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Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Okijajuju1(m):
udemzyudex:
Is like you're not in this part of the world, you think guys having baby mamas everywhere are f**ls? The trend is rising, and believe me in the next 10years to come, you will hardly hear about marriage....

After all what's the essence of marriage if not continue your generation..



If she is waiting for court marriage, she go wait tire....
Lol..

How much does Wizkid and Davidoo have?

Are they richer than Men like Adenuga and Dangote who are happily married?

Clearly you do not know what the essence of marriage if you think its just for child bearing. Any set imbeciles with se-men and ovaries can bear a child, but it takes a whole lot more to raise a generation.

And speaking of child bearing, you think it's better to raise a child in a broken home (or no home at all cos a home is not a house) than to raise the child in the balanced environment a 'Home' provides?

Lol.. Do what you will my friend, And I pray it works out well for you in the end.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by habsydiamond(m): 9:02am On Mar 10, 2016
I think this should only be applicable to court marriages. It shouldn't affect churches, mosque.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by coolhumble(m): 9:58am On Mar 10, 2016
Thats also.my take. I dont recognize court wedding and i even told.my inlaw that i will never do it and we did introduction and lowkey church wedding.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Dynamite02: 10:46am On Mar 10, 2016
It is only a foolish woman that will not protect herself in this world where anything can happen
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Joy1706(f): 12:02pm On Mar 10, 2016
Sunnynwa:
And what is the right thing?
Right thing? No proper marriage, no cohabitation or pregnancy. Personally anyways
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnynwa: 12:10pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Right thing? No proper marriage, no cohabitation or pregnancy. Personally anyways
Thank God you said personally. That means you understand there's a world outside your own cocoon.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnynwa: 12:11pm On Mar 10, 2016
Dynamite02:
It is only a foolish woman that will not protect herself in this world where anything can happen
....and it's only a foolish man that cannot also protect himself.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnypar(m): 1:19pm On Mar 10, 2016
biafratownforum:
I have to read to this page to see this. This thread reeks of IGNORANCE.
Ignorance is what is killing Nigerians. They don't know anything but claim to know. My uncles, father, sister and cousin did only traditional marriage and it is recognised by the registry laws...... Ignorance is the second most common disease in Nigeria.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Dynamite02: 1:23pm On Mar 10, 2016
Sunnynwa:
....and it's only a foolish man that cannot also protect himself.
Yes o!
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnypar(m): 1:28pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Not all girls are desperate. You need to upgrade the kinda girls u hang out with. When a girl knows her worth, she will insist on the right/best thing for her
I agree but the girls that are 24 years with no one to cater for them are desperate, the ones that their mother remarried or after remarried are desperate to marry, the 27-30 years are seriously desperate and 33-35....... As long as his a man.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnypar(m): 1:33pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Right thing? No proper marriage, no cohabitation or pregnancy. Personally anyways
Stories..... Do you watch your view on TVC? Thousands are cohabiting.....my neighbors started with cohabiting. Doing the tight thing is laying the dowry.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnypar(m): 1:33pm On Mar 10, 2016
Bleep all this sh!t...... Traditional and that is it. I am an African man.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by vanbonattel: 1:37pm On Mar 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Not all girls are desperate. You need to upgrade the kinda girls u hang out with. When a girl knows her worth, she will insist on the right/best thing for her
ok, just dont get old and haggard before settling down.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Sunnypar(m): 2:22pm On Mar 10, 2016
vanbonattel:
ok, just dont get old and haggard before settling down.
lol
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by OTEGA1: 10:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
Okijajuju1:
For you to call a federal marriage license "just a paper" shows you have no idea what you are talking about.

I advice you to keep quiet and learn from this thread.. A federal marriage license is more than just a piece of paper. Ask men who have suffered the consequence how powerful that paper really is.
It's indeed a paper cos there is no guarantee of a successful marriage. If it has worth u will not be hearing of divorce cases even with the supposed paper guarantee.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 2:47pm On Apr 01, 2016
Court marriage all the way... Traditional later...

And my fiance has agreed.. No too much story...

We aint divorcing anytime in the future.. Together we shall grow and suceed till the end of time..
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Okijajuju1(m): 11:34am On Apr 13, 2016
OTEGA1:
It's indeed a paper cos there is no guarantee of a successful marriage. If it has worth u will not be hearing of divorce cases even with the supposed paper guarantee.
You soooooo miss the point I dont even knwo where to start correcting you from.


Does 'Road Worthiness Certificate' mean your car will not breakdown on the road?

Marriage License is not a guarantee of Good marriage. Nothing is a Guarantee for a Good marriage..

But I assure you that when an abused spouse goes to court with her marriage license, that is when you will know what powers lie within that license.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 11:58am On Apr 13, 2016
Okijajuju1:
You soooooo miss the point I dont even knwo where to start correcting you from.


Does 'Road Worthiness Certificate' mean your car will not breakdown on the road?

Marriage License is not a guarantee of Good marriage. Nothing is a Guarantee for a Good marriage..

But I assure you that when an abused spouse goes to court with her marriage license, that is when you will know what powers lie within that license.
Do you really think a Nigerian woman with family ties would take her husband to court for abuse or adultery?
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Okijajuju1(m): 12:12pm On Apr 13, 2016
daretodiffer:
Do you really think a Nigerian woman with family ties would take her husband to court for abuse or adultery?
Think?!! Hells No..

I know..

Go to your local registry and ask them to give you gist..

Go to your area high court and hear of cases.

The fact that many women dont exercise does not make their right disappear o!
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Nobody:
Okijajuju1:
Think?!! Hells No..

I know..

Go to your local registry and ask them to give you gist..

Go to your area high court and hear of cases.

The fact that many women dont exercise does not make their right disappear o!
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That was amistake.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 13, 2016
Okijajuju1:
Think?!! Hells No..

I know..

Go to your local registry and ask them to give you gist..

Go to your area high court and hear of cases.

The fact that many women dont exercise does not make their right disappear o!
I agree with you that they have rights however enforceability is the problem. Most women will not want to exercise that right to due to cultural factors.
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by funlord(m): 10:10am On Aug 07, 2017
ibkn:
this is not the position under Nigerian Law. a woman doesn't get half of the assets by force
Your number
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by ibkn(m): 9:23pm On Aug 07, 2017
funlord:
Your number
080....
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by bigcp(m): 7:59pm On Aug 08, 2017
Atlantian:
The OP presented a very valid assertion, but these ignorant people have turned the advice into their myopic religious sermons. A smart man knows enough to sign a prenuptial agreement if you must engage in the court marriage thing, but best thing is to avoid it if possible. I really do not understand the reason a man should pay alimony for an ex until she finds a new husband, while they go around fucking every dick. I understand the child support but alimony is the reason many men are scared in marriage and becoming lame dogs cos no one wants to slave for a certain ex all his life.
brother..that shitz doesn't work here in 9ja....here in 9ja, divorce always favours the men...nothing like alimony....whether court marriage or not...there's nothi5like sharing of properties...only joint properties....court or no court ...nothing like alimony
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by bigcp(m): 8:00pm On Aug 08, 2017
alizma:
if you do court wedding in nigeria, u are in for that.
Naaa....aint nothing like that at all....divorce favours d men most...here in 9ja
Re: Why Men Should Only Do Traditional Marriage by bigcp(m): 8:03pm On Aug 08, 2017
IsiCaterpillar:
My brother is a living witness. he is practically working for the woman and her boyfriend as i am typing this.
wait a minute...are u saying these laws work here in 9ja?...naaa..nothing like half of ur properties...only joint property...
My sister it doesn't work like that...
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