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If i should see my bf fucking anoda woman, I will be like baby get up let's go home. That's ao gentle I can be

Daniel2289:
But dats when the incident keeps repeating itself.

ONCE you hurt me, things can't be the same

If he's a boyfriend then it's OVER btwn us BUT if it's my hubby, I'll make sure he sees me that I caught him and then walk away.

I won't say a word to him about it. I'll make sure I still continue with my responsibility towards him as a good wife.
but he must go for HIV test b4 he'll be able to touch me again or better still use a CD.
I believe my silence will do wonders.

Easier said than done right?? That's how hardened and mentally prepared I am.

I don't pray for a cheating man/hubby anyway..

My man, husband or boyfriend? If it is the latter, I will simply walk away. No stories, no fighting or tantrums, that's the end of my the relationship, won't fight you, won't fight the girl. As for the former, it's a situation non-existing, my husband CANNOT and WON'T cheat.

Joy1706:
ONCE you hurt me, things can't be the same

I knw it is not gud to hurt som1, especially in relationship. But its said dat, LOVE don't find faults, it forgives and doesn't keeps malice. But if I accidentally hurt u n it neva happened again, can't u put dat behind u n continue to love me as u used to b4

Daniel2289:
I knw it is not gud to hurt som1, especially in relationship. But its said dat, LOVE don't find faults, it forgives and doesn't keeps malice. But if I accidentally hurt u n it neva happened again, can't u put dat behind u n continue to love me as u used to b4

That's the thing. Cheating on me is not accidental. It is a conscious decision. I'm not sure I know how to forgive infidelity o. How do I trust and respect you after that? If it's a one time thing, just pray hard that God touches my heart to be able to forgive

The question is how would he feel if he finds me cheating on him? Anyways much as I learn to trust my husband if such happen honestly I will keep mute about it. But naturally he Will feel so uncomfortable as he doesn't even know what am up to. His conscience will keep hunting him, for me I can't turn myself to a mad woman all for a man. My own view though

Joy1706:
That's the thing. Cheating on me is not accidental. It is a conscious decision. I'm not sure I know how to forgive infidelity o. How do I trust and respect you after that? If it's a one time thing, just pray hard that God touches my heart to be able to forgive

U must b a faithful lover. I understand ur point though. It is better not to even give in to infidelity, than d later b4 pleading. That is to say, if I must cum into ur heart, I must cum wit clean hands. 9ice one there. I love dat.

Absolutely nothing I already made up my mind I won't stress about it if he cheats and says sorry we are good