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I have always been a good guy that never contemplated having a side chick or breaking a girl's heart. I believe strongly in having a lover at a time. But of recent, something like temptation or whatever is shaking my belief.

I saw a pretty girl that really caught my attention. I did my research and realized I have what it takes to have her but I never went close to her. The following day, my fiancee that lives in a far away city called me and said "it is over between us". She said she felt I don't love her. A day before that call, she had been all over me on phone.

I felt bad, because I know I still love her, but here is a strange felling about a girl i just saw, not met. 5 hours after that call, she called back and said she can't afford losing me, and apologised.

Should I follow my heart and pursue the new girl? Remember money now dey, unlike those days I was a broke ass.s nigga. Is it my new status that changed my thinking or what? Or is it the nature of men to be polygamous?

If u've not had this kinda temptation b4, then u've been a boy not a man. Now u're facing a typical masculine challenge.

But nawa o, u and ya fiancee dey distant relationship and una dey fight, how e go be when una dey near? If she threaten to leave u, then she get anoda mountain be dat o, for this season weh husband scarce?

Abeg follow person weh go give u peace of mind (whether d new catch or someone else). But are u sure d new catch is not d reason why u're fighting ur fiancee?

Go with the new one...


Because if u really love ur fiancee u will reach out and talk to her like a real man...but u didn't...so let her go and let her find someone who really value her and love her unconditionally...

KashyBaby:
Go with the new one...


Because if u really love ur fiancee u will reach out and talk to her like a real man...but u didn't...so let her go and let her find someone who really value her and love her unconditionally...

. . . Chai! See advice of a fellow female! . . . . Okay you are from Singapore?! I now understand!!

modelmike7:
. . . Chain! See advice if a fellow female!

say what?

KashyBaby:
say what?

. . . Say cool ! I respect your advice to him!!!!!! I realy do!!!!!!!! Nice day sis.

RadicallyBlunt:
If u've not had this kinda temptation b4, then u've been a boy not a man. Now u're facing a typical masculine challenge.

But nawa o, u and ya fiancee dey distant relationship and una dey fight, how e go be when una dey near? If she threaten to leave u, then she get anoda mountain be dat o, for this season weh husband scarce?

Abeg follow person weh go give u peace of mind. But are u sure she's not d reason why u're fighting ur fiancee?

Being in a distant relationship doesn't mean they wont fight or she is cheating.
He didn't complain of not having peace of mind and what's the assurance he's going to get peace of mind from someone he just saw?

Its cos ur bae is nt close to u, that's why seeing a pretty girl matters to u, if she was close to u does won't matter.

Or cos u hav being spending too much time tinking about it, cheating is nt sometin that just happen, u hav being nursing it in ur mind before nw, without u knwing .

KashyBaby:
Go with the new one...


Because if u really love ur fiancee u will reach out and talk to her like a real man...but u didn't...so let her go and let her find someone who really value her and love her unconditionally...

When she called and said "it is over between us " without any previous beef, I was like, so I am now an Ifa that knows a girl is about to leave. That was why I didn't talk to her when she left, but she apologized 5 hours later.

Op, you're just carried away by looks. Maybe this new chic is prettier than your fiancee. I bet a part of you was happy when she broke up with you at first...
My advice leave her, go for the new chic, when your heart gets smashed, you'll pack the pieces.
You have all it takes to get her isn't it? You managed what you had when you were hustling oh, now money has come you're seeing fine girls. Men!!!

layla129:
Being in a distant relationship doesn't mean they wont fight or she is cheating.
He didn't complain of not having peace of mind and what's the assurance he's going to get peace of mind from someone he just saw?

Threatening to quit a relationship no matter the quarrel is not right at all. And there's always 70% possibility the fault comes from the threat source.

One can be emotionally tied to a person who causes u trouble..its part of the complications

But on whether he'll find peace of mind in d new one, well I can't guarantee that too sha bcus he said he just saw her, not met her so definitely he doesn't know her b4.

frubben:
Its cos ur bae is nt close to u, that's why seeing a pretty girl matters to u, if she was close to u does won't matter.

Or cos u hav being spending too much time tinking about it, cheating is nt sometin that just happen, u hav being nursing it in ur mind before nw, without u knwing .

Living in the same house and working at the same place doesnt mean that the karishika wont tempt you.

Blastfinito:
When she called and said "it is over between us " without any previous beef, I was like, so I am now an Ifa that knows a girl is about to leave. That was why I didn't talk to her when she left, but she apologized 5 hours later.

U let her feel that ur relationship with her is going nowhere... u made her insecure ,u let her feel that the love is isn't there anymore...but instead to reach out with her, u never bothered to call back or at least tried to settle it simply bcoz ur eying for someone who is new to ur taste & not to mention u have a money to rain on her....



The decision is urz.

Blastfinito:
When she called and said "it is over between us " without any previous beef, I was like, so I am now an Ifa that knows a girl is about to leave. That was why I didn't talk to her when she left, but she apologized 5 hours later.

an unstable girl is worse than a promiscuous one

promiscuity can change more likely than mental instability... its an almost incurable and relationship/marriage-damagin ailment

ur mind will Neva be at rest..even on ur wedding day