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MumZ:
Exactly. If pple like Pintoxx know person story, na 2 use am dey mock d person wen ish arise. Nd nobody shld say she dint mean it 4rm dat angle, cos we all know she did. If u like insult my ancestors, like my small small niece ll say, uh uhn.

I know not any of them but from here. Don't be one sided. Point out their faults to each of them. Be a peace maker.

They both use words wrongly, their choice of words were not carefully chosen, period.

Two wrongs don't make a right, Pintoxx first post was wrong and posted to wrong us all, but I never expected Cherrymum to reply in like manner.

Their words are not seasoned at alllllll. Am not petting any I beggy.

@ Cherrymum, bae dont feel that way.
You didnt make the decisions alone, we made it together.
You are one strong woman and nobody reach to fire catapult of anything your way!


@Chinwendym, why you sef dey do like this nah?
Make una no let am reach like that o.
Chill.


Olubankemi Abeggi!!!!!
Tryin to quench fire or blowing it up?
Pintoxx started it with her comment, yes Cherrymum could have replied her better or better still ignored her, buh considering this isnt the first time she would be uttering such, we can assume she just blasted over her. Again Pintoxx could have chosen to ignore Cherrymum or given a comeback devoid of shade.
Words badly written are worse off than words badly spoken. This is a perfect example.
All in the name of clapback.....

Abeg iyabeji, just go siddon one side jejely, for the sake of the twins.

zaynie:
@ Cherrymum, bae dont feel that way.
You didnt make the decisions alone, we made it together.
You are one strong woman and nobody reach to fire catapult of anything your way!


@Chinwendym, why you sef dey do like this nah?
Make una no let am reach like that o.
Chill.


Olubankemi Abeggi!!!!!
Tryin to quench fire or blowing it up?
Pintoxx started it with her comment, yes Cherrymum could have replied her better or better still ignored her, buh considering this isnt the first time she would be uttering such, we can assume she just blasted over her. Again Pintoxx could have chosen to ignore Cherrymum or given a comeback devoid of shade.
Words badly written are worse off than words badly spoken. This is a perfect example.
All in the name of clapback.....

Abeg iyabeji, just go siddon one side jejely, for the sake of the twins.

Tell me how to quench fire? Quench one side and leave the other? Speak the truth to yourself.

They are both wrong. Don't be petty.

dunamit:
momi zayne i didnt read well now...haba now

No be you I dey laff o, na all those mamas wey dey prescribe ANC medicine.

olubankemi:
Tell me how to quench fire? Quench one side and leave the other? Speak the truth to yourself.

They are both wrong. Don't be petty.

Excuse you!
Petty? On top wetin?
Did you not read my first post on this matter?
Did you skip the part where I said Pintoxx is cool and must have been angry to make such
comments?
So to settle fight is to start sharing blame when the matter still dey hot.
We go first cool dem down before we start correcting.

Abeg swerve!

Our once peaceful thread.
Please let peace reign.
Cherrymum, sorry about that. Let's all move on. Let's not kill the love we v share here.

Ozycy Amen to your prayers.

Olubankemi we plan to do just that!.

zaynie:
Excuse you!
Petty? On top wetin?
Did you not read my first post on this matter?
Did you skip the part where I said Pintoxx is cool and must have been angry to make such
comments?
So to settle fight is to start sharing blame when the matter still dey hot.
We go first cool dem down before we start correcting.

Abeg swerve!

Na me n you go start this night abi?

I no dey do cyber fight. Mba.

@cherrymum pls dnt take wat pintoxx said 2 heart,I would say it was out of annoyance. It is well wit u n ur daughter. d Lord wil rememba u 2day 4 good....@chinwedym pls o no reason like dat o,cos no resposible human being wil make mockery of u over such life threatening issue.#Plsbringback ourEkeneboboo#....@sugar d Lord's healing is upon ur sis.It is well wit her body n soul!....@Adorablewifey d Lord dat gave u dat treasure wil preserve it 4u....

sugah:
Ozycy Amen to your prayers.

Olubankemi we plan to do just that!.

God will give you all the strength and above all, God will heal her and replenish her in manifolds.

Zaynie and olubankemi please don't start round 2

it's been while here mamas. salute to all-fruitful, waddling, vigilante &'eyeing' mamas. the rift btw our two sisters brought me in. hmmm, u need to know what positively great impact this thread has on many lives&families. seeing such here therefore is disheartening. and to think we're mothers (one way/d oda), what then do we pass on to the treasures God has put in our care to nurture both morally &all when it's evident that we aren't selfless &mature?one of d traits of a virtous woman is 'confidentiality'&maturity; regardless d age. one cld be a counselor, pastor's wife or even sm random person taking u as a comforter; wat then happens to their stories when they make mistakes?we may need to watch it.big sis Chinwendym's comment so touched me.u knw wat it feels like to be disappointed? @my sis cherrymum, never mind; Èdá gbàgbé, sùgbón Olórun rántí.stay blessed all

olubankemi:
Na me n you go start this night abi?

I no dey do cyber fight. Mba.

You should have thought of that before you called me petty.

I don't do e- fights too but then I am not a pushover.

olubankemi:
God will give you all the strength and above all, God will heal her and replenish her in manifolds.

Amen!!!!

zaynie:
Excuse you!
Petty? On top wetin?
Did you not read my first post on this matter?
Did you skip the part where I said Pintoxx is cool and must have been angry to make such
comments?
So to settle fight is to start sharing blame when the matter still dey hot.
We go first cool dem down before we start correcting.

Abeg swerve!

Mama Atinuke it yaff do mbok.

olubankemi:
Tell me how to quench fire? Quench one side and leave the other? Speak the truth to yourself.

They are both wrong. Don't be petty.

Iya ibeji otito e joor ma o.

cherrymum please I beg u dnt feel that way...any right thinking person will know what she meant by frustration, but sis u never did wrong sharing ur story, God give u the grace and power to train ur girl right, it was never what u wished happen, but sh*t happens, but for anybody using ur personal pain against u is so childish

pleasd mamas should not add fire by saying shs didnt mean it that way, we all here are not kids, as the the saying goes "anything the constitution does not guarantee, is a PRIVILEGE and not a RIGHT"...we all are privileged to get answers to our questions, me for example I never answer question before cos I no know much, so if I ask and no answer na to just move on, cos I dnt pay monthly dues here to claim member...please lets all be guarded and guided...cherrymum please, ema binu, biko, ayan kuri

Zaynie and proudmum38 I can't fit shout o! When e go hapun dem no go give person notice o!

I still full for ground here! I ain't going no where

My chair mistress olubankemi na you and Iya atinuke wan give us round 2? haa oti o.

Chinwendym:
Zaynie and proudmum38 I can't fit shout o! When e go hapun dem no go give person notice o!

I still full for ground here! I ain't going no where

My chair mistress olubankemi na you and Iya atinuke wan give us round 2? haa oti o.

Understood dear....

@Sugah, Chinwendym and Proudmom, rara ooo, we no fit start that one oo.

@zaynie
@ahnie
@chinwendym
@all mamas

What pintoxx said this evening hurt me real bad. Telling me she's not the cause of my frustration. And since then I've just been looking at my dauta that made me take all the "crazy frustration" decisions and walk the "frustration" walk.

Yes pintoxx u know my story today but you don't know my tomorrow's glory and I don't your tomorrow's story! But inside of staying within the line of the said matter. Babes you decided to cross it and touch me where u felt will hurt me the most. Hi5 babe! I will take every frustration a million times over for my daughter. I will do crazier things if need be! Laugh at the frustration today o, joke about it, enjoy the story u think u know but very soon I'll invite u to see that table God will prepare from this frustration.

I could have continued insulting and going back and forth but for my child's sake, the innocent soul that i brought into this frustration.

I wish I could delete every story I told on here, every advice I requested for, every talk about my life and that of my child. I wish I kept that part of me within family and not out of it.

Pintoxx I will never wish you evil in your presence or behind u. I can curse you here and no one will appear at my doorstep to do anything to me. But as I said earlier on the frustration part....THE GOD YOU SERVE WILL ANSWER YOU!

To all mamas who keep the thread alive, God bless you.
To the friends I've made offline, I love u muchos. I draw strength from you.
To every advice given, every love shown to me and my life (Olamide) I say thank you all.
We will not cast our young o.
To ATC mamas your testimony is closer than you think.
To our LOs God bless you all.

See you all at the top.
Much love babes!

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See what just one badly written comment can cause among group of people. Its to start threading carefully now...


Hehehe. So i'm not the only one awake by this time
@favoredgal @kokolet007 @topmycin @esof1 @faithfulbabe10 @Bisoye82 I see you all o. Vigilante is real!

It is well! .

mitchyy:
See what just one badly written comment can cause among group of people. Its to start threading carefully now...


Hehehe. So i'm not the only one awake by this time
@favoredgal @kokolet007 @topmycin @esof1 @faithfulbabe10 @Bisoye82 I see you all o. Vigilante is real!

Lol. This vigilante mode is too early oh.

Vannywealth:
:-XHi. I visited parents. Com today and was told "welcome to your third trimester" at 25wks. Using the lunar measurement, the third trimester starts at 25wks. Personally, I'm impatient for the end of 27wks to mark the beginning of my own third trimester. Third trimester has begun for me.

25weeks is not 3rd trimester o, but its good to give yourself hope. I know you can't wait

i don laff for this marra but as for me pintoxx shouldn't be blame alone they are both at fault. the reason why i like the forum is because mothers don't use hurtful words is correcting they bash with love unlike when you create a thread and teenagers on nairaland will begin to spew tra.sh. cherrymum's comment hurt pintoxx, why telling her all that its wasn't necessary and pintoxx in turn was pained and decided to use the word 'frustration' and she is saying she leave it to God? i just laff. please we all have our various temperament. women, when we get angry we tend to misuse words just to make sure we counter the next person. we all are not saints, you must have use some hurtful or derogatory words in one way or the other even when we know nothing about the person. as for pintoxx, google is your friend. i google to get information i need. but if you want a firsthand response to your question please cc mamas here. Some mamas may not respond because they aint sure make person no use them as 'reference' @ Cherrymum cool your temper jor, use seff no try, e be like the magic word 'frustration' they vex you lol. please don't make a hill out of a little mole just wave it aside oky. some cherry are sweet while some sour but no matter what we must lick the seeds abi? that's how our attitudes reflect. pleas cool down abi you want me to buy ice cream for you? #wink#

At a time when there's hurt/pain/vex in the air its important that our contributions be positive and tend towards healing all the strife in the room.

Jennifer89 we are in the process of restoring peace here oh. The matter has long been laid to rest!

Its a new day everyone. We will start all over again, please join me and say never again# to tempers in this thread!

good morning great mom's of nation
pushing mama's,Hws d ministry?
just strolling by#

Its a brand new day! Lord give us grace to go through tthis day Amen!

Good Morning all, I have been reading all the comments about Pinntoxx and Cherrymum, please and please, in my dialect there is a proverbs that says, "ka anyi hapu Ihe nile belu na abani ka obulu anwunta" Abeg let's forget all the insults because the issue is bringing more insults and all.

I have read people now saying petty and others. I have been learning a lot from this place that I can tell somebody when Labour starts and all. I have even directed many ppl to this site.

Please and please, let there be peace on this issue. Please I have even copied baby lists from this place as a FTM.

Let us continue as one as we have been doing before.

Thank you all. Nice Tuesday to all.

@zaynie
@ahnie
@chinwendym
@all mamas

What pintoxx said this evening hurt me real bad. Telling me she's not the cause of my frustration. And since then I've just been looking at my dauta that made me take all the "crazy frustration" decisions and walk the "frustration" walk.

Yes pintoxx u know my story today but you don't know my tomorrow's glory and I don't your tomorrow's story! But inside of staying within the line of the said matter. Babes you decided to cross it and touch me where u felt will hurt me the most. Hi5 babe! I will take every frustration a million times over for my daughter. I will do crazier things if need be! Laugh at the frustration today o, joke about it, enjoy the story u think u know but very soon I'll invite u to see that table God will prepare from this frustration.

I wish I could delete every story I told on here, every advice I requested for, every talk about my life and that of my child. I wish I kept that part of me within family and not out of it.
See you all at the top.
Much love babes!

Please am sorry! !! On behalf of Pintoxx, am soo sorry! Sorry for the pains and the bad memories her words may have cost you. I understand how you feel please.
Find it in your heart to FORGIVE HER....no matter what.
You already have peace and love flourishing in you..DON'T LET ANY ONE STEAL IT FROM YOU! YOU are BETTER than your sorrows, you have come of victorious.

Her words nor thinking or speaking pattern DOES NOT in any way represent the speaking or thinking pattern of ALL Mamas heree....NEVER! We have some very sweet souls here, believe me evEn though its a faceless forum. it would be unfair for you to label us ALL the same .
Please forgive her.....
Don't let this single incident make you deny us of your sincere advises and experience you used to share here.
But after all said and done, the final decision lies with you.
Sorry once again! !!


P.s. ...I read your story and I can relate cos I was raised by a single mum. I am proud to say it anywhere. I had a very violent and immoral father. As young as I was, those memories of him hitting my mum is still there. My mum finally took courage to walk out of that dead trap called marriage. This came after several talks of Doctors treating her of bruises and STDs . I wished she had walked out earlier so we do not even get the see the physical abuse apart cos those memories keep hunting. I HATE MEN THAT PUT THEIR HANDS IN THEIR WIVES .....AND I WILL WALK OUT OF MY MARRIAGE WHEN THAT BEGINS TO HAPPEN! NO bargaining on that....My husband knows..
So I can't mud sling any woman who bravely takes a walk from a useless marriage. You are among such FEW ones abeg.

Wonderful morning mamas! Pls lets all move on, no need to continue throwing blames and accusations, i believe we have all learnt our lessons, when mamas here dont ans ur question no need to post threats, or get angry, ther are so many forums google can direct you to when asked, also lets correct one anoder with love to avoid steering up emotions. Lets all continue to keep this threat peaceful, loving, helpful and alive. I dont think any mama here mean bad or evil for oda fellow mamas. Lets continue to share our joys and burdens with one another, am sure some people benefit from our stories and also gain wealth of experience from them. Its a brand new day! Lets enjoy it to the fullest. Wonderful day my people!