugitive old man returns home = testimony. Let them continue praying for a cheating husband to repent and not pray for their success and that of their kids .

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Such patience!

byvan03:
Testimony indeed, a worthless fugitive old man returns home = testimony. Let them continue praying for a cheating husband to repent and not pray for their success and that of their kids .

After the husband has given the best years to all his mistresses outside.

He will now come back empty.

I rebuke & reject.

bukatyne:


After the husband has given the best years to all his mistresses outside.

He will now come back empty.

I rebuke & reject.

Surely they always return broke and useless, funny these women embrace them and give testimony like the one above . At least they got a man I guess .

Ginaz:

he might just wake up and next thing he's dead.

If prayer works for them who are you to object?


You guys keep forgetting the dead line you gave which is "women are free to do what they want "

So let them be

I dont think its worth if a woman prays for her cheating husband to stop,if he is aware she is praying for him,if he has decided not to stop,if he changed and went back to cheat.lobatan

Good for her

Joy1706:
Abeg is this supposed to be a testimony? Mstchewww. This is what they call WASTED YEARS. What does she have to show for it? A spent, probably broke old man, STDS, and two illegitimate children. What was the gain in the marriage. Women it's time to sit up and stop doing mumu love o. Life is too short to be unhappy and spend your hey days praying and fasting for a useless man. Get out and live your life. You didn't come into this world as a MRS o. I don talk my own

With the way the world currently burns - If everyone just gave up and walked out on their partner(male or female) once they cheat, do you think there would still be a lot of married people?

crackhaus:

With the way the world currently burns - If everyone just gave up and walked out on their partner(male or female) once they cheat, do you think there would still be a lot of married people?

But I know you crackhaus would never forgive a cheating woman. Why should women have to put up with it? If only people would keep their vows...

Ginaz:
dear lord, please I still dont know what I will do with a cheating husband despite thinking about it. I could pray to you but let my prayers not be for an unrepentant man. please dont give me one! I don't think I will be able to pray and at the same time keep calm.

I cannot honor a man who cannot honor our matrimonial bed, our vow and my body.
he might just wake up and next thing he's dead.

Have you cheated on any of your exes? Or were you wayward in your youth? ( do these girls accept that they are wayward sef). If the answer to any of these questions is yes, baby you will have for yourself, a aman that will cheat.

And if your pvssy has been smashed by exes and co,do you sincerely want your husband to be happy with crumbs for the rest of his life? You,naija girls , are not serious. You give his food,pv$$y, to the boys then expect hubby to be happy with the tokunbo pv$$ies.

Be real.

bukatyne:

After the husband has given the best years to all his mistresses outside.
He will now come back empty.
I rebuke & reject.

This is also why we do not believe in being faithful to some women. "After the girl has given the best years of her pv$$y to all her admirers, boyfriends etc . she will want her unlucky husband to manage her tukunbo pv$$y. ".

We reject and rebuke.

Joy1706:

But I know you crackhaus would never forgive a cheating woman. Why should women have to put up with it? If only people would keep their vows...

You know?

Have we met before?
But I don't remember dating anyone named Joy in my long list of women...


Seriously though, I never said women should put up with it...I just asked you what would happen to relationships if everyone walked out on their partners when they cheat.

crackhaus:

You know?

Have we met before?
But I don't remember dating anyone named Joy in my long list of women...


Seriously though, I never said women should put up with it...I just asked you what would happen to relationships if everyone walked out on their partners when they cheat.

When there's less tolerance for something people will start to think twice before doing it. The only reason many people will think twice before murdering someone or stealing is because of the consequences. When married men and women know what they stand to lose when caught cheating ( their families) they will think twice. Even the ones that decide to take the risk will hide it rather than the way they flaunt it here.

Men cheat with such boldness in Nigeria because they know majority of the women will take any crap and society will support the man.Things will only change when society starts to shame cheating men like they do to women and the wives develop the balls to leave a serial cheat. At the end of the day no man wants to be married 4-5 times, if he knows the wives will leave everytime he will learn to control himself.

It's hard to be realistic at times when one has to consider several factors (religious,moral and gender).

The patient woman is victorious, an overcomer who won a great battle that her lineage will not have a bondage of broken marriages. She deserves a crown no human is worthy to place on her head. Such an honour belongs to her MAKER. The ONE WHO has eternal life, and grants it to the humble and low of spirit.

Sometimes only the truth that this world is only a tiny fleck of eternity, can someone put up a great courage to do the impossible, crazy stuff that could be called a waste of time or dehumanising.

Morally speaking, who's to say where divorce will lead to? Someone worse more likely. If children are involved, which man will take them as his? Stepfathers who are good are uncommon, some seduce their stepdaughters. Or if the woman plans to remain single, she'll fight a life-long, steep battle she most likely won't overcome. She hardly will overcome her sexual urges. And when she does give in, it will be a cheap, dehumanising ride with her body serving as a playground for another man's sexual sport. The first marriage, most times is worth giving as many chances as possible. The other side isn't as green as one may think.

Ok, going gender bias now:

Yes, Virginity isn't a determinant that a man will be faithful to his woman.
But considering the nature of the respective sex organs of both sexes, women who have not kept their bodies for their husbands during the time they got into courtships and dating younger men , should take the backseat when talking about cheating.

The sex organ of a woman is built in such a way that it tells about her sexual journeys. For every of her sexual escapade, there is an engraved cicatrice left in her womanliness. One that she will bear visibly all her lifetime. And present to her husband as a gift of a life-time bond.

It is this fleeting reality of the truth that makes it easy for women to spread their legs easily and bring whatever is left of her remains to her husband when matrimony calls.

Avalon316:


And if your pvssy has been smashed by exes and co,do you sincerely want your husband to be happy with crumbs for the rest of his life? You,naija girls , are not serious. You give his food,pv$$y, to the boys then expect hubby to be happy with the tokunbo pv$$ies.

Be real.

But girls should manage guys who have "smashed" many exes abi? Ladies enjoy "tokunbo" abi? Oga fear God o...

Once you've made the choice of a partner and got married, it's your duty to be faithful to each other.. no excuses to misbehave.. you had the option of marrying him/her or not and made your choice yourself, so no excuses whatsoever! !!

Tolatutu:


When there's less tolerance for something people will start to think twice before doing it. The only reason many people will think twice before murdering someone or stealing is because of the consequences. When married men and women know what they stand to lose when caught cheating ( their families) they will think twice. Even the ones that decide to take the risk will hide it rather than the way they flaunt it here.

Men cheat with such boldness in Nigeria because they know majority of the women will take any crap and society will support the man. Things will only change when society starts to shame cheating men like they do to women and the wives develop the balls to leave a serial cheat. At the end of the day no man wants to be married 4-5 times, if he knows the wives will leave everytime he will learn to control himself.

Goodluck with that.

Lmao... 'Tokunbo pvssy'

I can't mehn, I just can't.

EfemenaXY:


This definitely is the joke of the century.

Please get your emotions in order and stop ovulating over the simple truth embedded in my little submission.

My father, like most men of his generation met my mother a virgin like most women of her generation.
Eat that for breakfast.

I'll always maintain that some women, if not most, are the architects of their own destruction.

Before you married that cheating husband, he was a cheating boyfriend right, so if cheating is what you can't stomach, why in the name of Anubis did you marry him?

Oh yea you prayed and believed God will touch his heart? Yea right!. Keep on praying...

Please these men need your prayers/fasting, don't give up on them as it's not their fault, they are men after all.

EfemenaXY:


This definitely is the joke of the century.

Anyway, you've aptly described your mother, sisters, daughters, and all the females in your family whom you hold "dear" to heart.

@bold how?

pls sharrap if u have nothing reasonable to say....