adorablepepple:

#it's like that with her because she has a child already and you are not use to her in that state.if you are ready to satisfy her,you have to get that off your head,I guess probably she has a big tummy or still struggling with pregnancy /baby fat. See her like a young lady. Take your baby to your mum or her mum and you both should have a lone time together.
And stop suspecting her,stop visiting the brothel it will destroy you n your family.
By the way your blunder is too much it's giving me headache

Kingsasian:
May be you don't find her sexually attractive.

olasha1:
This a serious matter my brother
Bro you are suspecting her already $ this may cause a big problem in future. Have you discussed it with her?

Kingsasian:
May be you don't find her sexually attractive.

bigfree:

Shikena. It's our imagination Of sex with an attractive partner that fuels our desire for intercourse. If the mind isn't ready, the body is just a sack of garri

bigfree:

Shikena. It's our imagination Of sex with an attractive partner that fuels our desire for intercourse. If the mind isn't ready, the body is just a sack of garri

luvmyprincess:


My brother when it comes to that,she is my exact type of woman
She is so pretty,fair $ have a very good shape an average men will die for which is d reason I always suspect her of getting it out side

bigfree:

Shikena. It's our imagination Of sex with an attractive partner that fuels our desire for intercourse. If the mind isn't ready, the body is just a sack of garri

Kingsasian:
most ladies in her situation would feel tempted to do what you are suspecting her for but you don't have to conclude that she is getting it outside until she is caught red handed. Most importantly you should find a solution to the problem somewhere else...meeting a marriage counsellor.

Untainted007:


You wrote down exact response I wanted to give out to this dear brother. This same thing almost happened to me befr I realised that the message in my head during love making matters. I come easily if I'm nt attracted to my partner but if I take time to show her real live and try to understand her, I lasts beyond my own expectations. If u av dis negative approach towards sex with her u can't expect to come out with positive and satisfying love making with ur spouse. Learn to take away ur mind off ur side chicks and also ensure u increase your LOVE to ur spouse. Love surpasses everything.

luvmyprincess:


Thanks bro have no negative mindset towards sex with her untill now when it becomes a big problem to me...I stoped all outside relationship when I met her but was forced to start it again so as to check myself $ now I don't know what d problem is all about

Untainted007:


I will encourage you to focus on her and let not your mind be divided between your love for her and 'pleasures' outside. U can't do two things at a time. It's either her or ur side chicks. Bt remember been faithful in a relationship is a must determination that must be achieved. When you show her more live you will see how every other things u dnt even expect will work well for you. Remain blessed

Yieldings:
You're the one who is guilty by committing adultery, so stop trying to shift blame by saying you're suspecting her. Stop having girlfriends outside the house and stop going to brothels. If you catch a disease now, I'm sure you would be blaming her. STOP all these destructive activities you're engaging in. You have a wife and baby girl at home; have some self-respect. STOP cheating and focus on your marriage.

Try and connect emotionally with your wife, and forget about the women outside. You have to improve your interactions with each other and deeply connect with each other before your bedroom activities can improve.

luvmyprincess:


My brother when it comes to that,she is my exact type of woman
She is so pretty,fair $ have a very good shape an average men will die for which is d reason I always suspect her of getting it out side

luvmyprincess:


I try not to suspect her,but the internal problem just can't let me stop

Guitarlife:
Nobody has been able to explain to the OP what is happening.

OP please answer this questions , is ur fiancee a but plump ? I mean she is definitely not very slim and probably has enough fat.

Truth is men last longer with slim girls than with fat girls. It is because a fat or plump lady seem seems to have a tighter vagina due to the fat around the pelvic area especially ladies with prominent camel toe.

Hence the grip on the penis appears and ofcourse is tighter during intercourse compared to a slim lady.

What you can do is allow her go on top at the initiation of sex. You can do this for 10 mins then change position.

Try that and thank me later.

ahnie:
Mtcheeeew,my friend go and search yourself,you might hav slept with someone's wife and that z the aftereffect