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Hello there, welcome back..

It’s Josh Diamond, Millionaire Playboy Dating Expert here today..

You, as a cute action-taker, and I have a very important discussion to share together today.

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Now, before we continue any further, let’s make sure we draw out our list and call out the people who are not wanted inside here right now;

- So if you know you hated a ‘lengthy’ post, this place isn’t for you right now.
- Again, if you know you’ve got no learning gene, probably blinded by ego, this is not for you.
- Finally, if you know that you’ve got a small dick, this post is not for you, we wouldn’t want to hurt people with 2-inches thingy, right?

Alright, the rest of us inside here now and ready to learn, let’s go..

Now, I have some values to deliver.

Here’s a thing I saw around a lot with most guys, if not every day, whenever a guy is trying to invite a girl out, probably a date, a movie, cinema, even his apartment.

I see it everywhere I look, too..

It is exactly what NOT to do to get a date or hangout. And it’s the biggest waste of time that’s secretly sucking away your precious time like vampire.

What is this #1 stealth, but huge mistake?

Selling Yourself..

Most guys have the habit of selling themselves to a girl, which is very bad.


e.g.
There was a time I was having a flirty conversation with a three-group of girls who won’t stop inviting me over to their modeling photo shoot.

There was a guy few feet away from us, trying to get this hot girl out on to a cinema or probably another thing going on with him in his world, a party or something.

“Like this party, you’ve got to show up, this artist is going to be there, that comedian is going to be there, the venue alone is a badas$, even the celebrant is wow, the whole set up is blah..and blah.. and blah..”

“You’ll come to my apartment tomorrow, I’ll cook a favorite dish, if you have just a taste of my noodle alone you won’t feel like going home, you’re going to enjoy yourself ..and blah..and blah..and blah..”

He’s freaking selling himself to the girl.

The girl was just like “I’m not sure, my schedule is so and so..”

I’m like “Damn! Are kidding me?”

Almost every guy makes this mistake; in fact I can bet it with you 12 different guys are making this same mistake on text messaging with girls again today.
They sell, and sell, and sell..

Even in a business world, every smart and successful salesman who is into a business knows this that; no one, no customer likes to be sold. The moment people see you as a salesman, urgh, it’s a done bullsh¡t deal.

Why?

Because people hate salesman.


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Imagine you’re trying to sell a pen.

What do most people do?

They walk up to anyone they see, trying to sell them on the numerous benefits, describing to them how it would feel to wield such a high-quality pen, trying do different things to make the other person comply, which is a mistake.

It’s not their fault, it because they don’t know.

Check most offices, you’ll see them put up a post saying “No solicitors”.

We hate it when people sell something to us. We don’t like to be sold. And when a guy’s trying to invite a girl out and all he doing is pitching the whole come-over-and-enjoy-yourself thingy to her..
..what is he doing? He’s selling her on the idea.

So to avoid this mistake of selling yourself to her next time, here’s one interesting thing to do next time you’re trying to invite a girl out.

You’re ready?
Because I’ll be making this very quick.

It is something really kind of funny, playful, teasing and that I think it’s hilarious that I have the tendency to say to girls very, very often.

Okay? Here’s what you’d do.

Let’s say you’re at the bar with some group of friends and you’re talking a girl, and maybe you haven’t hung out with this girl 1-on-1 yet, like you guys are kind of flirting, and have the fun and good vibe going on.

And it’s something that you want to do eventually, but you know she’s one of those girls that if you ask her out right away, she’s not going to say yes.
Not because she doesn’t want you, but because that’s just like not her style; she’s too in-demand, whatever her ego is..

Anyways, all you’re going to do is;

Start talking about future plans..

“So what do you got coming up on your schedule..”

She’ll answer you about the cool thing she’s doing, if she has one, and as a man, you also should have something interesting going on with you, even cooler going on in future.

And you start talking about that, okay?
Maybe it could be a wedding, a stopper wedding, a gate-crash wedding, (but not too funny related wedding), it could be a concert, a latest movie in town or a show, a delicious favorite or amazing meal you want to cook etc..

So you bring it up and you start talking about it, and make sure you’re really passionate and excited talking about and describing it.

Okay?

And then in the middle, suddenly and spontaneously it pops up in your brain and you say;

“But hey, listen, you can’t come..”

You know, like talking about the thing and painting the picture of how fun it’s going to be like, and you suddenly say;
“Wait you know like, you can’t come, you can’t come..”

Lol..

She’s like; “What..?”

Then you go like;
“Okay listen, stop yelling at me, you can’t come..”

Even if she didn’t yell at you.
It’s just fun and hilarious.

The point is; You are preemptively overcoming any of her chance of saying “No”, by preemptively saying “You can’t come..” .

Okay?

Now, 10 minutes, 20 minutes later, she’s gonna remember it, she’ll be like;
“That fvcking dick, he said I couldn’t come..what da fvck..”

And maybe a day later or even that night, you will hear back from her.
Everytime I do this you’ll hear back from them very randomly, because the whole thing will just pops up in their head again;

“That fvcking dick, what a crazy guy, he said I couldn’t come, I should probably disturb him..”

Then she’ll start texting.
Some will even feel challenged at that particular moment and be like;
“Really I can’t come? What’s going on there? In fact I’m coming, I’ve got to see for myself..”

Lol..

God, I love awesome women.

So that’s something you could do, instead of selling yourself all over her and trying to make her come.
You just describe the whole fun thing and snatch the whole invitation ‘mode’ away from her, she’ll chase after it if she’s a cool girl, and if she doesn’t? Probably not a fun girl.. Let her be.

Start talking of future plans, and you immediately;
“But listen, you can’t come.. No, no..”

She’ll be like “I don’t wanna come in the first place..”

You go; “No, chill! you can’t come..” (Pretend that she’s the one pushing to come over).

Hilarious.

Play with it.

Test it out.

Have fun with it.

And at the very worse, it will give you some fvcking momentum and some understanding to push-pull with girls, and also of how this playful, illogical and self-loving actions sparks more attraction than the “selling yourself” idea.

I’m Josh Diamond.

Peace..

-JD

Isokay

Sire... girls in naija will tell u point blank- "I am not interested in coming. even if their whole instinct is telling them to come they will still hold it" they jus have a beautiful ego

Most childish post ever. As if women are some dumb people who have time for sure childish jokes. If this works on a girl then no need to even waste this time on her. Just offer her gala and it will do the trick. Any girl that gets caught with this joke would fall for supreme ice cream and meatpie anyway.

Delishpot are u a guy or a lady?

talk2alabama:
Delishpot are u a guy or a lady?

Will that knowledge provide petrol for Nigerians? I am human that is all that we need to survive the earth as a specie. But if you must only survive by what gender I am, then just make up one for me. that soothes your nerves.

That's so not going to work!

delishpot:
Will that knowledge provide petrol for Nigerians? I am human that is all that we need to survive the earth as a specie. But if you must only survive by what gender I am, then just make up one for me. that soothes your nerves.

typical Nigerian girl..

ok i didnt read it completly,...

But what has this got to do with lenghts of dick?

delishpot:
Most childish post ever. As if women are some dumb people who have time for sure childish jokes. If this works on a girl then no need to even waste this time on her. Just offer her gala and it will do the trick. Any girl that gets caught with this joke would fall for supreme ice cream and meatpie anyway.

Like you?

Djboosting:
Like you?

Na your mouth jarey..... use it anyhow you want

delishpot:
Na your mouth jarey..... use it anyhow you want

A lion will see an antelope in his own perspective, as well as the antelope seeing the lion in his own different perspective..

reverse psychology





Cc Djboosting

**In Dprince's Voice**


What's your selling point?
What's your selling point ehhh
What's your selling point
Identify your selling point........

kingstylo01:
reverse psychology






Cc Djboosting

You get the gist, knowing is not for everyone, except few..

Djboosting:
You get the gist, knowing is not for everyone, except few..

don't mind them jawe... please throw more examples of how this can be used... no knowledge is wasted