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Here are seven ways you can love the introverts in your life…
{What I’m sharing below is based on personal experience, From my many years of dealing with introverts i have come to find out these points i want to share with you.}

1) Realize that introversion is not simply a personality trait; it’s a nervous system setting. Here’s how I like to explain it: Your nervous system is like a net that catches stimulation in your environment–things like noise, lights, words and facial expressions.


If you’re an extrovert, you’ve got extra large holes in your net. You can handle a lot of stimulation before you get overwhelmed. If you’re in the middle of extrovert-introvert you’ve got average size holes. If you’re an introvert with a highly sensitive nervous system you catch everything. So you’re easily and quickly overstimulated.
This is not about liking people or not–it’s about biology and how your system processes your environment. Please never make an introvert feel like she’s anti-social. She loves people just as much as you do; she just does it differently. Brain scans can actually show us this now.

2) Appreciate that because of the above, the introverts in your life will probably know you better and more deeply than anyone else. They may be quieter but they are taking it all in. They’re listening to you, reading between the lines, catching what you’re expressing that even you don’t realize you’re expressing.
So please don’t pressure introverts to be more outgoing. They’re doing what they do best and if you push them to be someone they’re not, you’re moving them away from who God created them to be and what he wants them to add to the world.
If you have a child who’s an introvert with a sensitive nervous system, nurture the unique gifts that come with that. Many of the world’s most influential artists, spiritual leaders and creative thinkers are in this group. Think of all we would have missed if someone had forced them to change.

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naijaboiy:
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Nicely said..but OP could it be awkward 2 match up with an introvert being one myself. I don't just seem to connect with so called extroverts.

blayde:
Nicely said..but OP could it be awkward 2 match up with an introvert being one myself. I don't just seem to connect with so called extroverts.

Don't follow the popular slogan ppl say dat an introvert should go out with an extrovert find out what works for you, if going out with an introvert works for you then follow dat path

NOTE: Jst find out wot works for you, my opinion

hyman9ja:
Don't follow the popular slogan ppl say dat an introvert should go out with an extrovert find out what works for you, if going out with an introvert works for you then follow dat path

NOTE: Jst find out wot works for you, my opinion

okay...thanks