₦airaland Forum

cold:
Sigh..even god could not hold his own kingdom together. What say you now?

scully95:
You have a strong point there which I will slightly disagree with you. Tiwa in this case should wait till what the court says instead of acting like the husband here. if we were to go by your western court. Even in most cases, the west usually look into what's going on in the house.

Now western court will most likely give the child to Tiwa according to the west (Particularly the U.S here where everything is about money, the rest don't count because it's their culture.. A capitalist enviroment where 1% super rich control the rest 90%. A very unjust system and far from being a perfect system.

Now the court wont look into realities and how the Child's life could be affected here. Tiwa is a Busy Woman to the call. Mostly may not even have time for the Child. preffer to save her job and move on. I tell you, there are loads of scandals waiting ahead for the same tiwa. A growing child does not need such enviroment where the mother lives as a single mother.

I would pretty much also support the child staying with tiwa if she could get married as soon as possible but trust me, reality is far from that. The post is about the Child here. The future of the Child. What enviroment is ok for the child mind you, its not by money all the time. This is why i will always back the Yoruba Customs.





Are you talking about T Balogun's other 3 kids in U.S.. That is U.S not Nigeria please.. WHich is even worse here, T Balogun will be paying allimoney on the three kids, in most cases paying the baby mama that is if he returns to U.S or to the kids.

WHat are you even talking about. In Ireland, it has even turn to Business. Woman there have abused the law to the extent that, if you use condom for them, they will carry your sperm and pour it back into their hole. Why because they want to turn you to their ATM machine..
That one cannot work in Nigeria oh.

And by the way, I can bet that there are people pushing Tiwa to commit this suicide. Tiwa wants to tell me it's the first time she caught him messing arround ? He's also aware of Tiwa's s3xing anything that stands so what's the big deal ? .. So what is the point..

In this case, the two can easily solve the problem between themselves. But those Pushing tiwa, pushed her to sack him so he wont be arround while they are Fcking here left right.. This alone is enough to make his head blow.

You now have a traumatized, jobeless baby seater, father even cooking for the family here to showing some care back in the day.

And he's not Jobless, his job needs that he goes to Club almost every night, meet with new singers or upcoming artists to sign or get a managering job since wife sacked him. Go to places where celebrities go so he can get contract.

I am not backing both parties fcking around like dogs. My own is the Child. I support the notion that what Tiwa said about the Child is wrong. Very wrong.

BabaO2:
why woman woman woman...? you are a dog, no problem, kotunui ...

ourchoice:
If not for money and material need, majority of Nigerian women won't marry any man! #FACT

If TeeBillz had money, Tiwa wouldn't have disgraced him the way she did...2face Idibia, Danjuma, Late MKO Abiola, Late Abacha, Shino Peters, etc are more irresponsible than Teebillz but still, their wives and concubines who are prettier and hotter than Tiwa Savage times 2 condone them and even defend their cheating and irresponsible lifestyles!

If you are a guy or man reading this, please listen up: you are dead to women if you don't have money as a man...but you are the most loving, caring and faithful man to women so long as you have the money!

Women are smarter than men of today, too bad....women screen men based on how much they have but men screen women based on inconsequential physical beauty that fades the moment u get the woman to be yours.

It's high time Nigerian men wake up and start dating and marrying women based on how much they (women) have too....divorce her if she looses her job! divorce her if she fails to contribute to the family upkeep! Don't marry her if she doesn't have a good job, not from a rich family and not earning big income! Nigerian men wake up! Nigerian ladies are taking u Nigerian men for a fool!

A Nigerian guy will be rich and go marry one broke girl and turn her life and that of her family around for good....but no rich Nigerian lady agrees to date or marry an average-income Nigerian guy....and if she dares, she must be too old and ugly! and must be controlling the poor guy's life like a remote controlled CCTV camera!

Guys wake up!

Ini Edo only divorced her husband because things became bad for him financially and he started depending on Ini Edo for money...the same thing is happening now between Tiwa and TeeBilllz, why? because Nigerian women are only after money and once the man can't dish out the money like before, he's dead and gone!

If Omotola's husband was broke, Omotola would have divorced him long time ago...same with Stephanie Okereke, etc...to these women, it's all about the money!

Davido was right: life to Nigerian women is all about the money and nothing else!

Have u guys ever wondered why Linda Ikeji, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, Funke Akindele, etc are all single It's simply because they are waiting for Dangote son or some billionaire to marry them and squander more money on them!

They don't want to settle down with an average-income earner or ordinary millionaire guy, they want billionaires, shame on Nigerian women and their mad love for money!!

Nigerian guys wake up too! Don't date or marry a broke girl again! If your wife was working and looses her job, pls divorce her asap and marry a richer lady, simple!!!

Let's all join the women and play the game too!

scully95:
Written by Grandson Soyemi.

Tiwa Salvage says she will always allow her estranged husband to have access to their son. As a Yoruba woman, she is totally in the wrong here. This is more so because the Yoruba people have three phases of marriage: the Introduction, the Engagement and the Registry, Church or Mosque Ceremony.

The most significant of the three stages is the engagement proper which is often conducted under the Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act.
The Act states that the children of the union between a husband and a wife belong to the father and if the father dies, the children belong to his immediate family. Tiwa's husband has all the rights over their child, according to the Yoruba culture and tradition, which are laws in Yorubaland.

However, this tradition is not the same as those of the White in America or the English from the United Kingdom, where more often than not it is the wife who has the custody of the children. In Yorubaland, it is the father who has the custody. Tiwa, therefore has no right whatsoever over the child of her union with the husband. She is in Lagos, Yorubaland and not in New York or London.
I have done this post to educate the gullible Yoruba Youth who may have watched Tiwa's video. On reflection, I am, however disturbed on the mores and mishaps that increasingly afflict love and marriage among young Yorubas.

Our society expects us all to get married. With only rare exceptions, we all do just that. Getting married is a rather complicated business. It involves mastering certain complex hustling and courtship games, the rituals and the ceremonies that celebrate the act of marriage, and finally the difficult requirements of domestic life with a husband or wife. It is an enormously elaborate round of activities, much more so than finding a job, and yet while many resolutely remain unemployed, few remain unmarried.

Now all this would not be particularly remarkable if there were no question about the advantages, the joys, and the rewards of married life, but most Yoruba, even young Yoruba, know or have heard that marriage is a hazardous affair.
Of course, for all the increase in divorce, there are still young marriages that work, unions made by young men and women intelligent or fortunate enough to find the kind of mates they want, who know that they want children and how to love them when they come, or who find the artful blend between giving and receiving.

It is not these marriages that concern us here, and that is not the trend in Yoruba today. We are concerned with the increasing number of others who, with mixed intentions and varied illusions, grope or fling themselves into marital disaster. They talk solemnly and sincerely about working to make their marriage succeed, but they are very aware of the countless marriages they have seen fail.
But young people in particular do not seem to be able to relate the awesome divorce statistics to the probability of failure of their own marriage. And they rush into it, in increasing numbers, without any clear idea of the reality that underlies the myth.
I can only hope Tiwa and her husband find the grace to work things out on their own.

adeaks:
I have never heard of a Yoruba Customary Marriage Act before. Which of the Yoruba states passed the act into law? Who signed it?

In any case, Tiwa and Tbillz were married under the Marriage Act and she has filed for divorce accordingly. The divorce proceedings will be done according to the Marriage Act and not any phantom Yoruba Cust. Marr. Act.

The only thing I am wondering is; since Tbillz is the party who is jobless and earns less, will he ask the court to award him maintenance from Tiwa Savage?

ourchoice:
If not for money and material need, majority of Nigerian women won't marry any man! #FACT

If TeeBillz had money, Tiwa wouldn't have disgraced him the way she did...2face Idibia, Danjuma, Late MKO Abiola, Late Abacha, Shino Peters, etc are more irresponsible than Teebillz but still, their wives and concubines who are prettier and hotter than Tiwa Savage times 2 condone them and even defend their cheating and irresponsible lifestyles!

If you are a guy or man reading this, please listen up: you are dead to women if you don't have money as a man...but you are the most loving, caring and faithful man to women so long as you have the money!

Women are smarter than men of today, too bad....women screen men based on how much they have but men screen women based on inconsequential physical beauty that fades the moment u get the woman to be yours.

It's high time Nigerian men wake up and start dating and marrying women based on how much they (women) have too....divorce her if she looses her job! divorce her if she fails to contribute to the family upkeep! Don't marry her if she doesn't have a good job, not from a rich family and not earning big income! Nigerian men wake up! Nigerian ladies are taking u Nigerian men for a fool!

A Nigerian guy will be rich and go marry one broke girl and turn her life and that of her family around for good....but no rich Nigerian lady agrees to date or marry an average-income Nigerian guy....and if she dares, she must be too old and ugly! and must be controlling the poor guy's life like a remote controlled CCTV camera!

Guys wake up!

Ini Edo only divorced her husband because things became bad for him financially and he started depending on Ini Edo for money...the same thing is happening now between Tiwa and TeeBilllz, why? because Nigerian women are only after money and once the man can't dish out the money like before, he's dead and gone!

If Omotola's husband was broke, Omotola would have divorced him long time ago...same with Stephanie Okereke, etc...to these women, it's all about the money!

Davido was right: life to Nigerian women is all about the money and nothing else!

Have u guys ever wondered why Linda Ikeji, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, Funke Akindele, etc are all single It's simply because they are waiting for Dangote son or some billionaire to marry them and squander more money on them!

They don't want to settle down with an average-income earner or ordinary millionaire guy, they want billionaires, shame on Nigerian women and their mad love for money!!

Nigerian guys wake up too! Don't date or marry a broke girl again! If your wife was working and looses her job, pls divorce her asap and marry a richer lady, simple!!!

Let's all join the women and play the game too!

Bookiemart01:
MUMU POST of the year

EgunMogaji:
Very well written.

But be still and ready for the feminists and the feminist apologist to try to brow beat you down though.

RichYoungNigger:
[color=#990000]Tiwa is a cheerful and joyful giver.

I heard she has a problem with her neck, that's why she doesn't say "NO" to

I call her[b] Donatus, Obum-n'eke, Givinus[[/b]/color]

scully95:
The chances are TeeBillz will have his parent take good care of the child which is the best thing to do here or if he gets married on time to another woman.

scully95:
I am very sure why the helders decided this is because kids learn faster from their mother and it's the reason they say mother's tongue.

scully95:
For that reason i think kids will learn faster to be a prostitute living with mother than living with father.

BitterTruthUass:
I am not obliged to explain in detail hence truncated. TeeBills have everything to lose with regards to legal access to the child in a developed society.

95 percent Nigerians here are lay minded so you have to speak the language when you find yourself in Rome. I can broaden your mind wider in terms of child custody in civilized societies more than anyone else so feel free to consult me for a fee .

delishpot:
Yes. The custom of enslavement. Later you guys come here to wonder why our mothers and foremothers never left their abusive and sad marriages. This is the reason why. The custom made sure to tie a woman down to a man one way or the other.man.
If she left the child as custom wants to force her to do, it's still those same hypocrites that will say she abandoned her baby and left the marriage. If she wants to carry her baby and leave those same people will say according to custom she should leave baby with the man. How then can a woman escape an unhappy and abusive marriage?

RichYoungNigger:
This is 2016 not 1867.

Wake up you drunk gay fish

scully95:
Who is talking about bride price here ? The Child belonging to the Father, means it used the rope to tie the wife down to the father right ? If the wife wants to go here, she's also free to go. So what's the point ?

How did that tie the wife down to the Husband ? She can also visit but the father will have full custody of the child (especially when it's one child) and when Child grows up to 18 he or she can decide where to go.


And this is simply because of Ladies generally. Single ladies in Yoruba land are always suspected to be fcking about anyhow or some even turn prostitutes. (Even when they are married they are still fcking abt carelessely, and kids learn very fast from them especially when these kids are not with their fathers or the two living together)

So you expect the kid here to grow up and be like her mother right ? Again this is not London or Uk or even Russia where they have a different culture. This is Yoruba land and the helders must have seen a lot before coming to this conclusion.

If we are to even go by your idealism of slavery, it's catholic here that is doing that. As we speak it's almost impossible to get a divorce and marry again in Catholic church.
What is that ?

haul:
You're trying to put a mental effort but you lack the needed force to power the subject of the matter.

Civilised world? I already know you will comeback with such riposte, you can broaden my mind on child custody? I thought you that already anything you have to say is going to be doctoring what I posited earlier on

DrMuzungu:
Oh God, dash this mumu sense! Anyway, which of his parents, his mother or his father?

DrMuzungu:
What are the helders you are talking about? What are they, erm... helding?

DrMuzungu:
I guess you are judging here based on your own experience, being brought up by your single mother, right? And that brings us to another question... How much do you sell for your diseased yansh on the streets of wherever you live?

BitterTruthUass:
Nah you are among the 95 percent so im not disappointed in your inability, see it as a talent and have a nice day petit cun

scully95:
I was thinking Satan in the Bible gave you a devlish sense. Satan Punish Jesus and devil first and the god of Hebrew 2nd on the line. Ode of the 21st century. It could be his mother or his father or even himself. The facts remains kids learn faster from Mother than father. if there is any bad the Woman has which we will see more people continue to fck her left right. This kid will quickly learn from that and the future here may be uncertain. Only a few cases you have the kid turn out to be very good.

Another ode comment. It happened to your generation and it's the reason you think like omo ale jati jati. Nonentity of the day. You should change your first name to ode, second name to Didinrindara and last name to Satan in the bible.
You asked for it.

oyb:
Perhaps this joker grandson soyemi can tell us why teebillz is not with his other children. What does Yoruba customary law have to say about that?

I read parts of awos memoirs as a child. His dad died when he was young, and the brothers split all the mans possessions. One even wanted to inherit awos mum. All awo got was an old shirt of his dad's.

It's only people who are ultra failures that love to fall back to 'tradition'. Has teebillz been paying support for his other kids?

This joker should shut up. Tradition my arse.

cold:
Sigh..even god could not hold his own kingdom together. What say you now?