barnabas91:

lol are u sure she can

firstking01:
lol, why?

BlaqCoffee109:
@op... yes people still marry for love...whatever you believe in will work for you... if you believe in love, you'd always attract love... if you believe you can't be loved that a person would only be with you for your money, you'd always attract gold diggers and people that would be after your money and not give a hoot about you

firstking01:
she no fit, no nigeria girl fit love you like this.

SirShymexx:


But how many people can love unconditionally in the current clime?

I think a lot of folks don't understand the concept of love and unconditional love is rare, hence you see talk about loving someone or being in love with that person. However, when it comes to exhibiting unconditionally, in the form of being a rider till the wheels fall off, they'll opt out and do what's best for them.

The fact that someone doesn't want ya money, that doesn't mean the person loves you. There might just be a next quality you possess that the person is attracted to. And once that thing goes, the person will also blow away with the wind.

TheFirstLady:
hey you... will be using this handle...love in itself is unconditional{that is an attribute /characteristics of love}...anything short of this, never was love... you can't love someone because they are attractive that would be lust... now what is prevalent is the idea of falling in love... now that is hinged on some quality about the person.. once the novelty of that quality or whatever it is that attracted you to that person like looks or whatever is no longer there, you begin to resent that person and fall out of love.... Love on the other hand is spiritual...beyond the ephemeral... it is your spirit touching that of your beloved, it breathes life that surmounts whatever challenge of life thrown it's way.. it is that god-essence in us realising our soul mates.. sadly not many people get to experience this type of love

SirShymexx:


The excerpt in bold corroborates the point I was getting at. The fact that not many people get to experience it, when almost everyone talks about love, adds credence to the fact that it's almost non-existent based on percentages.

Also, I never alluded to attractive - my emphasis is about being attracted to something the person has. It might be how sweet the person is, the demeanour, sense of humour, potentials etc. Once you can actually point to why you're in love with that person, then there's no way it can be real cos love is meant to be something you just feel but can't explain why you feel that way. I'm sure if you're to asking almost everyone who claims to be in love, they'd tell you why they're in love and that's my point.

TheFirstLady:
true that...

ZeeAfrica:
Marry for love my sweety, if yo love is poor, both of u will work hard and grow yo finances together. Many ppl r married to wealth but dey r trapped inside, do u knw dat feeling of having to kiss someone u dnt love? I knw many can agree dat it can evil lead to one wanting to vomit

halfricanadian:

Says who?

Or u nigerian guys are too freeminded to appreciate such women

halfricanadian:

Nothing

raphie01:
Tell me abt it.

skywalker240:
I know you are not from nigeria.....

I know,...i know.

firstking01:
But i asked you, you tod me NO for no reasons

firstking01:

halfricanadian:


im nt liking nl romance section guys again all of them don dey smoke hypo with girl used pant

people b like its their online personality bt out of d abundance of d heart d mouth speaketh in deir case the hand typeth if dey cud think of it nd type it only a matter of time before dey practise it which is bad bad i tell u
U con ask me shey make i love u unconsitionally so i can b a slave

barnabas91:
Marry for love
Can this happen in Nigeria?
How many ladies/guys do this?



Lalasticlala Ishilove Seun

firstking01:
have i not been genuine and sincere enough for you?...@least i'm a good example that we have good guys here??

halfricanadian:


Cos i know u were joking

Criosly was i to take dat crios

With d way u nl guys talk about women

Like we are walking demons

You guys fall for bad wild crazy carefree wicked club runz evil girls gets hurt nd lash it out


On the sweet charming good lovely homely caring lady den u turn her to d female dat hurt u u destroy her break every piece of her den she turn to the former girl

Nd d cycle continues dat why we av more nd more bad girls nd good girls are jewels very very scarce u guys dont realise u made good girls scarce.

firstking01:
hmmm, but it's vice versa....we still have good guys, wish we can meet offline then you 'll know that some guys are good.

halfricanadian:


So u saying u are good u dat led me to an untimely ban few weeks ago ok o

firstking01:
hmmm, seriously, i do not know what led to that ban, in anycase i'm sorry

halfricanadian:

Its ok

firstking01:
wer u @the moment??

halfricanadian:

Home o

firstking01:
doing what @the moment??