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I am in a situation I don’t know how to deal with. A very big dilemma, I have met a rich married woman online and she promised me to buy me a BMW and a big house (she is in Durban while I am in Abuja ) and over the last few months we have spoken every day either Facebook or Skype.

Truth is, it has got fairly serious (online physically) but she says she can’t leave her husband until the kids are grown which is at least 5 years away. She tells me she loves me and all those things and it is killing me inside. I want her like mad but feel sometimes that I should just end it to not cause trouble.

Source ------>> http://hypenigeria.com/2016/04/07/should-i-leave-my-wife-for-her-advice-needed/

She means a lot to me now but I cannot see a way forward. Like seriously, I can’t continue with my current wife anymore because she’s too poor and dependent on me. Please help, what should I do?

Why not? She's obviously better than your wife so go for her. Maybe in a few years time you'll see a set of children better than yours, and if you exchange yours for them, you'll finally have the perfect family of your dreams.

Op if you dey go filling station, come and take my jerry can abeg....tankiu ✌

thesicilian:
Why not? She's obviously better than your wife so go for her. Maybe in a few years time you'll see a set of children better than yours, and if you exchange yours for them, you'll finally have the perfect family of your dreams.

You are wicked

Op should do wat he wants

I will nt dictate for any one

Bt truly if u had given ur wife the strength to succeed she wud b wat u truly desire
dat woman u admire has a strength some where giving her the energy to succeed

Choose ur life path wisely pls nd pls op

halfricanadian:
You are wicked

Op should do wat he wants

I will nt dictate for any one

Bt truly if u had given ur wife the strength to succeed she wud b wat u truly desire
dat woman u admire has a strength some where giving her the energy to succeed

Choose ur life path wisely pls nd pls op

we just said the same thing in different ways...

halfricanadian:
You are wicked

Op should do wat he wants

I will nt dictate for any one

Bt truly if u had given ur wife the strength to succeed she wud b wat u truly desire
dat woman u admire has a strength some where giving her the energy to succeed

Choose ur life path wisely pls nd pls op

I concur with u. One like 4 u. But I still don't know d kind of advice thesicilian gave..

thesicilian:
we just said the same thing in different ways...

ur own was mean nd wicked na

Daniel2289:
I concur with u. One like 4 u. But I still don't know d kind of advice thesicilian gave..

he just meant even if op have kids he wud desire better kids dan his own

Meaning op is nt always nd can never b satisfied with whatever he has

OP I don't have much to say, but I want to tell u dat "whatever a man SOW shall he REAP.

halfricanadian:
he just meant even if op have kids he wud desire better kids dan his own
Meaning op is nt always nd can never b satisfied with whatever he has

Exactly. From his write up, He is a canssanova

Daniel2289:
Exactly. From his write up, He is a canssanova

His luck o his luck

But i want to succeed nd nt let a man maltreat me cos he provides for me never!

Call me bossy dominate i av had enof of suffering for wat i can achieve on my own with God by my side

thesicilian:
Why not? She's obviously better than your wife so go for her. Maybe in a few years time you'll see a set of children better than yours, and if you exchange yours for them, you'll finally have the perfect family of your dreams.

That was meeeeeaaaannn!!!!!
A bottle of Heineken for you.

halfricanadian:
His luck o his luck

But i want to succeed nd nt let a man maltreat me cos he provides for me never!

Call me bossy dominate i av had enof of suffering for wat i can achieve on my own with God by my side

Abi.

halfricanadian:
ur own was mean nd wicked na

Not everyone deserves diplomacy. Sometimes you just hand it to them as plain as it is. Its a pity you can't slap somebody online, if he had said that face to face....

thesicilian:
Not everyone deserves diplomacy. Sometimes you just hand it to them as plain as it is. Its a pity you can't slap somebody online, if he had said that face to face....

op run away o

Dis guy fit punch u die

So because ur wife depends on u, u now desire d rich married Woman. Wat if d online stuff is a scam? Ok let's assume it's not, Wat if u abandon ur wife and she leta becomes rich will u also abandon d online woman? . U should b looking for a way to help ur wife to b independent. did u not no dat fyns lik diz can arise b4 marrying her? And u rili think dat d online woman's husband will smile at u wen he finds out . He will make sure ur body is with out a head. Face ur family and try to make ends meet. Help ur wife too. Dere is always hope for does alife.

And to think the OP may someday come here and diss ladies who are materialistic! Like I keep saying, Nigerians deserve each other and everything happening to them!

Not all that glitters is gold, be wise

thesicilian:
Why not? She's obviously better than your wife so go for her. Maybe in a few years time you'll see a set of children better than yours, and if you exchange yours for them, you'll finally have the perfect family of your dreams.

Thanks .....Very good comment ......



And the Op 'll find someone richer than the rich woman later and he 'll leave her too.....Goodluck with ur life Op if you think being an "Exchanger"is the best way to Live

Op, marry her and remain in penuri and anguish for the rest of your life.