A girl met me with the following. i think i'm the wrongest person to give her good advise cos me no send any rule. If you fit answer, she go hear. no abuse anybody for here oh.

Q - in my work place, dating of colleagues is not allowed. In fact many have been sacked or made to resign because of it. The last couple both resigned once their wedding IV came out.

I know the rules and so does my colleague but he is in love with me. i have ignored him for a year now but this guy is the real deal. we have gone out twice this year and I noticed i have peace when i am around him but i love my job.

i earn higher than him, have responsibilities and so cant quit. I was jobless for two years before God answered my prayers, so i m taking a risk by dating him because i cannot give up this job. He wants to marry me but said he cant quit either for the same reasons.

We don't know what to do

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Michaeluzomam:
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too early for weed

One of them should sacrifice the job for the acclaimed "LOVE". . Shebi na love nah !

Let's hear what Ifa has to say.

something must give way....sacrifices must b made.

Ifa says u should leave ur job and start to eat love.

I don't think it is a wise decision

Deduce from the write up, is quite evident that you love your job more than the young man. Is normal if you don't feel like crossing the boundary, just take your time and discover what you really want. As for me, I don't think you love him cause if you do, you won't seek for advice on whether to marry him or not.

since you earn higher than him the guy should quite or forget the relationships

gals just don't av sense, d guy sed he can't leave d job to marry u, so y d fvck do u want to do dat? Both of u don't even av sense.

As long as it's certain it will lead to marriage. ..They can discuss it to kw who quits.

But wait oh, what kinda witchcraft company is that. won't allow marriage too??

Hmmm, lemme see if i can try



like one nigga above me said...one of you should give the job up for the love,,,,


OR


You guys should continue dating and one of you should be looking for job else where, preferably the guy since the lady is earning higher...when he sees another job somewhere, then the both of you can marry

dnt even try it...

Thank u my peeps. she has heard all the advice. that company na witchcraft sha . I think both of them should quit. i no fit dey office with fine girls and i no go chop...for wat naah! i go fire myself

pray about it

she needs to determine which is more important to her, work, or a home she can get back to after work.

better she dates him a while longer to know if she wants to spend the rest of her life with him.

if she does, then let her drop her resignation letter as soon as her wedding invite is out.

unless she proposes delaying pregnancy I think she should start think of setting up her own business.

she needs to iron out the issue of finances with her fiance before they even start wedding preparations.

They should start dating other people...