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Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:41am On Apr 10, 2016

Smellymouth:

Trust me Estee, it's gonna be difficult for me to have female friends as Besties.If your friend starts dating someone or spends more time with a new potential significant other, you might feel as though things are falling apart.You’re not necessarily jealous because you want to date her; you’re just jealous because you’re no longer the only dude in his life.

Also,You never really realize how much you care until they tell you about someone else being "the one" for them. You saw them fall in and out of love, but hearing them planning to settle with someone else for good?

Lovely retort..

I Totally Get the feeling...
Buh the thing's everyone feels that...No matter what gender one belongs to.

i have A crazy ass female bestie who's got a boyfriend and sometimes she spends way too much time with him. And no time whatsoever for me ..ofcourse i feel bad sometimes.

Maybe i wanna go shopping and she goes like "Boify just called, can't make it". the feeling is inevitable...irrespective of gender differences.

If You make UP Your mind about someone. Okay, he's my friend..And nothing More! There shouldn't be an issue Or a case of some nonexistent, magical feeling exploding.

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:43am On Apr 10, 2016

AirSultan:
Madam esthàrfabian, you are really scary but I aint scared tho. At Op, pls do not date him, it wont end well. Male and female bestie shiit never works.

Re: Am I Wrong by obizzy(m): 10:43am On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
@bolded..That's Pure insecurity talking..
If You trust her totally.. You wouldn't say that...

About The hoe thingy...A girl could have as many sexual partners has she deem fit. So Long she's not exactly in A Relationship. Guys do that all the time...so, what's the fuss about?

Merry Sunday to You Too..

insecurity? Naah,i'm just looking out for whats mine. I dont like sharing. I'm cool with her having male friends oh but when it starts reaching the extent of giving him the name tag "BESTIE". Mbanu! Soon she'll start adding pet names. Then.....they start screwing.

Also,girls open up on their rltnshps to their so called male besties. I dont want some other nigger up in my business about me and my girl. Hell no!

Lol. About the hoe thing? Calm down miss,thats the rule. No one can change it. Not even you. :-D

Re: Am I Wrong by tushgirl(f): 10:43am On Apr 10, 2016

Aviero:
Well, if he keeps on with the whole thing, just fvck him, and let him go.

I shld fvck him.
For what now?

Re: Am I Wrong by Tallesty1(m): 10:45am On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
I'm sorry?

SMH.

Happy Sunday

Re: Am I Wrong by dharay99: 10:48am On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
@bolded..That's Pure insecurity talking..
If You trust her totally.. You wouldn't say that...

About The hoe thingy...A girl could have as many sexual partners has she deem fit. So Long she's not exactly in A Relationship. Guys do that all the time...so, what's the fuss about
Merry Sunday to You Too..

which kind trust,
most of yhu girls are damn flexible
and b4 u know it, u'll hear "i jez dont know
hw d feeling strtd"

Like wizkid,
"I jez cant explaaaaaaaaaaaaain it"
f0r me, yhu keep a male bestie? dont
lemme know, if i do? RED CARD.

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:52am On Apr 10, 2016

obizzy:
insecurity? Naah,i'm just looking out for whats mine. I dont like sharing. I'm cool with her having male friends oh but when it starts reaching the extent of giving him the name tag "BESTIE". Mbanu! Soon she'll start adding pet names. Then.....they start screwing.

Also,girls open up on their rltnshps to their so called male besties. I dont want some other nigger up in my business about me and my girl. Hell no!

Lol. About the hoe thing? Calm down miss,thats the rule. No one can change it. Not even you.

i most certainty need to kill the asshole that made that godforsaking rule! undecided

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Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:53am On Apr 10, 2016

Tallesty1:
SMH.

Happy Sunday

apology accepted?

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 10:56am On Apr 10, 2016

dharay99:

which kind trust, most of yhu girls are damn flexible and b4 u know it, u'll hear "i jez dont know hw d feeling strtd"
Like wizkid, "I jez cant explaaaaaaaaaaaaain it" f0r me, yhu keep a male bestie? dont lemme know, if i do? RED CARD.

(y)

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 11:01am On Apr 10, 2016

2NDLieutenant:
One part of you truly wants him..I think u jz scared of what people might say..folo ur heart..cheers!

Assumption isn't only a sin but misleading grin

Re: Am I Wrong by mrkay101(m): 11:06am On Apr 10, 2016

Girls can be funny atimes.. He now irritates you cuz he told you how he felt about you. That's very low on ur part. I get it, u don't feel the same way but I think it shud jst end there.

Not by feeling irritated by someone u claimed was a good friend, someone that always helped u out. Its shows u where jst friends with him cos of the benefits u got from him. U knw sometimes I wish we guys jst treat girls the way they do to us.

U knw what baffles me is this same girls will still come around and be like " b4 I date a guy we must be friends". Like WTF!!

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Re: Am I Wrong by obizzy(m): 11:07am On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
i most certainty need to kill the asshole that made that godforsaking rule!

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hahahahaha he's on alotta girl's most wanted list. Probably hiding somewhere.He wont come easy.

I dont see you as violent though. Are you?

Re: Am I Wrong by Maamin(m): 11:18am On Apr 10, 2016

Aviero:
That was how one girl the other day said she sat on a guy's lap, and came here to bash the guy because the guy's deek reacted.

Y'all lame asss chicks should get it now, 90% of guys would want to smash in whatever way possible, except you're his sister or some close relation. Every other chick must go down.

Quit all these he's my bestie, he's a close friend, so he can't think of such. He's thinking of such oh.

Laffin and rolling on the floor! grin

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 11:21am On Apr 10, 2016

I love this.

this is what you get when your a dull guy and finally enters a Lady's friends and families zone..
you spend a lot on her,when you pour out your mind,they kick you off and look for another customer..

I can never be a dullard.. my 5 years in school wasn't a waste of time. I learnt enough..
even when I was a learner ,I never keep casual female friends not to talk of now.

this world is so simple,give me,I give you.. I suffer to earn any lil cash that goes down to my wallet ,@d end of d day,a gal will like to make me her dad,she will be sitting on a long thing,
if you need my money,come get it.
I can't go into parasitic mode of life.. we must be beneficial to each other or else no need for d friendship maka Na aburom a learner.

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Re: Am I Wrong by Smellymouth: 11:21am On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
Lovely retort..

I Totally Get the feeling...
Buh the thing's everyone feels that...No matter what gender one belongs to.

i have A crazy ass female bestie who's got a boyfriend and sometimes she spends way too much time with him. And no time whatsoever for me ..ofcourse i feel bad sometimes.

Maybe i wanna go shopping and she goes like "Boify just called, can't make it". the feeling is inevitable...irrespective of gender differences.

If You make UP Your mind about someone. Okay, he's my friend..And nothing More! There shouldn't be an issue Or a case of some nonexistent, magical feeling exploding.

This whole ‘I just want to be your friend’ thing doesn’t make much sense to men. We think that if you really like a man, if you really enjoy his company, his mind, his good manners, his humour and if you’re single, why wouldn’t you want to date him? lipsrsealed

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 10, 2016

you know you don't like him and you av been accepting things from him

this is one side of ladies I hate like a p*****y.. you turn a man to your oceanic bank ..how would you feel seing another lady turn Ur blood brother to an access bank??
what makes you a lady that deserves some respects from men is that u don't demand n accept things from a man. try and work out your money cos it will help you even wen u get married. you won't depend on Ur husband for everything..
I don't blame d lady here,when d guy was fully aware he gat a gf,he was still busy loving someone else which was pure infidelity and he was even still hoping on u.. who knows if he dismissed his gf cos of you??
common sense is never common..
men will always like to taste d whole p*****y that ever existed and they r getting d results .

Re: Am I Wrong by Maamin(m): 11:31am On Apr 10, 2016

How can Someone that always helps u and shares in most of all your secrets irritates you now?

Something is wrong with that story girl!

Re: Am I Wrong by torqque7(m): 11:38am On Apr 10, 2016

[quote author=Estharfabian post=44571869][font=serif][i]@bolded..That's Pure insecurity talking..
If You trust her totally.. You wouldn't say that...

About The hoe thingy...A girl could have as many sexual partners has she deem fit. So Long she's not exactly in A Relationship. Guys do that all the time...so, what's the fuss about?

What are you talking about?did I just read if you trust her TOTALLY?lol you must be kidding,anyone who trusts any girl totally is a FOOL,one can barely trust himself 100% let alone trust someone else,worst of all trust a woman?TOTALLY? how many girls can honestly say they are not cheating on their bf?key word "honestly"..no need to even look too far,lets look here on NL, all these girls flirting and fvcking guys here they probably have boyfriends offline,including you so plssss biko spare us all that trust TOTALLY story..

Re: Am I Wrong by torqque7(m): 11:48am On Apr 10, 2016

tushgirl:
He irritates me now.Thanks.

That seems a bit harsh considering the fact that you said he had helped you a lot,so his mistake now is having feelings for you?you should take it as a compliment that someone wants you at all cost. seems you were the only one benefiting from the friendship you guys had since he was doing all the helping and listening, anyway the truth is you can't date him outa pity..just explain to him in a calm way that you wish things could be different but the arnt and you don't av that kind of feeling for him,such is life he will survive..goodluck

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Re: Am I Wrong by iykekelvins(m): 12:05pm On Apr 10, 2016

You've spent a lot of time with him.Surely he would develop some feelings whatsoever, but he shouldn't have voiced it out.

The thiing about him irritating u is still what I don't get

Re: Am I Wrong by halfricanadian(f): 12:59pm On Apr 10, 2016

No

You are not wrong my dear

You are never wrong

U might later hurt him nd it wud b worse then

Good has u didnt lead him on for anything

Humans cant help nd not expect anything i wonder if God start doing that how many will survive earth

Re: Am I Wrong by AbrahamLincoln(m): 1:00pm On Apr 10, 2016

tushgirl:
Pls I just need to share this and seek you guys opinions.
I have been friends with this guy(mutual friend)for a very long time.He helps me with a lot and I tell him all my secret,we are very close cause he is like a big bro to me.
Recently,he started having problems in his relationship and broke up with his girlfriend.
He then told me"he loved me" and ask me out,that he wanted to tell me since but he has been to shy to admit.
I didn't give him a specific answer that day,i told him to give me time but I won't lie...immediately he said those words every feeling of friendship likeness I had for him disappeared,he irritates me now.

Yesterday I called him and told him my mind saying I wasn't interested but this guy broke down in tears begging me to reconsider him.

I'm confused

Advice pls

Cc farano rocktation lalasticlala

You know what you want to do,
Even if you agree, it wouldn't be a relationship because you may not be happy.
Move on, but just know that what goes around comes around.
It may be your turn tomorrow.

oya for turning him down

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 10, 2016

obizzy:
hahahahaha he's on alotta girl's most wanted list. Probably hiding somewhere.He wont come easy.

I dont see you as violent though. Are you?

Lol..

nah...I ain't the violent type...

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 1:07pm On Apr 10, 2016

Smellymouth:

This whole ‘I just want to be your friend’ thing doesn’t make much sense to men. We think that if you really like a man, if you really enjoy his company, his mind, his good manners, his humour and if you’re single, why wouldn’t you want to date him?

What if she was dating?? undecided

Re: Am I Wrong by olac21(m): 1:31pm On Apr 10, 2016

Stupedinluv:
Women are fine with keeping male friends as friends but the guys they always end up making a fool of themselves. They cant keep simple friendship with the opp gender.

If i were you i will tell him to his face that i have no special interest in him. He can go hang himself for all you care. Life goes on

Do I find that funny at all?no I think cos you made no sense at all..ode ni e

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Re: Am I Wrong by skimmy39: 1:41pm On Apr 10, 2016

one word 'Friendzone'

tushgirl:
Pls I just need to share this and seek you guys opinions.
I have been friends with this guy(mutual friend)for a very long time.He helps me with a lot and I tell him all my secret,we are very close cause he is like a big bro to me.
Recently,he started having problems in his relationship and broke up with his girlfriend.
He then told me"he loved me" and ask me out,that he wanted to tell me since but he has been to shy to admit.
I didn't give him a specific answer that day,i told him to give me time but I won't lie...immediately he said those words every feeling of friendship likeness I had for him disappeared,he irritates me now.

Yesterday I called him and told him my mind saying I wasn't interested but this guy broke down in tears begging me to reconsider him.

I'm confused

Advice pls

Cc farano rocktation lalasticlala

Re: Am I Wrong by 2NDLieutenant(m): 1:44pm On Apr 10, 2016

chimkaire:
Assumption isn't only a sin but misleading

But how?

Re: Am I Wrong by Tallesty1(m): 1:52pm On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
apology accepted?

Haba... We are cool nah. You sef.

See tears like say she get soft heart.

Re: Am I Wrong by dharay99: 2:07pm On Apr 10, 2016

tushgirl:
He irritates me now.Thanks.

huhh...

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Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 3:25pm On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:

yes you are.

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 3:33pm On Apr 10, 2016

Estharfabian:
What if she was dating??

And why the hell would she have a male bestie when she got a boyfriend?

Re: Am I Wrong by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 10, 2016

olac21:

Do I find that funny at all?no I think cos [b]you made no sense at all[b]..[b]ode ni e[b]

seconded

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