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Neverquit:
I have been very fortunate to have genuine male friends that confide me. Ladies, I will encourage you to have real male friends NOT friend-zoned male friends (there is a HUGE difference, but that is a thread for another day).

I will share few of the experiences my friends had in the hands of women .

You can say it's a counter thread to: https://www.nairaland.com/3051283/girls-share-horrible-things-guys

1) Jide
Jide admits that he was 'in the world'. He did somethings that he was not proud off. But he told me that he never led a girl on nor cheated on her. So he decided to 'leave the world' and become celibate. So he got a girlfriend and began that journey. The girl was truthful about not being a virgin though and agreed to become celibate with him. He noticed the girl uploading different pictures. She said they were her brother, uncles, cousins etc. He wasn't fooled though, but gave her the benefit of the doubt. So few months into the relationship, his friends started telling him stories about how the girl was cheating on him. He didn't believe them until they showed him multiple evidence . He was really devastated because after the girl got used, she will come back to him crying (and make up stories), about how people were evil. He will then console her (imagine). So after the revelation, he and his friends went to buy condoms (in bulk ) and had marathon s..with her. He broke up with her afterwards. He still stayed celibate though...

2) Eze
Eze fell deeply in love. He was so in love that his friends felt irritated . He was even ready to propose. He thought the girl was also in love. She already unofficially met his family. He came across series of Whatsapp messages on his girl's phone. Asked her about them. She said it was a guy disturbing her. He believed her. So one day, he saw the guy in a joint (the guy's picture was on his Whatsapp profile). He walked over to talk to the guy. So the convo led to realizing that the girl was playing them both . She also lied to the other guy that Eze was just a guy disturbing her for a relationship . So guys being guys (instead of fighting like we ladies), they decided to keep sleeping with her. Mehn, after each session, they will then hang out and tell each other about what happened . They later broke up with her after few months.

3) Ali
Ali was also in love. He already proposed to his girlfriend (and she said yes). So one day, his girlfriend said she was traveling (for the weekend) to another state for a wedding. Later that day, her best-friend called him telling him all the dirty secrets. Initially he didn't believe her. He thought she was lieing (hoping to steal him or break them up). So she asked him to meet up somewhere that she had to show him something. So after meeting up, she directed him to a street that he was really familiar with (Ghen Ghen), got to a house he was familiar with ( ), So they parked a few yards away from the house. Few minutes later, he saw his fiancee (that was meant to be out of town) in his bestfriend's car ( ), he still didn't believe it. So his girl's best-friend asked him to chill for few minutes before going in. Fortunately (or unfortunately for his best-friend), he has a spare key to his apartment (for emergency reasons). So he used his spare key to 'surprise' them. What he met was so heartbreaking. The girl's best-friend had to drive back because he was disoriented. He even contemplated committing suicide

4) Omoba
Omoba is a gentle soul. He sees the best in everybody. He met a beautiful 'decent' girl. When she showed him some amazing bedmatics, he was heads over heels in love . The girl was honest about her past. Said she saw the error in her ways. He believed her. His friends cautioned him not too. They had the perfect relationship. His friends started to tell him that she wasn't faithful, he didn't believe them. Said it was not recent activities but the ones in the past . She got pregnant. Omoba was excited. He told everybody . He asked the girl to marry him, she said NO . He begged her (mehn that was so sad), she was adamant. Few days later, she came back saying she aborted the pregnancy (ah!). He still wanted to marry her. She later broke up with him. He called and called and called, begging and begging. Still the girl no gree o. So his friends had to do an intervention on him ( ). He later got sane after few weeks. Few months after, the girl came back begging...i'll gist you guys about his reaction for another day (Hint: it was epic)

5) Matthew
Matthew was a struggling graduate. He also fell in love. They were talking marriage and babies. He asked her to marry him, she said NO. That he was not yet buoyant to support a family. He was sad, but that gave him the encouragement to strive real hard. He asked her to be patient, she agreed. Few months after, he was invited to a wedding ( ...you guys already know what follows). The happy bride was his girlfriend (and already unofficially met their respective family). He was SHOCKED. He almost fainted. What he did was epic. He walked up the the couple to congratulate them. When the bride saw him coming she was , he smiled. He turned to the groom and said "Sarah is an interesting girl. Have fun unraveling her many layers". The groom had a confusing look on his face. He then hugged the bride, and left (He ate and drank before leaving though). Fortunately, he is now doing extremely well...ladies, patience sometimes can be rewarding.

6) Share yours...

Abbeyunique2:
Oya as if i knew that there would be a counter thread.
well as i said b4, it goes both ways. whether man, woman or transgender, a heartbreaker is a heartbreaker.

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btw, that Matthew is a real G, that's how act when you see a hoe.

Last2comment:
Am I the only guy whose heart has never been broken....

lodscott:
keep lying till you become a liability

missvera:
Am I the only one that believe these stories were cooked by OP?

lodscott:
keep lying till you become a liability

So he decided to 'leave the world' and become celibate. So he got a girlfriend and began that journey.

The girl . . . agreed to become celibate with him.

Last2comment:
Am I the only guy whose heart has never been broken....

Last2comment:
Am I the only guy whose heart has never been broken....