Not long ago, i recieved an urgent call from my older cousin staying around iba estate lagos that i should rush down immediately to his house and get him a file he forgot...the message informed me that his wife is around and she knew where to fetch the file upon demand and I was to call him if i encountered any problems.

I arrived at their home to find everywhere quiet since schoolchildren and other people have all left.
I knocked a few but no answer...and as i was about calling my cousin, i saw his wife coming out of their landlord's apartment, she was kind of shocked to see me but i pretended and left with what i came for.
This man(landlord) is a divorcee though with children, and a yoruba man for that matter, i have searched my mind to no avail as to what my cousin's wife will be doing in his apartment at such a lone hour(10.30am), when everyone else will be busy with his/her buisness.

Now the issue is that i am at crossroads wheather to report this to my cousin or hold my peace, i dont want to be the one that dropped the bomb that rocked their marriage and secondly i hold my cousin a serious obligation to report since i am bound to him by blood.
Opinions sought from some neutral bodies i have consulted are divergent.

report what? mere suspicion?

Coming out of the landlord's apartment doesnt mean a thing

U need proof.....proven facts

You started well but goofed in dt aspect when you said "A YORUBA MAN FOR THAT MATTER". Stop being a tribalist, it won't take you anywhere
Anyway back to the topic, uve got no solid evidence at all... moreover what you are nurturing in your mind maybe out of the case. Just free the issue as if you saw nothing. its better than creating unnecessary tension

Femich18:
You started well but goofed in dt aspect when you said "A YORUBA MAN FOR THAT MATTER". Stop being a tribalist, it won't take you anywhere
Anyway back to the topic, uve got no solid evidence at all... moreover what you are nurturing in your mind maybe out of the case. Just free the issue as if you saw nothing. its better than creating unnecessary tension

far from being a tribalist...just stating the obvious, i will never trust a yoruba man with my wife for two seconds alone.

diportivo:
Coming out of the landlord's apartment doesnt mean a thing

U need proof.....proven facts

bros... what other proof do you want again? Used condoms? for her to be in anothers man's apartment alone is proof enough.

Randyhot:
far from being a tribalist...just stating the obvious, i will never trust a yoruba man with my wife for two seconds alone.

Lol..its not a tin of tribe its just base on the individual. its just a fallacy of hasty generalization to conclude base on few people. I'm a Yoruba and u can trust me with your wife. She can share the same bed with me at nite and nothing will happen sef...Lol...Good a.m

Randyhot:
bros... what other proof do you want again? Used condoms? for her to be in anothers man's apartment alone is proof enough.

Lol...This your statement can't win you this case anywhere...Xo if a lady should leave my room it means I have had sex with her? Ehen Ehen

Femich18:

Lol..its not a tin of tribe its just base on the individual. its just a fallacy of hasty generalization to conclude base on few people. I'm a Yoruba and u can trust me with your wife. She can share the same bed with me at nite and nothing will happen sef...Lol...Good a.m

hehehehe...even if your an eunuch and amputated as well...NEVER

Randyhot:
hehehehe...even if your an eunuch and amputated as well...NEVER

Hahahahahaha

Femich18:

Lol...This your statement can't win you this case anywhere...Xo if a lady should leave my room it means I have had sex with her? Ehen Ehen

it is not right for a married woman to be found alone in another man's apartment when her husband is not around...chikina

what a prejudiced and bigoted post, so all Yoruba men are lack self control when it comes to women...
If i were you, I'd just mind my own business.. its not your duty to d report your cousin's wife and you don't have any evidence, don't spoil her marriage

Randyhot:
bros... what other proof do you want again? Used condoms? for her to be in anothers man's apartment alone is proof enough.

So WTF are you asking us for since you've got all the proof you need?
Here is my expert advice, go ahead and call a family meeting.
Invite all the elders in your family, invite all the elders in your cousin's wife's family.
Make sure everyone is present and seated, including your cousin, his wife and their landlord.
Tell them about your profound discovery. That the landlord inserted his p.enis into your cousin's wife's v.agina repeatedly.
In, out. In, out. In, out.
How you know this? You saw her walking out of the landlord's house.

Goodluck.

elektra:


So WTF are you asking us for since you've got all the proof you need?
Here is my expert advice, go ahead and call a family meeting.
Invite all the elders in your family, invite all the elders in your cousin's wife's family.
Make sure everyone is present and seated, including your cousin, his wife and their landlord.
Tell them about your profound discovery. That the landlord inserted his p.enis into your cousin's wife's v.agina repeatedly.
In, out. In, out. In, out.
How you know this? You saw her walking out of the landlord's house.

Goodluck.

funny! Don't get what he wants to achieve with his bigoted post. Good response

elektra:


So WTF are you asking us for since you've got all the proof you need?
Here is my expert advice, go ahead and call a family meeting.
Invite all the elders in your family, invite all the elders in your cousin's wife's family.
Make sure everyone is present and seated, including your cousin, his wife and their landlord.
Tell them about your profound discovery. That the landlord inserted his p.enis into your cousin's wife's v.agina repeatedly.
In, out. In, out. In, out.
How you know this? You saw her walking out of the landlord's house.

Goodluck.

lol...the insertion part got me cracking, i am eyeing you steadily...like you know much about this in,out,in out, kinda stuff. good am.

If you call the landlord YORUBA man, what's the tribe of the WOMAN? Shouldn't you also mention that? Perhaps, we might also question the integrity of her tribe.

I won't say anything further until you mention her TRIBE.

Remember, oga landlord did not go to her house, she left her husband's house to meet the YORUBA landlord.

At the end of the day, oga landlord will retain his house while your cousin's wife would be sent back to wherever she came from.

no he's not, I go to my neighbours house when no one is around his wife is late he has 3kids I go dere to sometimes drop lunch for his kids sef so I dunno y you want to ruin your cousin's marriage instead of your unnecessary suspicion y not call her and ask her or yet tell her it's not good for a married woman to go to her single neighbour house that way no one is hurt and de message is passed becuase with this your suspicion everything she does will be a problem. but you sef na wa your reasoning ehen Smh

Mtchew

elektra:


So WTF are you asking us for since you've got all the proof you need?
Here is my expert advice, go ahead and call a family meeting.
Invite all the elders in your family, invite all the elders in your cousin's wife's family.
Make sure everyone is present and seated, including your cousin, his wife and their landlord.
Tell them about your profound discovery. That the landlord inserted his p.enis into your cousin's wife's v.agina repeatedly.
In, out. In, out. In, out.
How you know this? You saw her walking out of the landlord's house.

Goodluck.

Chai! Madam don vex, lol!

What Tribe is the said woman

In marriage matters, it pays to face your work more often than not.

Blade21:
no he's not, I go to my neighbours house when no one is around his wife is late he has 3kids I go dere to sometimes drop lunch for his kids sef so I dunno y you want to ruin your cousin's marriage instead of your unnecessary suspicion y not call her and ask her or yet tell her it's not good for a married woman to go to her single neighbour house that way no one is hurt and de message is passed becuase with this your suspicion everything she does will be a problem. but you sef na wa your reasoning ehen Smh

dont blame me for trying to put two and two together...any right thinking person will reason as such. this was a woman supposed to be at home, but nah...she was at a single man's apartment an here you are telling me not to be suspicious.

cococandy:
Mtchew

chericoco...this one you sighed heavily, i hope the current cash crunch isnt biting you hard lol.

Randyhot:
dont blame me for trying to put two and two together...any right thinking person will reason as such. this was a woman supposed to be at home, but nah...she was at a single man's apartment an here you are telling me not to be suspicious.

you shouldn't be

ask your cousin this question. have u ever suspected your wife of infidelity? and end it there

Acidosis:
If you call the landlord YORUBA man, what's the tribe of the WOMAN? Shouldn't you also mention that? Perhaps, we might also question the integrity of her tribe.

I won't say anything further until you mention her TRIBE.

Remember, oga landlord did not go to her house, she left her husband's house to meet the YORUBA landlord.

At the end of the day, oga landlord will retain his house while your cousin's wife would be sent back to wherever she came from.

no mind de guy

Tribalist oshi, yoruba man indeed.
When u already formed ur opinion and also concluded,y bring it here? Go ahead and tell ur cousin am so sure that will be the last time u will have access to him for what u are not sure 'bout.

Randyhot:
bros... what other proof do you want again? Used condoms? for her to be in anothers man's apartment alone is proof enough.

Are you for real? Lmao

This is how the devil works oo, planting seeds of mistrust and discord in happy homes based on mere paranoia.

elektra:


So WTF are you asking us for since you've got all the proof you need?
Here is my expert advice, go ahead and call a family meeting.
Invite all the elders in your family, invite all the elders in your cousin's wife's family.
Make sure everyone is present and seated, including your cousin, his wife and their landlord.
Tell them about your profound discovery. That the landlord inserted his p.enis into your cousin's wife's v.agina repeatedly.
In, out. In, out. In, out.
How you know this? You saw her walking out of the landlord's house.

Goodluck.

Op are you insinuating that Yoruba men are in the habits of sleeping with another men's wives? You are a disgrace for introducing tribal bigotry to your post, with the various degree of immoral practices taking place in the SE you shouldn't be coming here to play tribal game on things like this. Go and read a post here on the 12 of April where a married man was caught in Enugu sleeping with another married woman, and if you need more of such I will post them here for all to judge, including how the youth in the SE are sleeping with their mothers. May the said land landlord f*ck your uncle's wife till she get pregnant.

I stopped taking him serious after that YORUBA part... You're just a pathetic fellow..if you have what to do, you won't be running errands 10am in the morning to see another man's wife coming out of the landlords apartment..... WEREY