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I believe many are destined to be single, many desire to be single, many who never had the joys of youth during their youth, find adulthood a time to display youthful exuberance. Please husbands cheat, wives cheat. To cheat today is the easiest thing to do and yet we all hate it when we become victims of it.

The mafia place strict importance on honour. They kill for honour, they fight for honour and most importantly they live for honour. When one cheats on his or her spouse we dishonour them. Most importantly we dishonor ourselves.

To not cheat is a very difficult task that only the honourable can sustain. Thus many people create room for that and yet blame the devil. I will share with you the opinion from a pastor Co worker on how he and his wife managed faithfulness for 25years.

- they ensure that they were teachable to their spouses. Whatever A didn't know how to do, B took time to teach and upgrade and vice versa.

- all friends of the opposite sex where cut off asides family friends and even at that the ensured a joint meeting of friends together.

- they discussed everything openly to each other, including flirtatious behaviour of others. Talking about it allowed their partners react to all likely possibilities that could emerge.

- they were contented and happy to be unique. They refused to compare themselves to other people and took great joy in whatever methods they employed even if it was wrong.

- they had no spare tyres or escape plans. It became clear to both of them that if this marriage fails, both parties will sink with it. Nobody had an escape plan and thus felt the more need to work harder.

- they were sexual in every way possible that could suit their partner. Thus they were sexually Compatible.

- when social media came about, they remained old school and refused to jump into it. The social media is a quick and easy temptation element that encourages concealment, anonymity and thus likely bad behaviour.

- they put an effort to be the best for each other. The man hated excess weight, the woman starved herself many times to Acheive it, the woman hated a pregnant man, and the man almost died many times while doing sit ups to please his wife. They never said to themselves LOVE ME THE WAY I AM.

Many of us who cheat, would realise the folly after the deed, that Wat we dishonor ourselves to experience is no different than that our partners offer. It's just a case of different packaging and performance. The most important of all I have said is thus that, you belong to ur partner and ur partner belongs to you . You should do all you can for him and he should do all he can for you. You must learn to understand that no marriage is perfect nor are they all the same.

The model for family A would be different for family B. Create a model with your spouse, ensure compatibility in all areas, be teachable to ur spouse, enjoy ur youth at the right time lest you be a youth old man or woman who behaves dishonourably. Hopefully you shall find marital bliss

all this rulez to avoid cheating. whoever will cheat will cheat

Oga op oya give up social media so your marriage will be happy, as for me that option no follow

Suigeneris93:
Oga op oya give up social media so your marriage will be happy, as for me that option no follow

you aren't married yet, you likely don't know Wat u will give up or retain depending on the spouse you end up with. So cool down

Eddygourdo:
you aren't married yet, you likely don't know Wat u will give up or retain depending on the spouse you end up with. So cool down

I don't get He met me a blogger and will suddenly want me to give up social media so I'll not cheat like I said before its not even an option

Suigeneris93:
I don't get He met me a blogger and will suddenly want me to give up social media so I'll not cheat like I said before its not even an option

oh not for the blogging part, that's money ur making na. I meant idle active social media. People who are Facebook, dating sites and the like obsessed. Not a blogger who is doing a passion and a likely business. So far it's kept professional I don't see why not.

Eddygourdo:
oh not for the blogging part, that's money ur making na. I meant idle active social media. People who are Facebook, dating sites and the like obsessed. Not a blogger who is doing a passion and a likely business. So far it's kept professional I don't see why not.

Okay, that's what I meant