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This is a story that's tearing a soul apart. Advise needed

It's actually a story of a friend. This lady was introduced to a guy by her friend cos she's given up on relationship due to several heartbrakes. Lucky enough they began dating last September. The guy in question is so loving, caring and was so down to earth. He loves this lady that she forgot every heartbreaks she's gone through. On there first date after they've both agreed to be in a relationship, the guy requested that they should have there introduction but the lady declined saying it's too early to start talking about that which they both agreed it should wait.

As time pass by the two love birds seems inseparable as there love seems like one they've been in for years. Remember the affairs started just last September.

In November last year, the lady brought up the introduction issue since the guy had raised it before only to be told he would want this babe to get pregnant for him as that will even hastened there marriage. He said the mother will be so happy if the lady conceived before getting her introduced to the mother. So since November, they've been trying for a babby.

Sometimes aRound January, the lovers were rubbing minds and thinking what the problem could be as shes yet to conceive then this lady opened up to her guy that she's had an abortion during her teenage age. The guy also said two ladies had aborted for him so he might not be the problem as he's potent. They both agreed to visit the hospital for check up. There love was still strong.

After a week to this there discussions, the babe called her guy requesting they quit the relationship as she's afraid of what the test outcome will be. She feared she might be told she won't be able to conceive due to the abortion she's had. They both cried and the guy pleaded he's so sure there will be nothing of such also that the parents couldn't wait to meet her and can't afford to loose her. On that the lady agreed to the test. Luckily for her, the test results comes out fine and was told the delay might be the timing to which they've been having sex. The two don't stay together and only see once in a while.

The shock came in this February when the guy told the lady he doesn't want the relationship again cos they're not sexually compatible and the fact that he may leave the country anytime. Though on the sexual part of the relationship, the lady had complained to to me that he's too strong for her but said she was adapting to his urge. So that's not a problem for her.

She begged this guy to know what the problems were but couldn't come up with tangible excuses on why he wanted to end the relationship. They both cried again and were able to resolve issue's though the relationship wasn't like it used to be.

The lady haven't know what the problem was, was willing to do the wish of this guy. They had sex the way the guy wanted it and as God will have it the lady got pregnant though the relationship wasn't that Rossy like it used to be.

Befor the lady knew she was pregnant, another issue came up and they both agreed the relationship was over. Though the lady wasn't too pleased by that. As time passes by, the lady got to know of her status and decided to tell her man but the guy refuses them seeing. She begged him all to no avail. It was during that the guy opened up he's impregnated his ex. She told this guy she was also pregnant but he did not believe her. She requested they both see so they could go to the hospital for test but he refused claiming she should go see his mum for the test.

This lady has been so down since the news of pregnancy sets in also because this guy now claims shes pregnant cos of her desperation and that he couldn't love her again even if he accepts the pregnancy. Her issue degenerate to the extent that she was admmitted for weeks ans been made to be holding sessions with a psychologist. She's also been advised to abort her pregnancy due to depressions.

Another saddening part to this issue is dt this lady has been rejected by her father who cares so much abt her on hearing that shes broke up with this guy. The father thinks she doesn't want to be married due to previous experiences. She could not even open up to her dad shes pregnant for a guy dt has also gotten another pregnant and do not want to see her.

The problem now is she is confused on what to do with the pregnancy. Shes been advised by her doctor to abort due to health conditions and depressions but she doesn't want that.

Pls know that this lady is in her 30s and has never depended on any man as she has a good job.

Why are some men like this ? why? Why?
I don't know what to say Honestly... abortion is a bad thing to do but if her health is on the line she should abort it abeg. This case is a very strong one oh

Keeps silent... with a sorrowful face.

Keribaby come and see

Relationship isn't about procreation alone. The Lady shouldn't have fallen for that trick...agreeing to get pregnant for a guy you don't even know his Mom. but life happens...if she's financially stable, I'll advise she keeps the baby. Only God knows what the future holds. The guy might eventually stage a come back on his knees.

Lol.. i dont know how men sweet talk ladies into getting preggy before dey can be introduced to d fam o... they should continue

Cutehector:
Keribaby come and see

KeriBaby:
Lol.. i dont know how men sweet talk ladies into getting preggy before dey can be introduced to d fam o... they should continue

lol nw u knw.. I just wanted to let u knw guys are good at what dey do no matter how hard a lady chains up her heart.


BTW, nice diary

hmmm...... This is pretty strrong. Premarital sex has never help anyone. She should forget about the doctor's advice and hold on to God. She should return back to God like the prodigal son did and the Prince of Peace would rest on everyside. The only option left is to keep that pregnancy. No child is a mistake. God has great plan for d unborn child and so she shouldnt commit another sin again of murdering the baby. Let her keep the baby, go back to her father and apologise and also tell me because he also needs his support. She should forget about the boyfriend.

Wowzer! Werey lawon okurin!

Immee:
This is a story that's tearing a soul apart. Advise needed

It's actually a story of a friend. This lady was introduced to a guy by her friend cos she's given up on relationship due to several heartbrakes. Lucky enough they began dating last September. The guy in question is so loving, caring and was so down to earth. He loves this lady that she forgot every heartbreaks she's gone through. On there first date after they've both agreed to be in a relationship, the guy requested that they should have there introduction but the lady declined saying it's too early to start talking about that which they both agreed it should wait.

As time pass by the two love birds seems inseparable as there love seems like one they've been in for years. Remember the affairs started just last September.

In November last year, the lady brought up the introduction issue since the guy had raised it before only to be told he would want this babe to get pregnant for him as that will even hastened there marriage. He said the mother will be so happy if the lady conceived before getting her introduced to the mother. So since November, they've been trying for a babby.

Sometimes aRound January, the lovers were rubbing minds and thinking what the problem could be as shes yet to conceive then this lady opened up to her guy that she's had an abortion during her teenage age. The guy also said two ladies had aborted for him so he might not be the problem as he's potent. They both agreed to visit the hospital for check up. There love was still strong.

After a week to this there discussions, the babe called her guy requesting they quit the relationship as she's afraid of what the test outcome will be. She feared she might be told she won't be able to conceive due to the abortion she's had. They both cried and the guy pleaded he's so sure there will be nothing of such also that the parents couldn't wait to meet her and can't afford to loose her. On that the lady agreed to the test. Luckily for her, the test results comes out fine and was told the delay might be the timing to which they've been having sex. The two don't stay together and only see once in a while.

The shock came in this February when the guy told the lady he doesn't want the relationship again cos they're not sexually compatible and the fact that he may leave the country anytime. Though on the sexual part of the relationship, the lady had complained to to me that he's too strong for her but said she was adapting to his urge. So that's not a problem for her.

She begged this guy to know what the problems were but couldn't come up with tangible excuses on why he wanted to end the relationship. They both cried again and were able to resolve issue's though the relationship wasn't like it used to be.

The lady haven't know what the problem was, was willing to do the wish of this guy. They had sex the way the guy wanted it and as God will have it the lady got pregnant though the relationship wasn't that Rossy like it used to be.

Befor the lady knew she was pregnant, another issue came up and they both agreed the relationship was over. Though the lady wasn't too pleased by that. As time passes by, the lady got to know of her status and decided to tell her man but the guy refuses them seeing. She begged him all to no avail. It was during that the guy opened up he's impregnated his ex. She told this guy she was also pregnant but he did not believe her. She requested they both see so they could go to the hospital for test but he refused claiming she should go see his mum for the test.

This lady has been so down since the news of pregnancy sets in also because this guy now claims shes pregnant cos of her desperation and that he couldn't love her again even if he accepts the pregnancy. Her issue degenerate to the extent that she was admmitted for weeks ans been made to be holding sessions with a psychologist. She's also been advised to abort her pregnancy due to depressions.

Another saddening part to this issue is dt this lady has been rejected by her father who cares so much abt her on hearing that shes broke up with this guy. The father thinks she doesn't want to be married due to previous experiences. She could not even open up to her dad shes pregnant for a guy dt has also gotten another pregnant and do not want to see her.

The problem now is she is confused on what to do with the pregnancy. Shes been advised by her doctor to abort due to health conditions and depressions but she doesn't want that.

Pls know that this lady is in her 30s and has never depended on any man as she has a good job.

how did it later turn out?

Ladies wl neva learn, why wl a guy insist dat u get pregnant b4 he performs ur bridal rites? No need asking for advice, person wey get mind abort during her teen wl definitely get mind abort again.her doctor is already suggesting dat. Waiting so long b4 she conceived is jst a warning, if she tries it again, she wl nt find it funny. Let her deliver d child and move on,lesson learnt.

I saw ur post that hit frontpage today. I am guessing the lady in question is you. I d give advice once I am free later today.

beethoven:
I saw ur post that hit frontpage today. I am guessing the lady in question is you. I d give advice once I am free later today.

ur guess are as good as mine. This lady & her r/ship matters ehn? Mmmn. May God help her & save her from the antics & exploitation of the wrong men.

Sorry but ur guess was wrong. This post was truly for a friend and not me[color=#990000][/color]