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7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by youngsahito(m): 8:11am On Apr 07, 2016
An unhealthy sex life can lead to tension between you and your partner. It can make you feel exhausted and tired.
Everyone deserves a healthy, yet satisfying sex life but some factors in our everyday life can cause your sex drive to wane.
The mattress is for sleeping and occasionally for sex, but if your sex life is boring, you need to find out what went wrong and how you can fix it. As the only difference between a great friendship and romance is sex.
Different things can affect your desire for sex, one of which is a low testosterone. This could be a major loss in sex drive as testosterone is the main male sex hormone.
Apart from this factor, other factors affect your urge for sex which can lead to a disconnection between partners. It is important for couples to run a proper check on their love life and make-up with their relationship flaws.
Without further ado, NAIJ.com’s Esther Odili has compiled seven factors that destroy your urge for sex.
1. Sleep
Little sleep does not only affect our looks, health and ability to deal with everyday stress, it also kills sex drive and lowers level of testosterone.
Sleep is a basic biological necessity. It has an impact on every aspect of our health and life. Sound sleep results in an increased energy and productivity. It aids a better mood and longer life. So, an eight-hour rest not just makes you feel better, but is essential for your sex drive.
2. Consumption of excess food
Consumption of any food in excess leads to weight gain and is the number one sex drive killer for any man. Diet accelerates the ageing process. Foods that contain added hormones or antibiotics such as some red meats and fatty foods, starchy foods are a huge sex offender and unbalance a man’s natural hormone.
Poor diet is also a huge factor to the lost of your sex drive. A good diet equals a good sex and the better your diet the more healthy your sex drive.
3. Alcohol
Alcohol in moderation never hurt anyone’s lust but over indulging can bring things down at night. Alcohol can affect your sexual prowess as it can cause trouble achieving organism and also aid premature ejaculation. Being drunk can also be a turn off for your partner. And too much alcohol is going to make one feel sleepy, tired and consequently, lose interest in sex.
4. Stress
Stress is one of the biggest mood killers. Although some people do many things well when they are stressed, feeling sexy is not one of them, especially for women. Stress at work, home or in marriage can happen to anyone but learning to handle it in a healthy manner is helpful and needful.
5. Erection problems
Men with erectile dysfunction (ED) often worry about how they will be able to perform sexually and that worry can drain their sexual desire even before they start the process.
This issue can be treated and couples can also work together to keep it from affecting their relationship.
6. Problems with partner
For many women, emotional closeness is an essential prelude to sexual intimacy. Problems with spouses can be a huge contributive factor to low sex drive.
Lack of connection with your partner, unresolved conflicts or fights, communication issues, infidelity, to mention but a few, often lead to lost of interest in sex and a reduction of sex drive among couples.
7. Depression
Depression is a common cause of poor sex drive and often leads to poor sleep. Depression can lead to other libido conditions like high blood pressure.
Sex without feeling close can slay desire; intimacy is more than just sex. If your sex life is dry as a couple, try to talk it over by spending more non-sexual time together, just the two of you. Talk, snuggle, trade messages and find other ways to express love without having sex. Getting closer can rebuild your sex drive.

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Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 8:17am On Apr 07, 2016
not my problem, since I can last for up to 3hrs
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by unapapadeycraze: 8:26am On Apr 07, 2016
A video or adonbilivit@the sex maniac above.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 8:28am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:
not my problem, since I can last for up to 3hrs
of course when u re on drugs
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 8:34am On Apr 07, 2016
Ighoga898:
of course when u re on drugs
nope, I dare not
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 8:35am On Apr 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
A video or adonbilivit@the sex maniac above.

your at the wrong site, redirect to xvideos.om
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 8:39am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:


nope, I dare not
then u re not a normal human being
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by unapapadeycraze: 8:40am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:


your at the wrong site, redirect to xvideos.om

abi nor be you say you dey last 3hrs? So girls go dey pm you abi?

Ladies nor dey hear say a guy get long and big dick, he dey last 3hrs, dem go dey pm you. I guess dats what you want.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 8:42am On Apr 07, 2016
Ighoga898:
then u re not a normal human being
'normal' is a very strong word, I believe 'average' should do.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 8:49am On Apr 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:


abi nor be you say you dey last 3hrs? So girls go dey pm you abi?

Ladies nor dey hear say a guy get long and big dick, he dey last 3hrs, dem go dey pm you. I guess dats what you want.

how many girls I wan Bleep?
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by rosieluv(f): 8:51am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:
not my problem, since I can last for up to 3hrs
hian! 3hours ke,u na machine?
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 9:03am On Apr 07, 2016
rosieluv:
hian! 3hours ke,u na machine?
lol no, flesh and blood sometime I force myself to come
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 9:27am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:


'normal' is a very strong word, I believe 'average' should do.
can u let me in on a secret on how u manage to do it.. I mean is it exercise or food or any other thing. Just let me know.... because i can't even go past 5 minutes.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by rosieluv(f): 9:38am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:

lol no, flesh and blood sometime I force myself to come
y wud a guy force himslf to cum? u na liunus
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 9:59am On Apr 07, 2016
rosieluv:
y wud a guy force himslf to cum? u na liunus
okay o
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by lodscott(m): 10:21am On Apr 07, 2016
Ighoga898:

can u let me in on a secret on how u manage to do it.. I mean is it exercise or food or any other thing. Just let me know.... because i can't even go past 5 minutes.

hmm, hope ur nt whyning me sha.
Mayb I should make a thread of my story, bt that Wld be on another acct for privacy reasons.I can't really say what I do different,perhaps its because of my meditations, but I don't think so. Iv stoped drinking, I dnt exercise much, n my food is the average Nigerians food. what I think is that its a thing of the mind. when am having sex I enjoy every aspect of it, sex isn't just about friction btw your genitals.might be a little weird but the sound she makes are more pleasurable than the feeling in my Dick, I enjoy her facial expressions, the feel of her skin,her breathing, the feeling in the air and the rush on my chest.probably because am an artist av always observed the smaller details. to me sex is fun.I nevr worry too much abt pleasing myself or her. to me sex is like that conversation you don't want to end but sadly it does, and I end it myself. when I realise she's getting tired and so am I, I then focus completely on the feeling of her walls wrapping my stick and actually desire to come. then I do in a few mins. that's just the way I am. I can come when ever I want.

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Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by FlySly05: 11:29am On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:
not my problem, since I can last for up to 3hrs


How market chief LIEwola Mohammed
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by leaderWills(m): 12:25pm On Apr 07, 2016
I have a friend that can last up to 5hrs, I begged him to lick the secret but him say na normal thing no drugs. From that day till now, I dey fear ram and has refused my gf to see him. You know y na.......... grin grin grin
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by leaderWills(m): 12:28pm On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:


hmm, hope ur nt whyning me sha.
Mayb I should make a thread of my story, bt that Wld be on another acct for privacy reasons.I can't really say what I do different,perhaps its because of my meditations, but I don't think so. Iv stoped drinking, I dnt exercise much, n my food is the average Nigerians food. what I think is that its a thing of the mind. when am having sex I enjoy every aspect of it, sex isn't just about friction btw your genitals.might be a little weird but the sound she makes are more pleasurable than the feeling in my Dick, I enjoy her facial expressions, the feel of her skin,her breathing, the feeling in the air and the rush on my chest.probably because am an artist av always observed the smaller details. to me sex is fun.I nevr worry too much abt pleasing myself or her. to me sex is like that conversation you don't want to end but sadly it does, and I end it myself. when I realise she's getting tired and so am I, I then focus completely on the feeling of her walls wrapping my stick and actually desire to come. then I do in a few mins. that's just the way I am. I can come when ever I want.
Dats what my guy always say but una still get secret.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 07, 2016
lodscott:


hmm, hope ur nt whyning me sha.
Mayb I should make a thread of my story, bt that Wld be on another acct for privacy reasons.I can't really say what I do different,perhaps its because of my meditations, but I don't think so. Iv stoped drinking, I dnt exercise much, n my food is the average Nigerians food. what I think is that its a thing of the mind. when am having sex I enjoy every aspect of it, sex isn't just about friction btw your genitals.might be a little weird but the sound she makes are more pleasurable than the feeling in my Dick, I enjoy her facial expressions, the feel of her skin,her breathing, the feeling in the air and the rush on my chest.probably because am an artist av always observed the smaller details. to me sex is fun.I nevr worry too much abt pleasing myself or her. to me sex is like that conversation you don't want to end but sadly it does, and I end it myself. when I realise she's getting tired and so am I, I then focus completely on the feeling of her walls wrapping my stick and actually desire to come. then I do in a few mins. that's just the way I am. I can come when ever I want.
dats Understandable.. Maybe i will have to stop alcohol too
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by alexis007(m): 3:16pm On Apr 07, 2016
U forgot No. 8; Too much of It.
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by nicerod(m): 3:34pm On Apr 07, 2016
Smelly puci


smelly yans when u wan enta 4rm bak n u see somtin like yellow paints n d odour in ya room is.....
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 6:35pm On Apr 07, 2016
#Teamcelibate grin
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by Nobody: 6:37pm On Apr 07, 2016
leaderWills:
I have a friend that can last up to 5hrs, I begged him to lick the secret but him say na normal thing no drugs. From that day till now, I dey fear ram and has refused my gf to see him. You know y na.......... grin grin grin
yu have trust issue grin
Re: 7 Key Things That Can Destroy Your Urge For Sex by adahgold(m): 8:28pm On Apr 07, 2016
Sex is a technique and the state of ones mind. Number one rule:never be in a rush to have sex if u do u will not last up to 2 seconds.

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