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bukatyne:
1. Separate them, asked what went wrong and caution my son not to fight again.

2. Asked what happened. If she is a bully, ask him to stand his ground & fight back if necessary.

At age 7, I doubt kids are conscious of gender differences or equality/inferiority so it is more of 2 kids fighting
Will not teach them to fight, but they MUST be able to stand their ground like I was taught.

For all it's worth, only fought once in my life. Was able to stand my ground in all cases without getting physical.

No, you will not do the bolded.

Bolade005:
No, you will not do the bolded.

Mind reader, carry go

bukatyne:
Mind reader, carry go

Carry go ke?, I'm enjoying the family section.

bukatyne:
1. I agree with you that some women have brought up terrible sons... Some are currently complaining about their husbands yet bringing up their sons to be mini versions of their husbands.

2. Some parents are happy their children are able to stand up to bullies.... Irrespective of gender. I do not know moms happy their sons beat up girls because they are girls.

3. Have only a younger brother who told us proudly that he wanted to be chaste till marriage. We were all brought up that way.

4. My kids will have turns with us doing chores. Tomorrow, it might be daddy & daughters turn. It is also a great way to bond.

5. Son more powerful or son more brilliant because he came tops in class? Bros, who power don't EPP? Is he training to be a wrestler or bricklayer?

6. From birth

Finally!! Nice one sis, you perfectly understand my viewpoints.

bukatyne:
1. Separate them, asked what went wrong and caution my son not to fight again.

2. Asked what happened. If she is a bully, ask him to stand his ground & fight back if necessary.

At age 7, I doubt kids are conscious of gender differences or equality/inferiority so it is more of 2 kids fighting.

Will not teach them to fight, but they MUST be able to stand their ground like I was taught.

For all it's worth, only fought once in my life. Was able to stand my ground in all cases without getting physical.

Great so are you telling him that there are certain instances where its okay to touch a girl? I kind of understand most of your submission. I just want to see what many people would say

Before age 10, girls and boys do mostly the same play and there are many instances they bully themselves. So how does a male child defend himself without beating a girl(bully)

Armyofone ngbo?

Acidosis:
Are you a Nigerian woman?

You've lost contact with realities down here.

There are ladies who sit with their cousins, and big brothers to discuss series of "away matches". We have some of them on Nairaland and they openly show approval to such discussions. In fact, it makes them love their brothers/cousins more.

A lot is happening here, but I wouldn't want to type more since you've clearly addressed all the questions. I'm glad to read your views.

You should talk about ladies who readily give out their friends as fucmate to other guys and keep passing on and on.

I think we guys are lucky that majority of people both men and women especially women do not understand what gender equality means it's a big plus and the misconception keeps growing. Even majority of the women claiming feminist on here don't even know what's been fought for.
Any guy that doesn't see that the kind of equality the women seek favours him more is probably blind. They're just not propagating on the right cause.

Bolade005:
Carry go ke?, I'm enjoying the family section.

Carry go = continue.

Acidosis:
Finally!! Nice one sis, you perfectly understand my viewpoints.

Thanks

raumdeuter:
Great so are you telling him that there are certain instances where its okay to touch a girl? I kind of understand most of your submission. I just want to see what many people would say

Before age 10, girls and boys do mostly the same play and there are many instances they bully themselves. So how does a male child defend himself without beating a girl(bully)

Armyofone ngbo?

@Bold:

Girl na gold?

Any girl that doesn't want to be 'touched' should package herself wella and clear from trouble..

Ain't going to bring up any gentle mumu son (gentle man) and any suegbe daughter.

Gentle as doves & wise as serpents with healthy doses of Self-esteem.

bukatyne:
Carry go = continue.

Lol okay