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We also need their companionship

what is this mad man saying...women need men for two things according to him..money and sperm, going by his logic that means men only need women, for one thing, a baby. so tell me who needs who most ? This one can only break relationship not fix it.

sinaj:
Dis is quite funny



But on a serious note, women are d stronger vessel here.
They can go tru lots of hardship, suffering nd still remain strong unlike the male folks.


That's why u see more of widows dan widowers.



Apart from the money nd sperm tho, we still need that love nd feeling of self belonging



I prefer Maslow's theory to Charly boy's theory lol

WHY DO YOU HAVE TO BE SO REASONABLE,
ALMOST EVERYTIME?? ?

Smellymouth:
Good day Mr. Chairman,Moderator, Panel of Judges,Time Keeper,Co-debaters and Distinguished Ladies and Gentlemen..

My names are SmellyM0uth ALAGA1. I am here to support the motion which says that---"Most men of today are the weaker sex and can't control themselves emotionally.."



Listen and be blessed

Guy, you get work at all so? The way you just dey redesign every topic for nairaland with your pics na another thing entirely. Any FP topic nowadays without your funny pictures is incomplete.

youngberry001:
I swear charly boy got a point here......

He made not a single sense if u ask me. The issues raised by CB are quiet peripheral because looking closely those points r just for the moment.(Sperm and money)

What happens to being able to remain focused,sticking to daring ambition,goals,emotion, sustenance and critical planing.

These are daily routine that we encounter in our daily lives and when the chips are down the female sex fizzles out. Here they find other ways of satisfaction like engaging in electric and plastic toys even with the wealth acquired. Not just sperm but emotional safety.

If that's all women needs in men why do well to do rich societal women still want men by their side even at sixties knowing she don't wanna make babies anymore? Why do we have women yet want to be loved no matter what it looks like?

The truth is we all need each other for the circle to complete. Its symbiotic,no looser nor gainer.

sinaj:
Dis is quite funny



But on a serious note, women are d stronger vessel here.
They can go tru lots of hardship, suffering nd still remain strong unlike the male folks.


That's why u see more of widows dan widowers.



Apart from the money nd sperm tho, we still need that love nd feeling of self belonging



I prefer Maslow's theory to Charly boy's theory lol

How much love do you need ?

You can't get More myopic than this.

MRBrownJ:
i fully disagree with his post...
- men AND women cant control our emotions, thats the reason why you see women crying and biatching all the time, for even the slightest issue. about beating women, there is nothing new here,the reason is A) the bible teaches these men that women MUST be submissive so when they aint, they get punched into submission and B) if a woman loses her mind and has the audacity to raise her hands on a man, then she should get equal treatment. as for alcohol, compare that with SHOPPING and tell me if women can control their emotions there.
FACT#1 men AND women cant control their emotions

- working a full time job, managing a household and caring for kids?! when did you see a woman doing that?! abeg, this is a lie unless you simply direct your maid to do the cooking, cleaning the home and raising your kids during the day, while you are at work. it shouldnt even been attempted, as a human being need to rest their bodies. furthermore, why should African men manage a home when they have a wife who is home doing nothing? thats HER job in the African lifestyle, thats why many happily stay home.
FACT#2 NOBODY has a full time job and take care of a home and kids by themselves.

- women only need men for sperm and money, TRUE, while we men only need women for sex as we already have the money... and its because of that MONEY that women will always be the WEAKER ones, because men will continue using it to blackmail women into doing exactly what they desire (aka cook, clean, raise kids and fukc us like p0rnstars, even if they dont want to).
FACT#3 whoever desires MONEY will always be a slave to whoever got the money!

- men are big babies, YES!!!! if a man works 10+ hrs everyday and brings all the cheddar, then he needs to be treated as a KING when he comes back home to a wife who directed the maid to do all the chores. thats the time wifey needs to do all what this man desires, in order to have him fit to go back to work the next day, while she stays home doing whatever she does all day. if this woman wants to therefore use that to manipulate him then thats her own problems (to be ungrateful), and not ours
FACT#4 taking care of your hardworking man is the DUTY of all stay at home wifey!

- men cant control their sexual urges, YES!!!! sadly men and women are different sexually. God created us with a tiger in our pants and since our earlier age, we cant CONTROL/TAME it. if we see a sexy woman, nice tittays out their bras or some aass, that tiger will "roar" regardless if we are married or in a r/ship. the important part is to be able to ACT RIGHT when we have these sexual urges, and certainly not try to control them. sadly, as stated before, women desire us for money, thus many marry/date us for money and will never divorce/dump a man who cheat on their "money desperate" self, so guess what? due to that fact, many men gladly and openly cheat with women who dont care if they are married or in a r/ship, so long as they have MONEY
FACT#5 because of the Money that these women so desire, whatever a man does with his sexual urges, is IRRELEVANT!

- men die younger, OFF COURSE WE DO!!!! we work harder, have more stressful lives due to that fact, we put our lives at risk to provide for our women etc. no woman CAN/SHOULD ever compare having a day job with staying at home. we are murdered (sometimes by women) because we have the money, yes! it aint easy being a man.
FACT#6 NOBODY can predict the future and therefore, we should enjoy the ride the best we see fit.

And this same thing was what Toks was saying yesterday... And a lot of people attacked him... He only just used different words... It all boils down to men being weak and any woman who points out this obvious to him through words or action becomes an enemy of his ego and he reacts by beating.

Reminds me of tiwa and TJ
I knew TJ was a gonner as soon as Jamil arrived on the scene. TJ made her money, then he made her a baby. Whats left ?

swaggzo:

I AM THE ONLY ONE TO CLICK SHARE, AND IDGAF

Lol,u may have your salient points,why don't you air your view,lets hear

MotherConfesor:
... Your postulations are faulty. SO you think it's all about money and sperm for a woman? No love, home, children warmth family Etc ...

Very true...notice ladies who are frustrated when it comes to men/ relationship will totally agree with him

Okijajuju1:
Now its just for Sperm o!!


Women have Money now..

They also have D!ldo's that are bigger than some guys diickoder.

All they need is just sperm to fertilize their eggs thats all.. And men would become obsolete and become an endangered specie.

@Bold:

A good man will never become obsolete

exactly!! when people preach love to me I'm Like smh...
I don't need love, just companionship.

queenfav:
Hahahahaha..I told my colleagues that the odds are always not in a woman's favour where marriage is concerned. She leaves her family,adopts his name,gets pregnant, loses her firm boobs and taut skin,cooks,cleans,services him,takes care of kids,deals with Bs from in-laws and others..Men should be grateful and even cry tears of joy when a woman says yes to a marriage proposal, cos she just signed up for a whole lot of stress,and its for life!Anyways,i am only considering getting married for d companionship and maybe a child.. shikena.

Then women are useless to men and to the world then!!

queenfav:
Hahahahaha..I told my colleagues that the odds are always not in a woman's favour where marriage is concerned. She leaves her family,adopts his name,gets pregnant, loses her firm boobs and taut skin,cooks,cleans,services him,takes care of kids,deals with Bs from in-laws and others..Men should be grateful and even cry tears of joy when a woman says yes to a marriage proposal, cos she just signed up for a whole lot of stress,and its for life!Anyways,i am only considering getting married for d companionship and maybe a child.. shikena.

Yet you ladies are the ones complaining of how you are getting older in your father's house.
All guys no be Adekunle Gold ooo.

Maybe just sperm

This man sha!!

Mr sissy is so wrong on this one. Women need men way more than we need them. Forget about sexual urge or whatever. who tell you say I can't go without sex forever, only stupid irresponsible men can't control urges. The only reason I need women is to reproduce. Other than reproduction, they are USELESS!!! I repeat women are useless if not for reproduction sake!!! They can't even reproduce without men! Let's get real here Tell me what they have to offer other than reproduction and sex!! I don't need a woman to eat or take care of my home that's a fact

SleekAboki:
Those were the two main reasons Tiwa discarded the husband like used tissue paper after extracting sperm and using him to raise to the top.

The way and manner some women over package even rotten eggs to emotionally bleed men deserves national emergency.Most men are dying silently in today's Dubai and London marriages.

We need a new movement to rescue such weak men from the feminists.

Those words or acronym " Emotional blackmail " has come to stay. The way women blackmail men to extract what they want from them is so funny.

I live here and see so many rich looking ladies among students only to get near them and see that the monies they spend never come from their parents but rich male friends. I dont mean boyfriends here but men who these ladies have succeeded in bamboozling with their beauty.

MRBrownJ:
i fully disagree with his post...
- men AND women cant control our emotions, thats the reason why you see women crying and biatching all the time, for even the slightest issue. about beating women, there is nothing new here,the reason is A) the bible teaches these men that women MUST be submissive so when they aint, they get punched into submission and B) if a woman loses her mind and has the audacity to raise her hands on a man, then she should get equal treatment. as for alcohol, compare that with SHOPPING and tell me if women can control their emotions there.
FACT#1 men AND women cant control their emotions

- working a full time job, managing a household and caring for kids?! when did you see a woman doing that?! abeg, this is a lie unless you simply direct your maid to do the cooking, cleaning the home and raising your kids during the day, while you are at work. it shouldnt even been attempted, as a human being need to rest their bodies. furthermore, why should African men manage a home when they have a wife who is home doing nothing? thats HER job in the African lifestyle, thats why many happily stay home.
FACT#2 NOBODY has a full time job and take care of a home and kids by themselves.

- women only need men for sperm and money, TRUE, while we men only need women for sex as we already have the money... and its because of that MONEY that women will always be the WEAKER ones, because men will continue using it to blackmail women into doing exactly what they desire (aka cook, clean, raise kids and fukc us like p0rnstars, even if they dont want to).
FACT#3 whoever desires MONEY will always be a slave to whoever got the money!

- men are big babies, YES!!!! if a man works 10+ hrs everyday and brings all the cheddar, then he needs to be treated as a KING when he comes back home to a wife who directed the maid to do all the chores. thats the time wifey needs to do all what this man desires, in order to have him fit to go back to work the next day, while she stays home doing whatever she does all day. if this woman wants to therefore use that to manipulate him then thats her own problems (to be ungrateful), and not ours
FACT#4 taking care of your hardworking man is the DUTY of all stay at home wifey!

- men cant control their sexual urges, YES!!!! sadly men and women are different sexually. God created us with a tiger in our pants and since our earlier age, we cant CONTROL/TAME it. if we see a sexy woman, nice tittays out their bras or some aass, that tiger will "roar" regardless if we are married or in a r/ship. the important part is to be able to ACT RIGHT when we have these sexual urges, and certainly not try to control them. sadly, as stated before, women desire us for money, thus many marry/date us for money and will never divorce/dump a man who cheat on their "money desperate" self, so guess what? due to that fact, many men gladly and openly cheat with women who dont care if they are married or in a r/ship, so long as they have MONEY
FACT#5 because of the Money that these women so desire, whatever a man does with his sexual urges, is IRRELEVANT!

- men die younger, OFF COURSE WE DO!!!! we work harder, have more stressful lives due to that fact, we put our lives at risk to provide for our women etc. no woman CAN/SHOULD ever compare having a day job with staying at home. we are murdered (sometimes by women) because we have the money, yes! it aint easy being a man.
FACT#6 NOBODY can predict the future and therefore, we should enjoy the ride the best we see fit.

ALL I CAN SAY IS,





BRAVO!.... BRAVO!...*CLAPS*

Joe171:
Yet you ladies are the ones complaining of how you are getting older in your father's house.
All guys no be Adekunle Gold ooo.

I don complain give you?lol..abeg o.

Amberon:
exactly!! when people preach love to me I'm Like smh...
I don't need love, just companionship.

That's it o..

na d school you go I go. I get job, u get job, as lord and master, I cannot talk to you the way you talk to me. If i do, you will call me names. I can pull d gen, i queue to buy fuel, I build myself up, what do u bring to the table to make you insist I need you. Men tend to act like loudmouths and talk carelessly when a woman is involved. Yet, they tell you its your duty to do everything within your power to build the family. Men are only sperm and emotional stress donors. But women have no choice that to take them like that and every once in a while, blackmail, and trick them to do the things u want until you are able to shape them into what u want

400billionman:
Those words or acronym " Emotional blackmail " has come to stay. The way women blackmail men to extract what they want from them is so funny.

I live here and see so many rich looking ladies among students only to get near them and see that the monies they spend never come from their parents but rich male friends. I dont mean boyfriends here but men who these ladies have succeeded in bamboozling with their beauty.

These guys keep spending for months with the hope that one day he can take the lady to bed. All nah wash..

A threat to our manhood and a reversal to the natural order is upon us! We need to enlighten our specie for the sake of self preservation.

Mutuwa:


very true,especially in this contemporary era of copious vices.Some men may yield in to their emotions nowadays,but the Almighty had already factory wired the man to be domineering and in control,except other wise.
from an old except,a food for thought.

who is a man?

A man is a beautiful part of God’s creation who starts compromising at a very tender age.
He sacrifices his chocolates for his sister.
He sacrifices his dreams for just a smile on his parents face.
He spends his entire pocket money on buying gifts for the lady he loves just to see her smiling.
He sacrifices his full youth for his wife & children by working late at night without any complain.
He builds their future by taking loans from banks & repaying them for lifetime.
He struggles a lot & still has to bear scolding from his mother, wife & boss.
His life finally ends up only by compromising for others’ happiness.

If he goes out, then he’s careless
If he stays at home, then he’s a lazy
If he scolds children, then he’s a monster
If he doesn’t scold, then he’s a irresponsible guy
If he stops wife from working, then he’s an insecure guy
If he doesn’t stops wife from working, then he’s somebody who lives on wife’s earnings.
If he listens to mom, then he’s mama’s boy
If he listens to wife, he’s wife’s slave

Respect every male in your life. U will never know what he has sacrificed for you.

Balderdash

Shortyy:
Uncle Charlie, I don't need your sperm nor your money. I need your L.O.V.E

Nah ROVE u go chop ?

Hmmmmm, true to an extent.

Boboye4slim:
Mr sissy is so wrong on this one. Women need men way more than we need them. Forget about sexual urge or whatever. who tell you say I can't go without sex forever, only stupid irresponsible men can't control urges. The only reason I need women is to reproduce. Other than reproduction, they are USELESS!!! I repeat women are useless if not for reproduction sake!!! They can't even reproduce without men! Let's get real here Tell me what they have to offer other than reproduction and sex!! I don't need a woman to eat or take care of my home that's a fact

Thank,
U spoke my mind.
I was too lazy to type.

wilybebsy:
This mad man sha

Like Seriously! He have MAD since a long time ago.

Ishilove:
What do you think?

Your "ARA" have fell very badly oooo.

Mo st women need men for
1 logic - so.me women have a problem thinking rationally mostly emotionally.

2 money or someone to take care of there problems.

3 security. Most just need a bodyguard

4 leader.. the woman was designed to be a follower but as always not all are

5 spermatozoa- To metamorphosis her from girl to

mother


But remember that Adam was tricked / controlled by Eve and that has been the very foundation of man and woman.

Never underestimate them go ask Samson, Hercules etc