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Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 7:54am On May 11, 2016 |
Tellemall: I see a case of Self Esteem here. Maybe she feels if she leaves that dude, no one else will come on. Even if no one else comes on, is it still okay to stay? Is it possible that this man still shares her bed? 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:06am On May 11, 2016 |
You are indeed your problem. A man who treats you like this is your friend? Define friendship. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:23am On May 11, 2016 |
kaziblake:Why? Is it becos she is unclad or becos she woke up late? Prayer of faith is the prayer that works. Knowing who your God is through the word of God, Knowing his Promises concerning what your expecting from him, keeping your own part of the bargain, then ask. it doesn't matter whether you are bathing, taking a work, kneeling or standing. God is a Spirit, He doesn't dwell in the realm of Material where time matters. He says 'If you serve me, I will. The 'If' there is a condition. Going by the Op, ask her how much she obeyed God while laying the foundation for this marriage. If the foundation is faulty, the building collapsed even before it was completed. So stripping unclad by 12mid night is not going to fix the broken foundation. Am so sorry, i am hash here. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:30am On May 11, 2016 |
Dirkcoyt:hahahahahahaahahaha. OMG, this pipo no go kee pesin wif lafta. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:37am On May 11, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:That is the "Till death do us Part" nah. That vow was kept to the letter by her. imaooo. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:45am On May 11, 2016 |
victorazy:God forgive my words, but you are a wicked person. Psychologically peruse the ops mind, you will perceive she is a good, reasonable and a calm person, only her naivety is making her vulnerable. To say its her fault for her husband to treat her this way... O shitttttt. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:57am On May 11, 2016 |
SexyStrawberry:No dear, let me give you the verse that says the only grounds for divorce is infidelity. Matthew 5:32 But I tell you, Whoever dismisses and repudiates and divorces his wife /husband, except on the grounds of unfaithfulness (sexual immorality), causes her to commit adultery, and whoever marries a woman who has been divorced commits adultery. So, this man is as guilty as hell. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 9:05am On May 11, 2016 |
postmann:Hahahahahaha, My sweet Postmann, The Bible says Eve was deceived, but not Adam. He willingly Sold out. 1 Timothy 2:14 And it was not Adam who was deceived, but [the] woman who was deceived and deluded and fell into transgression. And sir, when Eve sinned, unclothedness wasn't exposes until Adam did. The instruction wasn't given to Eve, it was to Adam. So, who brought about the transgression? lol. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 9:08am On May 11, 2016 |
cococandy:hahahahahaha. pls cocoa, dont. let him just go |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 11:27am On May 11, 2016 |
analice107: I welcome your scriptural debate with gladness. You intrigue me no doubt, but I'm cold-footed for your handle is new. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 11:52am On May 11, 2016 |
postmann:lol. Okay "Femi Osofisan" |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 1:54pm On May 12, 2016 |
tossen: Did a man tell you that or you came up with that derivation on your own? Well, it is more than just "being hurt that another man found his way in". That's the feminine understanding. You can't really come to a complete understanding of this simply because you're not a man. It's like havin someone drive your car: his weight on the seat, his hands turning the wheels at each turn of the road and tires squealing in rapid spinning on the hot asphalt and the egines responding to each merciless throttle. If you love that car so much so that you wash it in and out every morning and someone drove it without your authorisation, you'd feel that your car has been violated. It's a similar feeling with most men when their women cheat. And that's why it's hardly forgivable. Violation is the chief word. tossen:Who said that? tossen: There are men who go the extra mile to be faithful. But until women are taught that they have far more to lose in sexual indiscretion, they'll keep running into sexual troubles. tossen: Hehehehehe! You speak like a feminist. I have a feeling that you might be an atheist or a non-christian. Please correct me if my assumption is wrong. But nonetheless, GOD "allowed" polygamy. HE told David after taking another man's wife that if David had asked for more, HE would had given him". When Serah put it up to Abraham to marry his slave girl, GOD didn't object and didn't count it as a sin. But GOD came down with a mighty HAND for Abraham's sake when two powerful kings at different occasions wanted to "violate" Serah, Abraham's wife. tossen: You speak with rash assumptions. By the emboldened, you just said THE ALMIGHTY GOD IS A GOD OF CONFUSION. tossen: Nature is the greatest witness of GOD precepts and Being. HIS precepts have stood the test of time and man has been compromised physically and mentally as a result of his rebellion and false wisdom. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 1:57pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Speak plainly please. Tell me about the old you. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 3:54pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:Femi Osufisan is a poet who plays with words in a manner i have never seen anyone else do. And you fall in such category. The old me... There's just me, no other. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 3:58pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: I'm highly honoured. Are you going to tell me this is your only handle or your first? |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 4:25pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:By handle you mean Moniker? |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 4:35pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Yes, that's what I mean. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 4:35pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Yes, I mean moniker. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 4:37pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Yes, that's what I mean. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 4:41pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:lol. I had, but kinda dropped it, with it, it was hard to convince people i was female. Besides, I didnt know it was a name of Famous Islamic scholar during or after Muhammed. All the Muslims thought i was their brother. so i dropped it. Here it is. Anas09 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 4:45pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Hmmm! Thanks for the openness. That's some virtue. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 4:46pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:Urc Sir Postmann. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 4:47pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:Uwc Sir Postmann. 1 Like |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 6:18pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Finally, there's time for some scriptural discourse. Analice107, can you, with all diligence explain what you meant by the submission above? I don't want to misunderstand you. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 8:46pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:Okay, but no speak your big grammar for me oo. i no want bite my mouth. come down to our level. You quoted someone and said sin entered into the world through the woman, but i said, no, it was through the man, because according to the Bible Eve was deceived, but Adam was not. Adam being the man, the head, the Voice, the control, the power and authority, the custodian of the woman, was not deceived, he Willingly sold out and plunged the entire human race into this mess with his eyes opened. God never called Eve into any Board Meetings, Adam always attended those meetings then furnished the wife with whatever information or instruction which came from the DG. That's why, when she dipped her hand in the Cookie Jar, the DG never frowned, until Adam went on to do same. If you noticed, when Eve sinned, she was still covered, but when Adam sinned, both of them discovered they were naked. Why was that? |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 9:41pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: I don't use high sounding words unnecessarily. And when I do, I do it moderately. Your notion that Eve didn't sin, I believed stemmed from loosed biblical scholars who have subjected the scriptures to human psychological interpretations instead of being led by the SPIRIT of GOD. 1 Tim 2:14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression. You're right about Adam been in charge. And he received instructions directly from GOD unlike Eve who was taught by Adam. Fact is both transgressed. Adam been soft with Eve, while Eve been a typical woman was led by lust and greed. I don't have the luxury of picking your post line by line, but if it was just Eve who aye of the fruit, her eyes would have been opened all the same. She would have seen her own unclothedness and that of her husband. Eve wasnt immuned to the fruit's potency and neither was it dependent on Adam eating it. GOD simply waited to see if they both would disobey. Adam was punished for his sin and the earth was cursed because of him. But Eve was cursed as well. If she didn't transgress she would have been free from curse. She was the first human to taste of the fruit of death and the first sinner and she didn't stop there, she took some to her husband. Read up the conversation between Eve and the snake again. You would see she was a deliberate, willful sinner. The snake asked "did GOD really said....." and she concurred, repeating all the warnings of GOD regarding the fruit. Scripture said she wanted the fruit seeing it was beautiful and she wanted the knowledge it would give her. The same greed, curiosity and lust still plague her daughters even to this generation. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 9:52pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:As one of Eve's daughters, am not greedy postmann:As one of Eve's daughters, am not greedy.lol. Have you for once, considered what would have happened if Adam had rebuked his wife fiercely and cast off the fruit from her hand? |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 9:58pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Please re-quote my post. I had to do some major editing. It reeked of typos and error. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 10:18pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:I hardly saw any typos. Besides, i got the message. The worst typos comes from me. My phone is so wonderful, when i type and space a different word entirely comes up, i have to keep going back and forth to correct, but i still have typos, ant it punctuates itself. I have tried resetting it, couldn't. Don't worry yaself bros. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 10:36pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: We'll continue tomorrow. Bedtime |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by analice107: 10:45pm On May 12, 2016 |
postmann:goodnight. |
Re: Was I Wrong Opening Up To My Husband? by postmann: 11:20pm On May 12, 2016 |
analice107: Goodnight! |
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