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| The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Saronna(op): 9:47pm On May 07, 2016 |
The Benefits of Marrying Young When it comes to having a happy marriage, researchers have found that getting hitched between the ages of 22 and 25 seems to be the sweet spot. That’s just an average, of course, but the benefits outlined below mostly focus on “young” as being one’s early to mid-twenties. You (and those you date) will be carrying less baggage. I was recently talking to a single friend in his 30s who was bemoaning the dating scene for folk his age. He said "when you look at it , if a person is reasonably normal, they've probably had about one semi-serious relationship each year, or every other year, since they've been teenagers. When u get to your thirties, you're carrying more than a decades worth of break-ups, lingering feelings for past partners , trust issues , and disappointments with you. Everyone you date has got a binch of baggage. When you marry young , you and your wife have less exes, old flames , comparisons, and retroactive jealousy of each other's past relationship to deal with. You can start life together with more the guileless freshness that lends itself to unbashed lasting romance . You're more likely to marry someone with whome you're highly more compatible. Alot of folks put off marriage so they can shop around longer , thinking that the more they look around the better chance they will have of finding someone whose just the right match for them. Yet researchers suggest that you're more likely to marry a true peer and someone whome you have lots in common with if you marry in your 20s as opposed to later. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by iceberylin(m): 9:49pm On May 07, 2016 |
Northerners must be perfectly married  |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 9:53pm On May 07, 2016 |
Those things are actually true... I want to marry early too. 3 Likes |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Saronna(op): 9:56pm On May 07, 2016 |
iceberylin:?? |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:Me too. At 32  |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by CountDracula(m): 9:58pm On May 07, 2016 |
Wen I'm not insane, why wud I, in dis economy, at dis stage of my life wen I'm jus startin to know d true taste of the puna, while I'm still tryin to hustle, why wud I marry ryt now? Why? because I don't av enof on my neck as it is ba? |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Saronna(op): 9:58pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:You're SO pretty mashallah lol no homo |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by richardohiemi: 10:01pm On May 07, 2016 |
like seriously....you're just extracting the juice,what about the Part where you squeeze the orange before the juice eventually pours out.....the financial milestones they must overcome,the increased amount of years to engage in tiwa vs teebilz battles,the spurring and maintenance of younglings,the diapers and napkins you'd have to start changing at an early age sighs the fact that you've not been weaned properly from other societal niggas and chics....the increased risk of vulvovaginal fistula in chics lol... well it's all about pros and cons |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Saronna(op): 10:10pm On May 07, 2016 |
CountDracula:I feel sorry for folks like you who are convinced to believe that marriage is the end. That they can't achieve anything or need to be wealthy once they tie the knot. Really I feel sorry.  1 Like |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by CountDracula(m): 10:18pm On May 07, 2016 |
Saronna:I feel sorrier for people like u, people who hold on so tightly to naivety in d name of being open minded, but dats ur life anyways, ure free to marry ur son bfor he grows genital hair, dats ur fvcking business. I jus think its stupid. And dats my business |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by wasak(m): 10:26pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:Nice picture you've got there |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 10:29pm On May 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz:lol, are you kidding me? well, you are a man. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 10:31pm On May 07, 2016 |
You're SO pretty mashallah lol no homo[/quote]Thanks babe. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Nobody: 10:32pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke:Is 32 not young enough?  You look like someone that's into sports BTW, the shape of your legs is my witness. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 10:42pm On May 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz:32 is not young jor. I used to play football, but I don't have much time these days. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Nobody: 11:00pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: Thank God I'm not 32 anyway, I still believe 32 is about the ideal age to go into something so complicated and demanding as marriage tho, at that age one'd have acquired all it takes. Say maturity, experience, a class of one's own and the doe to go. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Ayoolajumoke(f): 11:09pm On May 07, 2016 |
pinceprinz:I don't think maturity is determined by age tho, and experience shouldn't be based on the number of guys/girls one has sampled and as for the doe, God should just pick our calls... and then, what do I know? |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Saronna(op): 11:32pm On May 07, 2016 |
CountDracula:K. |
| Re: The Benefits Of Marrying Young. by Nobody: 12:22am On May 08, 2016 |
Ayoolajumoke: |
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