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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by arent88(m): 1:35pm On Apr 23, 2016

Eveezy:
Are those eyes real? cos if dey are, den damn! babe u gorgeous

u must have met alot of ugly people in ur life.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Lakulos(m): 1:39pm On Apr 23, 2016

Sorry bro, you are still a boy, with this your level of reasoning. You are not even faithful to her yet you expect her to be perfect. Shame on you.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Obason22(m): 1:41pm On Apr 23, 2016

Stand by ur promise, she jst grow to her age and i beleive wit time she wil come bk to her normal body, and let me remind u. Dont let her figure out ur feeling towards her present nature.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by B2mario(m): 1:43pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Your sperm is too strong. Infact give me her number and forget about her

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by IamLEGEND1: 1:47pm On Apr 23, 2016

mizzkweenbee:
Some peeps be talking without even bothering to read d gist, dude his heart wants her, her weight is the problem here. And u dnt av to insult the girl, jeez u dnt even know her. Frustrated peeps everywhere

obviously his undiluted affections & support/advice isn't enough to motivate her to shed the unhealthy weight.so the next logical step is to bolt.... logic always Trump's emotion.

And where did u see me insult her? she's fat & so i called her ass 'overinflated'....from where I come from,it's called the 'truth'....

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Absoj(m): 1:48pm On Apr 23, 2016

Love comes in different shapes and sizes. love goes beyond size.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Eljefe(m): 1:49pm On Apr 23, 2016

Since u claim to love her, and u see urself spending ur life with her, her weight shouldn't be too much of an issue...instead of ditching her, help her lose d weight...go to d gym, help her watch what she eats and do some research on drugs that can help her....

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Eveezy(m): 1:51pm On Apr 23, 2016

layla129:
I wish they are contacts

awwn, u still gorgeous anyways, those contacts suits u

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by fortunechy(m): 1:58pm On Apr 23, 2016

u nid a brain format dude.........wt a rubbish post.mcheeeew!!!!!!

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 1:58pm On Apr 23, 2016

Captain001:
You can't just dabble into the conclusion that he only loves her physical body. Love alone is not enough in marriage ; there has to be qualities you know you can live with, and when you spot those you know you can't cope with better opt out as a broken heart is better than a broken home. So you want him to marry and abandon his plus size wife at home and go out to fornicate with so called "curvy" ones? Courtship is there for you to identify whether you can or cannot live with each other.

That is why sex is dangerous in a relationship before marriage. If there hadn't been sex, parting ways wouldn't be mountain task as no one will feel used and dumped.
Though I am not advocating that he leaves her being that she's well mannered. I don't like plus sizes as well, but I'd rather marry an orobo that will give me peace for the rest of my days than Agbani that'll cook high BP for me daily.

first things first i didn't dab to a conclusion i said things how he presented it..lets be realistic her u liked a girl dated her for 4 years,promised her marriage then she recently started gaining more weight and you wanna call it quits because she developed more weigth but aside that she has everything u want in a lady ok so if u are asked you reason for dumping what will be the excuse?? It will be because she is fat then what chased u if not her body thats means her former figure made u date her...u just contradicted ur self read in between the lines and you will get a better comprehension.thank you.

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Ghostofsparta1(m): 2:10pm On Apr 23, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
address me with respect!!

what's your address? Ghostofsparta is coming for you

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by smartn09(m): 2:11pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

It is simple, the moment she stop taking prevention pills , she will return to her angelic size fuuuuulllll stoooooooop.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by spafu(m): 2:12pm On Apr 23, 2016

I need to see her Picture so as to know how I may help with my advise.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by prinzfavian(m): 2:16pm On Apr 23, 2016

Oh Dear, I thought Love ( same one u profess to have for her deeply) cover all things. So because she is loosing her curves now ure also loosing interest in marrying her. That says exactly how deep ur love is for her, do u know if her body shape is hereditary? Which means there is nothing she can do about it. And why focus more on her outward looks when uve a whole lot more to gain by focusing on who she is. Just yesterday 80% ladies NL said they would rather settle down with a ballon-like pot-bellied guy with 900million usd over a 900 usd with 6-packs guy. So what's ur point, abeg ur just being covetous and greedy. So, u wnt to leave her now that uve deflowered ba? Is nur fair o.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Rexhenrex(m): 2:20pm On Apr 23, 2016

Yes indeed its among but should it be the major determinant to glue a relationship? Because it stands its the only thats making him wanna call the whole thing off if am not mistaken

Ontarget:
O boy forget this thing you are saying. Physical appearance (body) is also part of what attracts people to each other. So nothing like saying he is after her body.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 23, 2016

la ayee ta wa yi. 2016 to be precise, some people still dey chop anyhow, dey fat anyhow...

Na wa o

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by kingsamosy(m): 2:25pm On Apr 23, 2016

This op needs brain configuration. Will her curvy body make a good wife or that inner beauty you saw in her before before you reserved her for matrimony?

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Lilphillips(m): 2:32pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

Guy if you know that within yourself that you'll be ready to get married in the next 1 & half year, all you have to do is don't give up hope. Since you've seen it in her eyes that she's not even happy with her body size. Then, thats where the love and man in you comes alive, activate the man and love in you. Work with her, in assuring that she becomes the kinda woman you need/want. No one is an Island, even you yourself have your own ugly side.
So show her that unconditional love. Things to put in check are: the kinda food she eats, drinks she take, the time she takes her meal, daily exercise and stomach exercise, road walk and also when you make love to her don't ejaculate inside her body, cos those fluid is so proteinous to make her grow more fat.
Think about the reason why you stick with her all these years, it shouldn't be now that she needs you most that you'll start giving her excuses. Think like a Man

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by nike4love: 2:34pm On Apr 23, 2016

You re complaining of her weight forgetting that wrinkles,white hair and old age will still tag along. smh you re not serious!!!

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by iwadobo: 2:40pm On Apr 23, 2016

Donpizzle:
da FCK with ur post.....dude u ain't communicating.

Your sound proud. Who are you to ditch a girl wI think all the attributes u just described plus she is Dr to be. That she is studying meds shows that she is from a well to do family

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by nairaman66(m): 2:40pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

You really want to let this girl go? Like seriously?? As in like you really want to let her go??

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by amazndee: 2:41pm On Apr 23, 2016

u obviously don't love her enough, am sure there's someone out there who'll appreciate her. Just let her go and don't add to the number of sad and frustrated wives that don't feel good enough for their men.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Obiwiz(m): 2:43pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Hey guys! I'll keep it snappy here.

There is this girl in my life, she will be 21 this coming October and she loves me a lot. In fact, she is my chosen one among my girlfriends.

I was the guy that deflowered her. I have dated her 4 years now. When we started, she was so pretty, radiant and elegant, all these qualities laced with good manners - despite her beauty, great intelligence and culinary skills. Considering all this qualities, I decided to promise her marriage for I truly love her; knowing full well that her type is rare. After the promise of marriage, I realized that our love for each other grew a step further.

Furthermore, before now; she was my exclusive reserve for matrimony(marriage), such that I don't see any succedaneum(substitute) to her - even though I do date several other ladies - but I have no meaningful plan for them except this gal.

Unfortunately, this my gal has decide to let loose her body, she doesn't watch over her weight, such that she is no longer as curvy, elegant and 8-figured as she used to be, though she is tall - a few inches or 2 inches to 6ft. In fact, she is now as fat as whatever description you may be cogitating within your mind. That fatness is gradually eating up her killer curves, I have sat her down severally to talk through this issue severally; I reminded her that as a medical student(4LV med.& surg.), she should be in a better position to know any means possible to apply in order to loose weight. She insisted that she has been trying her best to shed down but to no avail, and was even crying.

Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.

You just need to grow. I mean, mentally. Her shape isn't the problem, ur mental age is. And, lastly, it's not cool for you to start telling a 21yr-old 400 level MBBS female about marriage stories, just let her concentrate fully for now. Are you a doctor or medical student? Oh no. A doctor won't reason dis way. Are you a medical student?

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by JoBabs(m): 2:46pm On Apr 23, 2016

Eveezy:
Are those eyes real? cos if dey are, den damn! babe u gorgeous

U go fear contact lens....

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by tridavid22(f): 2:54pm On Apr 23, 2016

obiorathesubtle:
ditch her... Else, I'll make you disappear, and if any member of your family so much as lifts a finger.. They'll all disappear one by one..

LMAO...WTF are you trying to say bro.

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Dollipsejay(m): 2:55pm On Apr 23, 2016

Tell me sayyou no come for the body ooooo. you went for the
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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(op): 2:57pm On Apr 23, 2016

Lakulos:
Sorry bro, you are still a boy, with this your level of reasoning. You are not even faithful to her yet you expect her to be perfect. Shame on you.

Get outa here! You yourself, can u marry OROBO?

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by REDDEVILS1(m): 2:59pm On Apr 23, 2016

Rexhenrex:
am sorry but it seems you replaced your brain with beef shawamar..

because with this you just posted it can be deduced that you are after her body, if not her physical appearance won't stop you in as much as it quite matters it shouldn't be the reason you won't marry her na...u ma check am na bro. as long as she has manners, and brains I will say stick with her...you both can go for road works together and hit the gym it would help that am sure of...

#don't let her slip away from you...you never know the value of what you have till u loose it!

he has said it all. Stick to her

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 23, 2016

Toddlers just full nairaland.

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by Davindal(op): 3:03pm On Apr 23, 2016

Obiwiz:
You just need to grow. I mean, mentally. Her shape isn't the problem, ur mental age is. And, lastly, it's not cool for you to start telling a 21yr-old 400 level MBBS female about marriage stories, just let her concentrate fully for now. Are you a doctor or medical student? Oh no. A doctor won't reason dis way. Are you a medical student?

If you don't know what to say, why not ignore this post and gerarahere. Why did you chose to gape your vocal cavity to vituperate absolute gibberish in written form, all in claims of providing advice, that is better cosigned to the waste bin? You yourself...can you marry a very fat person? If not, you better disappear here. What has being a medical student got to do with this post that expects a better advice than this poo you posted here?

Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 3:09pm On Apr 23, 2016

Davindal:
Did you say that I'm after her body? If you were in my shoes, would you go into marriage with somebody having the prospects and potentials of becoming the next YOKOZINA, particularly when she gives birth to baby? If you don't know what to comment...you had better keep mute.

still wondering Y she was silly enough to dash U her virginity. believe me U don't deserve it.

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Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by OLUJOSHINS(m): 3:13pm On Apr 23, 2016

halfricanadian:
No you cant

bae, I'm not his type U hear. Just give me a chance to show U that good men still exist

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