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Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Mikeshine(m): 4:25am On Jan 17, 2017 |
We ve been dating for some months now and we are working in the same office but she's not ready to move to the next stage because we are both working in the same office despite the fact our office rules and regulations is not against marrying a colleague. Please house what should I do and how can I convince her that there is nothing to be worried about. Thanks |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Nobody: 4:42am On Jan 17, 2017 |
Mikeshine:What do you mean by next stage? 21 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by buchai: 5:03am On Jan 17, 2017 |
there is nothing wrong in that it calls for better understanding but the person in question might reluctant to agreed because she knows how much you earn as a salary maybe she has weighed your salary into the family hood and feels reluctant to agree. 25 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Mikeshine(m): 4:23pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Marriage. |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by dyangprof(m): 5:50pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
its not ethicaly ok. tho, in som firms, once such hapend, a party wul b transfer. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by nextstep(m): 6:01pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Don't do it. You already stepped into frying pan by dating a colleague. Now you want to entire fire and marry. Otherwise, you will never be at peace... supervised at home and at work by the same person. Seems she understands this much more than you. One of you must transfer out, and I think that someborry is you. 42 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by STFUand4kMeHARD(m): 6:01pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Dontripsy(m): 6:02pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
i can date a colleague, but i will prefer not to work in the same office with my wife my opinion tho. 6 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by dee02(m): 6:02pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Nothing bad, not for me! |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by remainhidden: 6:02pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
You have been dating for some months now that iz good.. How do you want to convince her , that iz good.. I think I have just answered your question.. Coz a matured man who really want to settle down cannot be uttering this kind of question.. No bashing..sometimes I just feel like giving you e slap Just imagine the lady reading this |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by admax(m): 6:02pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Nateben(m): 6:02pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Make we see her first!! 13 Likes
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Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Afam4eva(m): 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Mikeshine:It's very simple. Since you guys want to get married, one of you should resign from the office. But if the job is too important to you guys then i don't know why you're asking us for an advise. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Martinola(m): 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Depends on you two |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Silentscreamer(f): 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Well i dont see anything wrong in it. I'll personally love it, i'll be able to keep an eye on him since men love to cheat. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by gurunlocker: 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Oh boy! Since 2009, 2 posts only... 5 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by admax(m): 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Nothing Is wrong at all but what happens if the company faces distress and have to lay off their workers? Smh. ..you don't even know how women thinks. She prolly knows your salary too. She only needed to have someone is dating but marriage with you is a no no for her. |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by akandry: 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
It's a no no for me |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by transient123(m): 6:03pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Why start what doesn't have an end. If you were brother, I for slap you like goat. Were you dating her for sex or what? Answer me now before I descend heavily on you now. Nonsense! |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Adicsonbaba(m): 6:04pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
just here to read comments |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Debaddest(m): 6:04pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Nateben: Lol.... Bad gang Back to the matter, there's nothing wrong with it. My mum and my dad are working in the same place |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by YesNo(m): 6:04pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
No need to force a horse to drink water. if she ain't ready, wait for her or move on. check your options. you're the one wearing the shoe. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Humulity: 6:05pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
When I joined my work place my immediate boss and her spouse were working in same organization. If your office permits that, nothing wrong with that. Just play the man you are, she is a lady, you are supposed to make her do your bidding (wooing) so far she loves you. If she truly loves you have no reason not to make you marry him. Good luck. |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by UnknownT: 6:05pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Do well and know what the company policy is concerning marriage among colleagues. Some companies after the marriage, force one of the couples to resign. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Stranger101: 6:06pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
You guys need passive income. . Check my signature |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
oh my gosh!!! it is better you marry her and pray that the management should transfer you to another branch if the company has branch or the wife should resign to be a full house wife. |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Everything bad. Work place romance is a capital NO for me. FFS, how large is the office? Is it a large company or a small office only occupying a single floor? If it's a large company, horizontal job migration is an option for either of you guys. By the way, but she's not ready to move to the next stage because we are both working in the same office despite the fact our office rules and regulations is not against marrying a colleague.this right here is a red herring. Be very careful, don't be among the m0rons who say "love is blind" or else you would blindly loose both her and your job while she keeps her head up. Fear such women, they are known to be smart but selfish and would lead you to a cul de sac. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by wolesmile(m): 6:07pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
The disadvantages far outweighs the advantages. Some organisations even frown at it and will have to ask one of them to resign. In the civil service, their transfer to different places is immediately effected. Let me give you a first hand experience. You can have flings in your office. No serious dates, not to talk of marriage. A word is enough... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by obataokenwa(m): 6:07pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
no |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by dfrost: 6:09pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Nothing bad. Like someone said, confirm your office policies wrt marriage within. |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by YesNo(m): 6:09pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Silentscreamer: very true.. men LOVE to cheat women can never do such a thing and if women ever cheat, it is usually the fault of the man or the devil. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is There Anything Bad In Marrying A Lady From Same Office? by Lighthouseman: 6:10pm On Jan 17, 2017 |
Most times it does not work. I dated a colleague of mine only recently, but due to family pressure, I had to succumb... I told her we couldn't continue... Now to greet me na war! Another disadvantage is colleagues mounting pressure and others making jest of you two... Till you don't know who shows genuine concern. Another is seeing same person everyday whether you breakup or just want a break... Finally, it's quite regrettable 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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