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rubsaphy:
Ahh, let me call my baby back, and tell him all his sins are forgiven...


(There are certain mistakes that just can't be forgiven, it's not about your pride, but the length at which you trusted a person, and never expected the evil they committed against you)

Missbizy:
This thing called pride is really bad. I'm that kind of person too dt does not forgive easily especially towards my bf. The last fight we had i didnt pick his calls for 2wks without knowing he was on sick bed, I felt so ashamed of myself. This story really touched me

Realhommie:
Guy, nothing nice about the blend, Lol...

You cn't be SYMPATHETIC yet UNFORGIVING, If you're sympathetic it means you have a good conscience and if so you cn't be unforgiving else there's something else you're not telling..

@ Topic, really pathetic.
Sometimes we act like we know what the future holds, like we created ourselves, like we are shit when actually we're nothing b4 the creator.
So i've got 2 neighbors who dn't see eye to eye, both ladies n both married.. Why? Coz this one said this n that one said that, it's even extended to their husbands n kids, heard one of the ladies telling her little daughter of about 4 yrz not to have anything to do with the other ladies kids, warning her strictly, already sowing the seed of discord and evil in her and thats how that kid will grow up...

So after watching them both for a while my spirit led me to try and reconcile them both... Talked to them separately, shared even the word of God from the 'Holy Book' and admonished them to bury the hatchet and embrace peace... They said so many things but i told them i wasn't interested, that they shldn't expect forgiveness from God if they cn't forgive themselves and live peacefully as neighbors and as children of God coz they go to church everytime..

Moving forward, they both agreed to work things out, thanked me n even prayed for me, Lol.. One of them changed, she's started exchanging greetingz with the other one's husband and has askd her kids too to always greet, atleast it's a nice start. But the other one, she's refused to, she's got really deep mind and i just wonder... The first lady even told me one morning when she greeted the other ladies husband, the second lady was seriously warning her hubby, threatening fire n brimstone, cursing, that he should nvr be in good terms with the first lady...

So I'm really surprised, and i wonder how she sleeps at night... Still praying for her though

So finally, we should be forgiving, it's a small world and no one knows tomorrow.

I can relate with the Op's story, i'm so emotional so i get hurt easily, Lol. Though i'm working on getting really tough now, lol. So, but I'm forgiving yet it's mostly difficult for me to forget. Still working on that and hopefully i'll be good as i hv improved greatly.

smartigo:
My brother, women wicked pass men when it comes to grudges oooooo. Do u know why? Illogical beings, sorry, they r emotional beings.

nacosprof:
This goes to only lady I ever toasted out here but refuse on just no cause..the door is still open, plsss my mum is n't getting young @all

missbronze:
To forgive is DIVINE.


Forgiving is not an easy thing to do, but, it really takes a strong heart to forgive.


In all, we should learn to forgive.

I am even guilty of this unforgiving hrt sef, For three years now, I have kept grudge for someone. But, I think is enough after today.

Ibiyomee:
There are sins you can never forgive even if you tell the person ' I forgive you'.
For God to forgive some of us our sins, it is because he is not human.
It is easy to forgive for some people but very hard to forget, so tell me what is the essence of FORGIVENESS when you cannot FORGET.
May God help us!

ourchoice:
Women and their stone-hearts, if u check all the big big sin or offense ladies are carrying about against their men, it can't be more than: he cheated on me with my best friend, he cheated on me, nothing more....and it is too big for ladies to forgive, hmmm...but men will forgive a lady that eats their money and refuse to date or marry them to date one useless guy they feel is more handsome, yet men forgive, ladies really need to pray harder than just attending church service on sundays.

The only thing I can't forgive is someone that tries to take away my life, that will require God's grace for me to forgive/forget, aside that, I can forgive any other thing; though I will forgive a cheating wife, but we can't be spouse again.

So sis, learn to forgive o

sonOfLucifer:
To err is human, to forgive is also human.

ourchoice:
Women and their stone-hearts, if u check all the big big sin or offense ladies are carrying about against their men, it can't be more than: he cheated on me with my best friend, he cheated on me, nothing more....and it is too big for ladies to forgive, hmmm...but men will forgive a lady that eats their money and refuse to date or marry them to date one useless guy they feel is more handsome, yet men forgive, ladies really need to pray harder than just attending church service on sundays.

The only thing I can't forgive is someone that tries to take away my life, that will require God's grace for me to forgive/forget, aside that, I can forgive any other thing; though I will forgive a cheating wife, but we can't be spouse again.

So sis, learn to forgive o

rubsaphy:
Ahh, let me call my baby back, and tell him all his sins are forgiven...


(There are certain mistakes that just can't be forgiven, it's not about your pride, but the length at which you trusted a person, and never expected the evil they committed against you)

Missbizy:
This thing called pride is really bad. I'm that kind of person too dt does not forgive easily especially towards my bf. The last fight we had i didnt pick his calls for 2wks without knowing he was on sick bed, I felt so ashamed of myself. This story really touched me

esosa993:
one question is would you ever forgive your gf if she slept with your best friend

ourchoice:
Yes I will forgive her but we won't be lovers again....to me, a woman cheating is no big deal because I have witnessed lots about women....I have seen women seen as wonderful ladies cheat on their wonderful boyfriends, fiancees and husbands with guys very close to me....so I can't be surprised to hear or catch a woman I am dating cheating.

The only thing I can find difficult to forgive is someone that attempts to kill me...every other thing is forgivable by me

tombravo:
really really bad. If I were him, i would dump you ASAP. TWO WEEKS!!! HOW MANY SANE MEN CAN HANDLE THAT??!!! gEEEZ are you human at all A day is even too long. TWO WEEKS?!!!! This thing pain me die o.... Im already hating you.... TWO WEEKS!!!!!!!!!!!!

esosa993:
that's nice you have a good heart, I want be like you

justwise:
Dude chill! Do you have the whole story about what happened?