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Some guys think they can never lay their hands on a woman. My brothers, it is not that easy. It is even easier to condemn a wife beater (even a regretful first timer). But every time you condemn, pray never to be stuck in the sort of relationships some of them endure.

I won't take much of your time. Anyone can end up a wife beater so my advice is to those who have never laid their hands on a woman. Cherish these points so you won't get to that stage when you look at yourself and wonder when you became such a horrid wife beater.

1. Watch out for the signs in yourself: How tolerant are you? How selfish? Are you the sort of guy who is never considerate. A sort of guy who lacks patience. You have to work on these signs. If you are inconsiderate, selfish, etc, you have to learn how to tolerate. You have to learn how to overlook things, starting with how you interact with the closest people to you. You can practise your tolerance on your siblings and outsiders. If you don't work on your intolerance, you and your wife will be fighting over even remote control.

2. You have to watch for signs in your girlfriend too: Is she patient? How does she relate with outsiders? Is she very quiet and withdrawn (a sign that she will be possessive). A possessive girlfriend can turn even a saint into a devil!!!!! She will try to own you and if you yourself are lacking in patience (which will enable you manage her and assert yourself), you will end up a girlfriend/wife beater.

The summary of the matter is that to avoid ending up a wife/girlfriend beater, you must be very patient!!!!! It is easier to blame wife beaters but it is not easy to be remain a gentleman when you are stuck with women that can frustrate the hell out of you!!!!! Even the Bible says that it is better for a man to leave on a rooftop than to live under the same roof with a contentious woman!!!!! However, it is possible to manage a contentious woman with patience!!!!! But if you notice you are yourself very impatient, stay away from a romantic relationship!!!!!

You need more than money and love to cohabit peacefully with a woman (Folksync, May, 2016)

I still maintain it that nothing on earth will make me lay my hands on a woman, becaus since i was born my dad has never for ones laid his fingers on my mom. i grew up with the teachings from my parents that women are precious and should not be treated badly.

It's pretty easy, be a decent well balanced person that has self control.

I really never understand why a man would batter a woman if not in self defense from an attacking psychotic killer. There are a million and one ways to kill a rat without even a scratch on its body. a woman batterer is not an intelligent man simple.

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SAINTSAMURAI:
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SAINTSAMURAI:
I still maintain it that nothing on earth will make me lay my hands on a woman, becaus since i was born my dad has never for ones laid his fingers on my mom. i grew up with the teachings from my parents that women are precious and should not be treated badly.

Yeah, same happened to me, i won't lie i won't beat a woman, but then at some point in time i was thinking, there are some really annoying women with really crappy attitudes and personalities, all they want is to cause trouble whenever they can, they disturb at the slightest chance. Now i'm a very patient person(it's one of my strong points) but i said, what if i can't take it anymore? Everyone is patient, just that everyone as different caps. What if this woman takes my patience to it's uttermost limits and even passes that what then? Can you answer this question?