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. by Omuka(op): 5:34pm On May 05, 2016*

Re: . by donbenedict(m): 5:38pm On May 05, 2016

Cheeei that answer dey pain person eh.. kai...

Wen I told one babe I want her to be my girlfriend chei she play me the I like u as a friend bullshit, omo I end the whole friendship wit her sef... up till now, I dnt talk wit her anymore.. these ladies duno hw hard it takes for a guy to summon up courage to ask dem out..

I just wish to purposely friendzone a girl so she'l knw hw it feels

Re: . by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 05, 2016

With time she will surely develop feelings for you. You can't expect her to give you an answer now....

*cheer up

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Re: . by mhizeva(f): 5:41pm On May 05, 2016

What do you want? Are you happy being Just a friend? If you want to be her friend then continue things as they are. If you want more then I think you will have to sever the friendship so you can find someone who wants to be with you as a friend and a lover. She does not want you. She has made that clear. If it is tearing you up then you have to make that choice. Either you sit there and wish she liked you and think she will change her mind ( she probably won't ) or you find someone new. Don't beat yourself up over it. She just doesn't have the same feelings for you are you have for her. She should be able to understand if you can't be her friend. If she liked you and you didn't feel the same would she want to just be your friend. I doubt it.

Re: . by mhizeva(f): 5:42pm On May 05, 2016

I was completely in love with a girl for a VERY long time. She thought of me as 'a brother' or 'only friends'. I waited 11 years for this to change. Everytime she broke up with a boyfriend i'd think, wow maybe this is my chance. And she would flirt with me and all that. Truth is man, its either ment to be or it isnt. Dont make the same mistake as me. There are plenty of other women out there who are just as fantastic as this one. Sure you might not be as crazy in love with them as your 'first' , but you will gain 100 fold by them actually reciprocating your feelings.

My advice, distance yourself from this girl until you get yourself a girlfriend. The funny thing is, if you get a girlfriend that is possibly the only way she will change her feelings for you. We all want what we cant have. This is when you tell her to go F' herself and go happily to your new girls house for some satiated revenge lov'n.

Re: . by mhizeva(f): 5:44pm On May 05, 2016

But if you dont want to leave this girl and you want her to fall in love with you by all means then read this

http://www.wikihow.com/Make-a-Female-Friend-Love-You

Re: . by Omuka(op): 5:51pm On May 05, 2016

mhizeva:
I was completely in love with a girl for a VERY long time. She thought of me as 'a brother' or 'only friends'. I waited 11 years for this to change. Everytime she broke up with a boyfriend i'd think, wow maybe this is my chance. And she would flirt with me and all that. Truth is man, its either ment to be or it isnt. Dont make the same mistake as me. There are plenty of other women out there who are just as fantastic as this one. Sure you might not be as crazy in love with them as your 'first' , but you will gain 100 fold by them actually reciprocating your feelings.

My advice, distance yourself from this girl until you get yourself a girlfriend. The funny thing is, if you get a girlfriend that is possibly the only way she will change her feelings for you. We all want what we cant have. This is when you tell her to go F' herself and go happily to your new girls house for some satiated revenge lov'n.

hmm since then i changed my mood towards her, i stopped chatting with er on whatsapp. Just lastweek she messaged me that i have forgotten her. That message she sent to me gave hope again to reconsider approaching her again. But i don't know how to go about it.

Re: . by mhizeva(f): 6:03pm On May 05, 2016

Let me give you a subtle advise...

1. This girl might have gone through a bad breakup with her boyfriend so she doesn't trust boys anymore.

2. You are not attractive enough to her. Meaning you are not so attractive to be chosen as a boyfriend only a funny loving friend

3. She's afraid she might lose you.. Because all bf and gf relationship must end sometime while friendships may last forever

4. Its against her belief to date anyone. (Christian girls)

I advise to find out what is the real reason without asking her directly.

If its anyone of them above you can reply here

Re: . by Omuka(op): 6:21pm On May 05, 2016

mhizeva:
Let me give you a subtle advise...

1. This girl might have gone through a bad breakup with her boyfriend so she doesn't trust boys anymore.

2. You are not attractive enough to her. Meaning you are not so attractive to be chosen as a boyfriend only a funny loving friend

3. She's afraid she might lose you.. Because all bf and gf relationship must end sometime while friendships may last forever

4. Its against her belief to date anyone. (Christian girls)

I advise to find out what is the real reason without asking her directly.

If its anyone of them above you can reply here

hmm i don't know her reason for declining my proposal but i know i'm not ugly.

Re: . by UyiIredia(m): 6:36pm On May 05, 2016

Omuka:
I have been speaking with this girl and we have known each other for long, so i started having feeling for her and i pop the message to her that i will like to have her as my love. Her response was 'i love you as a friend'. Inspite that response from her we still continue to speak to each other but i cant move on, because i'm so in love with her. Guys what can i do to get her? I realy want this girl.

Just be real with her. Tell her you want to be her lover.

Re: . by mhizeva(f): 7:07pm On May 05, 2016

Thats why I said you should find out

And attractive does not mean you are handsome

It is completely different from handsome or not ugly

Re: . by Nobody: 7:48pm On May 05, 2016

Omuka:
I have been speaking with this girl and we have known each other for long, so i started having feeling for her and i pop the message to her that i will like to have her as my love. Her response was 'i love you as a friend'. Inspite that response from her we still continue to speak to each other but i cant move on, because i'm so in love with her. Guys what can i do to get her? I realy want this girl.

Re: . by mhizeva(f): 8:57am On May 06, 2016

[quote author=Babzilla post=45346592][/quote]You got a lame problem Babzilla

Re: . by Nobody: 9:00am On May 06, 2016

mhizeva:
You got a lame problem Babzilla

Yeah I know

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